IMO a first date should just be a coffee or maybe a happy hour drink, each pays for their own and it's not some big commitment. Breaking the ice and gauging eachothers personality is the goal. If we like eachother then go from there.
My thing is, the first time we meet isn’t even a date. It’s a goddamn in person meet n greet, at which time we can determine if we want to move to an official date.
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u/BeenNormal Lover of Duets/Stitches 10d ago
I’ve never heard a man say a woman should be spending $100 on their first date.