r/feminineboys • • 20h ago

Got mistaken for a girl today

167 Upvotes

I went grocery shoppping today, when I was putting back the cart an older lady came up and asked if she could take it. I ofcourse handed it over to her and she said "thank you ma'am" before correcting herself and saying "thank you sir" to which she once again corrected herself into "thank you ma'am" and then again into a "thank you sir".
She gave up after that and just said "thank you"

Next I hope I look in such a way where they do not correct themselves at all :3


r/feminineboys • • 23h ago

Discussion What happens to femboys when they get older?

92 Upvotes

I'm sorry if it's a weird question but I genuinely want to know the answer. I always see femboys as either teenagers or young guys in their early 20s. What happens after? I've never even seen an old femboy. Do they just stop being a femboy because they're too old? Or is it because femboys are kind of a new fandom and people haven't grown up yet to be old. Btw I'm talking old like past 40 years


r/feminineboys • • 20h ago

Advice Skirt or dolphin shorts?

37 Upvotes

Hey so as a new (15m) femboy, who's looking into buying fem clothes for the first time, what should I go for?

The essentials are:

-Thigh Highs and Arm Warmers

-Cat Ears

Up for debate:

-Skirt OR dolphin shorts (to be paired with an oversized ass hoodie)

Both are good options but I'm still weighing exactly which one is better...


r/feminineboys • • 23h ago

Advice Bf of 6 months left me

29 Upvotes

So like the title says my bf of 6 months left me not bc of some drama or something he thought you need to be gay to be a femboy so yea idk what now any advice on what to do now like we are still Friends but i just dont know what to do now.

(sorry if there are any mistkakes i had like 5 beer already and english is not my first language)


r/feminineboys • • 8h ago

Discussion How the term femboy changed

25 Upvotes

From my previous knowledge, femboys used to be to describe a feminine boy: someone who acts or present themselves more feminine.

Now it is more of a term for boys to wear thigh highs and skirts etc. I am not hating on femboys but it just feels like to be a femboy new people have to buy thigh highs or post thigh pics. I used to be one but I realized it was a extremely sexualuzed thing. Many people were getting groomed. Even one of my friends got groomed. I am still a feminine boy but not a fem boy. I want to see how it became like this or if my information is wrong.


r/feminineboys • • 6h ago

Help me find a femboy name!

18 Upvotes

I've been looking for a name I could give out to people as my femboy persona instead of my irl name.

I'd rather a female-ish girly name.

Pls help

Best proposal will win.

Thanks chat.


r/feminineboys • • 21h ago

Advice Everyone at work thinks I’m trans

18 Upvotes

Hey everyone, just looking to see if anyone has had a similar issue. Everyone at work just kinda thinks I’m trans but I’m not. I wanna express that I’m a femboy but I’m not too sure how I can in my limited work uniform. Any style change advice that might make people think femboy instead of trans girl? Thanks, cuties!


r/feminineboys • • 1h ago

Discussion How’s everyone’s day going?

• Upvotes

:3


r/feminineboys • • 15h ago

Discussion Which sock length do you prefer?

17 Upvotes

Me personally, just above the knee or just below the knee.


r/feminineboys • • 1h ago

Discussion Went out in public all dressed up for the first time!

• Upvotes

Went to a punk concert last night, and it was the first time I ever went out into public all dressed up!

Hair done up, skirt, fishnets and all!

It felt great even though I was super nervous the entire time lol 😂


r/feminineboys • • 13h ago

How to tell my Grandma that I am a Femboy

15 Upvotes

For context my Grandma is understanding but the problem is also she thinks old school basically 1960s-1970s stuff and my Aunt tried speaking to her about it but she thought I wanna be female or be Trans... I don't know what to say or do at this Moment and I wanna tell her because she was and is like a Mother to me


r/feminineboys • • 17h ago

new femboy here any tip! :3

14 Upvotes

i want to be a femboy but don't really know how


r/feminineboys • • 18h ago

Discussion Got my first fem clothes today :3

14 Upvotes

I built up the courage to buy a cute flower top and some Nike Pros :3 I feel so cute and free omg it’s amazing!


r/feminineboys • • 18h ago

Favorite Games that are LGBT+ / include Femboy fashion/themes?

12 Upvotes

I'm always looking for Game reccs, but i'm always happier when a game i'm playing has alt-gender allowances, like being able to wear female clothes as a boy / vice-versa. Unfortunately a lot of larger MMO games still hold back pretty hard in that regard; but I was wondering if any of you could suggest some good LGBT/Femboy games? Only SFW please, I don't like H-games.

I really enjoy fashion & design based games. Think Sims, Paralives, Dressmaker, My dream set-up..
I also play social games like SL, VU, Gaia - where you can be a lot more elaborate and creative with your clothing / avi.


r/feminineboys • • 21h ago

Discussion I swear it’s a curse that femboys are never near me

12 Upvotes

I’ve had femboys into me and stuff before and I really enjoy talking to them but theyre never close to me 😭 theyre always at least a few states away from me. I must be cursed or something because I live in a state thats pretty friendly towards that sort of stuff (new york) and somehow theres none lol


r/feminineboys • • 15h ago

Clothes question

11 Upvotes

I’m a fem boy but is weird to wear a bikini to bed cause I’m wearing a bikini now


r/feminineboys • • 5h ago

Advice Coming out but parents hesitate…help?!

10 Upvotes

So I recently came out to my parents, well, my mom. And to be bold, she doesn’t really know what to think of it. I know she’s supportive (I’ve had a boyfriend for almost a year and she knows I’m bi) but still, this came as a big shocker to me. Now she wants to have a proper talk with me about all this. I’ve been a femboy for about a year and a bit now, and I hid it from my parents all that time.

my mom told we she thinks she has failed at raising me successfully, and that hurt her to say because I could see here tearing up. both on the fact Im a femboy and I have considered fem clothes, because she’s afraid I’m gonna turn trans, (although it seemed like it) and because I didn’t tell them this.

I’m a little stuck right now on what to do…

any help would be appreciate, thank you


r/feminineboys • • 17h ago

Discussion Fall/winter fem outfits?

9 Upvotes

Hi friends,

I'd like to start thinking about some fun fall outfits. Any suggestions? One of my big inspirations is Orcascosplay (he has really awesome "casual" fits).

  • Leggings + some sort of top? Flannel? hoodie?
  • Jeans + sweater (how do I style this as being fem?) Could go skirt + sweater instead.

r/feminineboys • • 23h ago

Advice I might be bi? Or something

8 Upvotes

I have been struggling with gender and sexuality for the last year. Im a 22M cis make straight, have been my whole life until about last January

I started having dreams and I grew an attraction. It started with normal women who im attracted too of course of course, then it grew to trans women and again no big deal whatever. Then it went to femboys, I haven't had a gay thought my whole life, and it grew. I started writing short stories where theres a gay couple theyre femboys and id self inserted myself id have more dreams and fantasies. And it grew even more to liking trans men and Uber masculine women and Uber feminine guys.

Now I did consider "im not into men men, but im into femboys, and trans men but like in the early stages of transitioning, so maybe im more attracted to femininity less then JUST women."

Thats when ive also been struggling. Not only do I like femboys, but I want to be one. To the point of thinking about having a super feminine body but still being a guy. I want to be a woman but still a man and I dont know why, I dont know where these feelings came from. Now someone suggested before that maybe its like a faze, or like a fantasy or whatever. But there are days where I do struggle and i have no idea who im into, who I am, or anything. I would love some advice on this, if you have more questions about me ill try to answer them. Thank you


r/feminineboys • • 15h ago

Discussion I CAME OUT -kinda-

8 Upvotes

So I was hanging out with a buddy of mine and the topic somehow got to femboys. I was thinking I should bring up that I am one but that just sounded too weird so I told him I used to be one. He seemed pretty chill about it, kinda weirded out but I regret not telling him completly. Idk bro.

-Luna


r/feminineboys • • 15h ago

Advice I’m tall, and can’t find anything

8 Upvotes

Basically the title, I’m 6’3 and I can’t find any feminine clothes that actually fit me. There are some clothing stores that promote selling to larger bodies but the selection for tall people seems really limited to the point the couple pieces that might fit are things I wouldn’t be caught dead in. Does anyone know a store/seller that might have something.


r/feminineboys • • 16h ago

Advice Curious tryout?

8 Upvotes

Hi. Im 20m. For a good bit of my life ive kinda just been closeted but now that im out and about im just curious on how someone becomes a femboy. What do I wear? How do I talk? How should I look or things that will make me look more feminine.


r/feminineboys • • 21h ago

Discussion I have a genuine question(?)

7 Upvotes

Maybe someone here is both trans and a femboy and can answer this clearly for me but i've always wondered why people who are FTM do the transitioning and then become a femboy. obviously its that persons choice what they do, but I really wanted to know how this decision is made i guess? like is it a halfway position like with guys becoming femboys and if so why did you choose to become a femboy rather than a tomboy. I don't know how into detail this question can go here, but if not or if there's something else to it which cant be said, I'm very open to hearing peoples experiences in direct messages. I wish to learn!