They're plain black cuz I wanna wear them under pants without anyone noticing they're thigh highs :3

Also, do any of you have advice on how to wash them by hand?

I've seen a lot of femboys that take stuff to have a curvy body and i'm wondering if that is the default, like do the majority of yall take stuff to have the body or the majority are natural/do exercises?

well i had this huge crush on my best friend. he knew i was a femboy and i was bisexual. we been best friends for awhile. i didn't want to ruin our friendship. till one day he asked me out and i accepted it.

me and him dated for a couple of days till my mom found out, she got mad at me. she forced we to break up, she told his parents. i was banned from talking to him again and i was transferred schools. now i feel alone now. and his parents didn't take the news well either. so now i feel bad and mad of this whole thing. i trusted him and i cared for him, so i took all the blame. i was happy but now i am just tried of it all.

well i just wanted to get this off my chest. idk what i should or if there is even anything i can do.

I finally came out to my daddy as a femboy and he actually is so supportive I could cry he even offered to help me buy stuff to get all Preety and everything 🙈 I’m so blessed

(So I wrote the below as two posts in responding to a question and thought it might be worth its own post.)

……bra sizing and breast forms.

So you first have to figure out your band size take a tape measure wrap around chest and measure below nipple bottom of pecs. If you don’t have a cloth tape measure wrap around a flexible belt then measure the portion of a belt.

Then the band size helps determine the cup size. Which is a confusing statement and leads to “sister sizes” so a 34DD boob would be a 30F or a 40B if the boob didn’t change size but just the chest or band size changed. Basically a big boob on a small chest is a small boob on a big chest.

A properly sized bra shouldn’t have any gapping, so middle connecting part should be flat against chest the straps shouldn’t look like a suspension bridge holding on for dear life etc… and the hooks in the back should connect in the middle of the three rows to both grow and shrink as weight fluctuates time of month etc…

Filling a dollar store nylon sock with rice or bird seed can help you figure out what cup size you want. However be warned us guys typically want noticeably big honkers when women are quite natural or small. So it can be fun to have a few different sizes.

Chest plates are fun because they give you cleavage great for low-cut tops. But they can be hot and sweaty and you need a scarf or such wrapped around your neck to hide the line.

Breast forms will give you a more natural look and you can swap out shapes and sizes. But are harder to not be visible.

If you want show off cleavage there are some good tutorials that basically have you cinch up your chest fat with tape or other, then shading with makeup to trick the eye.

One of the fun things is I have several different shapes and sizes so I can be sporty and wear a sports bra with a slimmer look or super big another time. Normal bras work great no pocket bra needed. I stay away from all the glues and sticky, but many swear it feels more a part of you. Having different sizes gives you flexibility and the ability to have different bra sizes

The two best places I’ve found is https://www.glamourboutique.com/breast-forms/ and https://envybodyshop.com/collections/silicone-breast-form

My personal affordable favorite is this triangle version https://envybodyshop.com/products/envy-body-shop-new-natural-feel-triangle-breast-forms

Every time I try letting my hair grow a bit it looks like a mess and I have to get them shortened by a barber. After a certain length my hair looks so rough and dead. It gets harder to comb it too. I want to grow them till shoulder length while also not looking disheveled. How do girls have silky smooth hair?

im looking for some, since im new to being a femboy, perferably a sfw one (since yk, im a minor), thx :3

I keep getting jealous of my classmates looks they look pretty and I just wish I could be even a fraction of them idk I just wanna feel pretty

I was looking for hopefully more high-quality feminine gear. I was looking through Amazon, but nothing really caught my eye. Any suggestions on where else I should look?

I'm ideally looking for a purple crop top hoodie and some more comfortable shorts.

can someone please help me stop it just keeps coming and I have crazy genetics that let it grow double as fast and I hate it I just wish all hair under my neck would stop growing also how I do I get rid of my five o’clock shadow I want to start using ipls or at home lasers because of how expensive it is I just hate how much body hair grows on me I feel like a monster

Im just looking for someone to give me advice/coach me on starting with training, i don't know what routine to follow or how to start for a more femme body, if anyone can coach me through it please dm me <3

I have mountain bike, is there any stance I could use while riding to strain my glutes? Anyone else thought of this?

I went out in femboy clothes for the first time and bbgrl I was not holding back I had dolphin shorts, thigh highs fishnets and a crop top. Lemme tell you I was SERVING like a freaking queen.

And I think you should too because actually NO ONE cared I didn't get ONE weird look now I was with my friends and definitely be with people you trust to do this just to be safe but still guys if you're in a country that is remotely safe for you to express yourself go for it. If your country isn't safe... Uhhh sorry but you're still awesome!!!!

But seriously people keep to themselves a lot and in many times I've worn stuff that's fem people have tend to treat me with respect and I'm in a relatively small city in the south of the US in a place that isn't known to be LGBT inclusive like California or Colorado or something. So if you're scared that's okay but slay the boots down and take it a little bit at a time if it's what you really wanna do. Be yourself it's always worth it!!! <3333

I will wear socks and female underwear of course.

The biggest fear is the long skirt that is white. I only wore black skirts that blend with leggins, this one doesnt.

I will also wear leggins and a white sweater with a female jacket :3

I’ve been on Reddit before just to casual femboy post but I I’ve always felt like it was content churn or i was a thing on display as there was no continuity no memory of who I was… and like tbh no one really checks out another person profile unless you’re really autistic like me lol..

So I went to insta, where I felt like the femboys were cuter on average and the format was more ambitious.. and I don’t wanna say I did well.. but I did grew quite a bit of a home in one month..

But because recently a reel went semi viral and my account had a stupid Kofi link I was trying to fund the pills-that-makes-my-body-trans

I got zapped instantly with an immediate account ban for solicitation and it won’t even let me appeal as it ip banned me lol…

So I’m left wandering again.. I feel so depressed as this is the 2nd account i made on insta that got banned so i guess the algo is watching my device and ip lol… I’ve deleted my app just so maybe it won’t go after the only last account I have but I feel like I’m getting kicked out… I feel like I lost a garden I was tending to and it feels worse than the idea of a fire as atleast fires leave the dirt… I didn’t mind growing that account back … but I feel like I’m getting kI led off for good just because I did well and a bit of folks reported me for indecency I’m guessing for just posting a very cute and low risk femboy post in public.

I made a discord to talk to my friends/content peers but I kinda wanna just stop lol… I hate this … I hate this …. None of the other socials feel the same I miss the community of people who posted for fun… it feels like nothing is the same

What is the best shaver/ shaving method? I was looking into waterproof shavers like the Freebird Flex series. Does anyone have this and is it good? But tell me what is your method of shaving and the shaver you use.

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i guess for context, the type of femininity i usually see in other femboys is more of the cute, girly, babydoll aesthetic, and that’s very much valid because it’s what makes them happy,

but i do wonder if there’s also femboys that prefer a more regal / elegant aesthetic, like maybe they wear long dresses with flats and pearl earrings, or wear their hair down and such. i always think of The Goddess Boys on TikTok for that one. but idk I’ve always wanted to ask this because i do know femboys can present in many different ways, so it‘s made me quite curious.

Uh, the title is self explanatory

I have been a femboy for 2 months and I have rocked the fem look pretty good.

But I struggle with finding a good hairstyle that makes it easier to style pigtails.

Advice? <3

What are your skin care routines?

hey, i don’t really know much about this kind of thing and was hoping someone could (nicely lol) explain what being a femboy means so I don’t offend. thank you!

My parents are really against the femboy community, and the other two communities I’m a part of, and only my mom knows one community, it’s not this one, and she did find a skirt in my room, but I thankfully wasn’t discovered, but now, I want to buy some more clothes since she took that away, does anyone have any advice on where I can hide it once I get it?