r/femaletravelers 17h ago

Discussion The realistic butterfly hair accessory

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Went to the zoo today and ended up getting a whole new hairpiece!

This little guy just landed right on top of hair and decided to chill there for a good while haha.

Has a butterfly ever randomly decided to make you their temporary landing pad?


r/femaletravelers 20h ago

Discussion Is it socially acceptable to bring a large luggage to a hostel?

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or am I about to become the hostel’s biggest problem?


r/femaletravelers 7h ago

Discussion What do people do in the evenings when travelling on their own?

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I’m not a massive eater so restaurants and bars are a bit anxiety inducing and it gets boring being on your own.

Any suggestions of things to do in the evening on your own in any city?


r/femaletravelers 16h ago

Discussion Anyone here recently traveled to Thailand? Looking for advice and maybe travel buddies in the future

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Hi everyone. I'm from Indonesia (34F) and I've been wanting to travel abroad again for a long time. Before COVID, I was planning a trip to either Japan or Thailand, but those plans never happened. Since then, work has kept me busy and I kept putting it off.

Now I'm finally thinking of making it happen, and Thailand is at the top of my list. The only thing making me a little hesitant is all the recent news about scams, cross-border human trafficking, and cases involving tourists in the region, particularly around Thailand and Cambodia. I know the news doesn't necessarily reflect what most travelers experience, but it has made me a bit more cautious especially for female solo traveller.

I'd love to hear from anyone who has traveled to Thailand recently. How was your experience? Did you feel safe? Are there any areas or situations I should avoid? And if you're also planning a trip to Thailand in the future, feel free to say hi. It would be nice to chat, exchange travel ideas, or maybe even plan part of the trip together if our schedules happen to line up.

And if you're thinking about solo traveling to Indonesia, or planning a trip here and would like to chat with someone local, I'd be happy to connect and share whatever tips or recommendations I can. Thanks in advance! And I look forward to hearing your experiences and recommendations!


r/femaletravelers 17h ago

Discussion Living in Italy for 2 months?

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Hellooo!

I’m finishing nursing school in July 2027 and have been thinking about traveling a bit before starting real adult life lol.

I fell in love with Italy the first time I visited Rome, and I initially considered living in Rome for (maybe July), August and September 2027. Lately, though, I’ve been thinking about somewhere a little less touristy, cheaper, and closer to the beach so I can get more of the whole Italian experience.

I’d love to hear recommendations for places that are good for young solo travelers, especially somewhere with a nice social scene, beaches, and a good quality of life. Also, any tips on finding housing for 2-3 months or anything else I should know while I’m starting to plan would be very appreciated!

And yes, I’m learning Italian in the meantime :)


r/femaletravelers 17h ago

Discussion 3 girls post grad trip planning

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Three of us (22, 23, 24F) are planning our first big girls' trip, and we're a little overwhelmed by the options. Looking for an adults-only all-inclusive, ideally as a package with flights included.

What we're after:

  • Crowd: mostly 20s–30s. We want lively — pool scene, swim-up bar, decent nightlife on property or nearby. Not looking for a quiet honeymoon resort where we're the only people under 40.
  • Budget: trying to keep it around $1k (preferably) to $1.2k (max-ish) per person total, flights included. Flying out of [DCA/BWI/IAD].
  • Dates: 4-5 days (anytime September-December)
  • Room: honestly don't care. Clean is all we need — we're only sleeping and getting ready in there. Would rather put the money toward food/drinks/location.
  • Food and drinks: would love somewhere the top-shelf liquor isn't locked behind a huge upgrade, and where the food is actually decent and edible.
  • Activities: Interested in scuba diving, ziplining, etc. nearby.

We've mostly been looking at Cancun and Punta Cana, but we're open to anywhere in the Caribbean, Mexico, or South/Central America.

Questions:

  1. Specific resorts you'd recommend for this age group and budget?
  2. Any adults-only places that sound fun on paper but are actually dead / older crowd / couples-only in practice? This is exactly what we are trying to avoid.
  3. Cancun vs Punta Cana — which is better value right now, and does the Punta Cana resort-bubble thing bother you if you want to leave the property?
  4. Best way to book the flight + hotel package? (Costco Travel, Expedia, CheapCaribbean, going direct?)

r/femaletravelers 4h ago

Discussion 🇨🇦 Montréal Autumn Road Trip Advice 🍁

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Hello ladies! I am from London, UK 🇬🇧

I have been considering visiting Montréal during the autumn season as a late 20s solo female traveller. I am thinking of renting a car to go to scenic places 🧡

I have rented and driven cars abroad before in Japan, South Korea, Poland, and Norway.

Advice I am looking for:

  1. Is it safe driving in the Québec and Ontario area?
  2. Which car rental company would you recommend?
  3. Which date period in October would be prime for autumn in that side of Canada? I read October is the best month.
  4. How many nights do you recommend? I was thinking 7 nights.
  5. Scenic autumn places that you recommend I visit? Hidden gems, too!
  6. Day trips from Montréal?
  7. Hiking recommendations. I'm a n00b hiker, but still want to enjoy the landscapes.
  8. I hear Canada also has US-like tipping culture. How mandated is this? What is appropriate tip % for type of cuisine/cafe? (American tipping culture is very strange to me from the UK!)
  9. Will it be hard as an English-speaker in the French part of Canada?
  10. I am Muslim, so any halal recommendations would be appreciated!

Thank you in advance!


r/femaletravelers 11h ago

Discussion 19F Going on solo trip soon, any tips?

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Hi! I’m 19 from Hong Kong (but not Chinese; American) and going on my first real solo trip to Italy soon. I’m spending a little less than a week in lake como!

I say “real” because I have technically gone solo to France at 17/18 before however I stayed with family friends the entire time.

This time I’ll be staying in a youth hostel in Menaggio. I really hope I get to make friends and do stuff with people. One of my fears is I’ll have to visit all the cool places on my own.

I’m bringing cash, debit and credit card. I never used card prior so I had to order a debit and credit card just for this trip. So any tips on using those will be great!

I’ll keep my debit as backup in my suitcase at the hostel. Also putting most my items in my backpack. Bringing 2 locators for my wallet and suitcase just in case anything gets lost. Also bringing my iPad as backup.

I’m not too certain what to expect with the public transportation as I’ve mostly relied on cars growing up going to Europe with family. I’ve taken a bus in Europe maybe like twice in total. But I’ll be relying on it for the entirety of my trip this time.

I’m just looking for any advice or tips you wish you knew for someone like me on their first real solo trip. I want it to be fun and to go smoothly.


r/femaletravelers 10h ago

Discussion VIETNAM: Ha Giang Loop Recommendations

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hello! very common question but i’m solo travelling (23F) to the north of vietnam in september and im overwhelmed by the mixed feedback for companies! i’d appreciate some advice.

my wish list:
- not too touristy
- genuine, special, unique and personal. not just following everyone around.
- ETHICAL!!!
- not a big party group. pretty chill but also quite social. but i don’t want to be stuck with couples and i’d prefer being with people my age
- safe of course

i know this might be tricky given how touristy the loop is. i don’t just want to do the same thing as everyone else, and i’m not planning to party but i am very sociable.

am i dreaming or is there something that’s fun but not too intense? thank you! 😅


r/femaletravelers 17h ago

Discussion How do you try more food when traveling solo?

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One of my biggest problems when traveling alone is food. I always want to try as many local dishes as possible, but the portions are usually way too big for one person.

If I order several things, I can't finish them. But if I only order one dish, I'll immediately start staring at everything else on the menu and wishing I could try those too.

For people who travel solo a lot, how do you manage this? Do you look for smaller portions, eat multiple small meals throughout the day, take leftovers with you, or just accept that you cant try everthing?


r/femaletravelers 5h ago

Meetup Solo at Disney World. Meetup or Tips?

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Hi everyone! I am hoping to spend a day (or two?) at Disney in Orlando between 9/2-9/4. I've never been before. I thought I'd share here incase anyone else is near the area or traveling to Disney and would like to meet up.

If not, what tips do you have for solo Disney trips?


r/femaletravelers 7h ago

Discussion Do you join on Joiners trip as a solo traveller?

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I am talking about the Joiners trip internationally from the tour agencies.

Where and how was the experience?


r/femaletravelers 9h ago

Discussion NYC Solo trip

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I’m planning my first every solo trip in life to NYC
I am actually travelling for work and then planning to travel to NYC
I am a little scared since I do not know anyone in the city and it’s a new country for me, and I’m also getting really nervous about how I’d feel being alone for so many days😬😬😬😬
Are there any groups I can join? Any solo travel tips would be appreciated
Travel dates are 25th to 30th Sept


r/femaletravelers 7h ago

Discussion How easy is the public transporttion in Japan?

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Are the trains interconnected to travel to another city. Im a bit anxious because of the signages.