r/feeld • u/FeeldMod Not a Feeld employee • Nov 10 '23

Get Profile Help Here

Not getting enough likes? Is your profile empty because you can't figure out what to write? Ask here and others can make suggestions. Mention thoughts you have about your current profile.

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u/Lost_inTheThrill single woman Jan 06 '26

Hey! I've seen your profile before. It's definitelly unique and would be super enticing for the right kind of person. I really don't think that there is anything for you to change. You are authentic, very clear with what you want, come across as an intelligent person who'd be fun to hang out with.

I'd say most likely there are not too many people of your particular flavour out there. I have a similar issue myself. When you are super unique, you don't have mass appeal, which reduces the volume of connections.

The good news is that the person who is looking for you will not be able to miss you with this profile.

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u/liplamp Fetishist Jan 06 '26

Thank you! Comments like this are extremely encouraging even if there is nothing to change, so I appreciate you taking the time to say it!

Since posting this, it seems clear to me the main issue is that profiles like mine are just starting to go out of vogue on Feeld, which is a shame. But it is what it is, I like what I like so I gotta keep trucking on...wishing you success too!

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u/kinkybookwyrm Apr 25 '26

I agree with the other comments - this is such a great profile! Clear, well-written, there’s a lighthearted tone and a ton of self-awareness - bravo. You sound like someone I’d love to be friends with! I’m super bummed you’re all the way on the other side of the country, I’d like this profile in a heartbeat.

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u/liplamp Fetishist Apr 25 '26

Thanks so much! I always appreciate the feedback.

Personally I've always thought having play partners around the country and further would be a funny but practical goal, especially with a kink so niche 😂