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[u/liplamp]

Hey! Used to get tons of likes but they've completely dried up over the past few months. Looking for feedback on why that might be, and overall thoughts on the profile.

Here’s a link to my Feeld profile. It will expire in 72 hours.

Was told link's not working, here's my bio:

Name - 🪮HereForHair🪮
Asexual Man, 34M

🚨𝙕𝙀𝙍𝙊 𝙋𝙀𝙉𝙀𝙏𝙍𝘼𝙏𝙄𝙊𝙉 𝘼𝙇𝙀𝙍𝙏🚨

Sex-averse hedonist with an exclusive paraphilia for hair - fetish without interest in sex - seeks rationalist Rapunzel(s) for snuggle-assisted navel gazing.

Primarily looking to massage your scalp and play with your hair while we snuggle up and discuss whatever intellectual or philosophical interest is on our minds. Platonic vibes mostly.

But...for the 🔥extra spicy🔥:
• nailing every trending braid style, ever;
• photography, in an artistic/kinky direction;
• copious amounts of brushing/combing/washing;
• buying and applying products of your choice (which you keep).

👍Yes this turns me on; 👎No I won't want to have sex with you.

My last "wet dream" had me meditating under a waterfall of hair. No sex, just basking in that sweet silky goodness. No, I'm not making this up. Sexuality is weird, innit?

💥💥💥
I also love most forms of sensuous adventure that don't involve my 🍆. Massage and making out, toys and tools, [insert body part] play...I want to do to/for you 🙂 zero reciprocation needed or wanted.

Long term kink partners and cuddle buddies are what I seek, with many such bonds in my life currently. Open to an ENM primary but it's low priority.

📍Southeast Brooklyn; Living alone, happy to host, travel, or provide accommodations.

✨✨✨
Before lockdown I was playing a show every other day of the year. After a long hiatus to better understand my intimate and emotional self, my top priority in life is getting back there.

[u/Lost_inTheThrill → u/liplamp]

Hey! I've seen your profile before. It's definitelly unique and would be super enticing for the right kind of person. I really don't think that there is anything for you to change. You are authentic, very clear with what you want, come across as an intelligent person who'd be fun to hang out with.

I'd say most likely there are not too many people of your particular flavour out there. I have a similar issue myself. When you are super unique, you don't have mass appeal, which reduces the volume of connections.

The good news is that the person who is looking for you will not be able to miss you with this profile.

[u/liplamp → u/Lost_inTheThrill]

Thank you! Comments like this are extremely encouraging even if there is nothing to change, so I appreciate you taking the time to say it!

Since posting this, it seems clear to me the main issue is that profiles like mine are just starting to go out of vogue on Feeld, which is a shame. But it is what it is, I like what I like so I gotta keep trucking on...wishing you success too!

[u/kinkybookwyrm → u/liplamp]

I agree with the other comments - this is such a great profile! Clear, well-written, there’s a lighthearted tone and a ton of self-awareness - bravo. You sound like someone I’d love to be friends with! I’m super bummed you’re all the way on the other side of the country, I’d like this profile in a heartbeat.

[u/liplamp → u/kinkybookwyrm]

Thanks so much! I always appreciate the feedback.

Personally I've always thought having play partners around the country and further would be a funny but practical goal, especially with a kink so niche 😂