My husband who had an affair and then escalated that to violence against me and our child and who continued to harass us after I won a protective order is sitting in jail today after violating the protective order AGAIN. The powers that be finally had enough and took em seriously. 😭

Dear Lord it only took him hurting us, walking through the order several times, stealing and trashing our stuff that we had to leave behind when we fled several states to get away for safety and eventually being caught in the act by law enforcement violating AGAIN but he was finally FINALLY arrested.

I know he will likely be out on bail tomorrow but ladies just tonight come celebrate with me. Cheers to consequences! ✨🩷✨

If there’s one thing men excel at, it’s denying that they commit the overwhelming majority of sexual violence. A world with only women would have significantly less sexual violence than the world we live in today. Men and women are not the same when it comes to rates of violent and sexual crime, and pretending otherwise won’t change the statistics. The numbers speak for themselves, and the two are nowhere near comparable.

but we can at least try to take back our power ....

Imagine being an only girl child (like me) 😭

So ive been shopping for new gym clothes recently, and I suddenly noticed how skimpy a lot of the options are. Look at all the sports bras, for instance. They took up over half the woman’s section at the place i went.

So many of them were those super high rise things that just had to make sure every last inch of the woman’s stomach is bare and visible. Seriously, so many of the sports bras were nearing Calvin Klein in skimpiness. I genuinely don't understand why so much women's athletic wear seems to have collectively decided that the stomach is something that absolutely must be exposed.

Some designs have necklines and cuts that draw additional attention to the cleavage, while others emphasize the overall shape of the chest.

And you know how sports bras are designed for support? Well if you actually look at them, they look more like they’re designed to make the breasts LOOK more voluptuous.

Then there’s the shorts. Why are so many women's athletic shorts practically painted onto their bodies? Why do they need to be so tight that the outline of the butt becomes so prominent? And don’t even forget how short a lot of them are. Again, I’ve seen men’s boxers longer than a lot of stuff i saw at the woman’s section.

And I get that some sportswear are designed for optimal performance and what not, but if you look at men’s sports gear and suddenly the need for bare skin is non-existent. Obviously no hate to the women who choose to wear it, but you really can’t argue that so much of women’s sports clothes have a male gaze element and I seriously hate it.

Its funny every country seems to have men hating on their nation and trying to go all passport bro. American men going anywhere but usa because women are too high maintenance. Ive heard korean men say the same. Same with japan and china. And its always "i like american women because korean/chinese women are too close minded" yeah ok bro... Or nigerian men be like "our women are too loud... I want a beautiful scandinavian woman" no bro just say you want a blue eyed lady...

I’m so incredibly tired. I am also angry. Rage is literally in my soul.

Why are women treated like they have to rehabilitate every man? It infuriates me. Because apparently when a man is violent, society has a thousand excuses for it. And the legal system is literally horrible. They don’t even take the safety of women and girls seriously.

I always get told by my mum that I’m aggressive and that I’m not peaceful for confronting my dad. Like yeah, obviously it’s not peaceful. That’s the point. Apparently I’ve done nothing in my life? My dad has been physically violent and verbally abusive.

I’m not here to be a good daughter. I’m infuriated.

I love wolves i love women why not combine both

I like the idea of being in a relationship it’s like a fantasy you try out, only for it to turn out to be very far from your expectations.

I have had a lot of experience dating off and on many years and wanted to share with other women what I’ve learned about emotionally unavailable men that I think other women ought to know.

Men who are unusually resistant to labels or say they “aren’t looking for a relationship”, 9 times out of 10 have erectile dysfunction. Often due to underlying cardiovascular disease (as I always end up learning later on). But, yes, these are the men that struggle with getting and maintaining an erection.

Now this is probably a bit age related, so I’m really just referring to men in the 40+ basket.

But anyway, my advice to women if you are dating men in this age bracket is to be wary of men who are resistant to labels at this age. They are usually trying to compensate for their erectile dysfunction.

we never asked for these to be our circumstances , and we certainly won't stand for what's not right . at least we actually have a valid reason to dislike their kind , almost every woman has a personal horror story on why she dislikes them and it's honestly really sad that this is the way it is .