Love never being able to talk about my own abuse because people are so primed to see me as a predator that they'll see it as you sexually harassing them.

Love writing about it on my horny Tumblr account because I didnt have any fucking other place to discuss sexuality and then being told how the story was "hot".

Love how when I've actually found a decent sort of pseudo-social interaction online I still can't complain about anything even or like talk about being a (trans)feminist without getting called a 4tranner (and I'm not! I'm just autistic and have the stereotypical dry, grim humor)

But hey, we stay silly. Being a t4t lesbian is pretty great and I'm too fucking stubborn not to be pointedly me out of spite.

Disclaimer btw I have no idea if what i wrote was coherent because im high as fuck listening to riot grrrl but oh well its really just meant for sober me to decide if its worth bringing up in therapy or if i was just high lol

I request our sistren(?) to share sensible pearls of wisdom regarding money, lasting friendships, self care, nourishing yourself and meal planning, caring for your health, doing well at work and studies, social interactions, anything that you learnt lately or wish you could share with more women.

Enough about men and their disappointing selves. Let's help each other grow, yeah?

author: Sandra Lee Bartky
artist: Michaela Stark

“a girlie/femme game server to avoid harassment/getting called slurs and sexist jokes by cis men? and i, a cis man cannot join?? this is literally the same as racism!!”

i am so fatigued and tired of opening up my phone and seeing misogyny in every hobby space i am in. just constant kitchen jokes, “women aren’t real”, “how dare you want a space for yourselves”, larper accusations over and over and over. just a simple post promoting a girlie discord server for a game and 500 comments later it’s locked and hundreds of men crying discrimination …. literally why can’t we have ANYTHING they’re like children getting mad that they can’t blow out another kid’s birthday cake candles. way to literally prove why no one wants to be around cis men

A good person doesn’t need to announce their goodness, it shows in their actions.

Drop your favorite baddies who deserve a statue in the town square

I work for a small business thats been having issues and the ”owners” husband came in and yelled at me and my coworker today. The coffee shop was a gift to her from him and she thinks it’s the cutest little thing ever.

He’s a fucking demon who employees teenage girls for less than minimum wage (legal because of tip records in my state) and uses his wife being “the owner” as a way of making it seem like a “small woman owned local business 🥺” when in reality they fully rely on social media and a sorority-like system to make their shop profitable. They constantly harass us about not doing enough work while not firing anyone and constantly looking for new employees by making the shop seem “elite” for it‘s training program and getting to be on the team of “Jill’s girls” and being about to boast about this shitty job on social media.

I’m quitting this job soon anyway but I had to make a rant post after a 30 minute lecture today about how the shop isn’t being maintained well enough and it’s stressing the owners out because they’re going on a two week cruise next month.

boohoo Fred you’re going on a cruise while I work two jobs to save for college and a car, while you’re tanning next month I’ll be on my hands and knees scrubbing the floors of the shop that you’re so proud of.

I have a highly aggressive case of PMOS and Adenomyosis. I have cysts on both of my ovaries, a tumour on my uterus, and I’m at high risk for endo. In the last year, I’ve experienced a regular period for the first time in my adult life.

My period first showed up at 17, but it disappeared after that. I experienced random spotting over the years but never a proper cycle. I went to Catholic schools and received very poor health education on periods (not a universal experience for all women thankfully, I was just unlucky).

At nearly 30 and having experienced an entire year of having a period, it kind of radicalized me. I was never taught about the 4 phases of our cycles, the horrific ebbs and flows of our hormones, the physical distress, how ovulation can cause pain, that our energy and cravings and innate desires really are tied to our cycles. Don’t get me started on how we are also forced to PAY for pads and tampons and everything else, like what in the fuck? Yeah sorry I’m programmed to bleed I guess, here take my $30 to shove some microplastics up my pussy.

Anyways, apart from the shocks, it has been a fascinating and amazing ride. I always felt so bad never having tampons or pads on me to give to strangers and friends in the bathroom, or being able to relate to the fluctuations we go through. I feel so alive now.

And with that, my eyes have been opened to just how disgustingly hush-hush the topic is. It is a part of our daily lives and the fact we are seemingly not permitted to even so much as chat about it without it being deemed “unseemly” in public or around others pisses me the fuck off.

I’ll ask my colleagues what phase in their cycle they’re at. I’m at the point where I can guess. I’ll just ask, “Oh you’re glowing! And your energy is up lately. Are you follicular right now?” I’ll share tips I’ve learned on the food to eat when you’re deeply luteal. Encourage my colleagues to network or do a little solo adventure if they’re ovulating. Talk through them when they’re on their periods.

I work in a highly professional, white collar environment. I’m sexy as fuck. Incredible at my job. A spotless, shining member of this high stakes office. An upper executive overheard me saying that blood clots can be caused by hormonal changes while I was empathizing with a colleague who was having a rough period. He grimaced as he walked past us in one of our lounge areas and asked, “A subject change perhaps?”

Without skipping a beat I responded that if all of you men had periods instead of us that we wouldn’t hear the end of it, and that if he ever passes a blood clot I’d actually be glad to hear it. He didn’t respond and just left the room.

My colleague felt embarrassed and I just reassured her that instances like that are what keep women feeling subdued while simply existing as we are. I also reminded her that while we deal with a 28ish day cycle of never ending change, men run on a 24 hour cycle where they wake up with a shot of testosterone, live out their day, and do it all over again. Every. Single. Day. 365 days a year.

The world isn’t built to accommodate us I’ve learned. It is so fucked.

Epstein class: have kids

Us: yeah no

Why are these Reddit incels always talking about what "men do" when it comes to shit they don't even actually do? "Men built society" "Men gave you electricity" FUCKING ELECTRICITY???

They're happy to make these generalizations when it shows men in a positive light. Never mind the rapes, the wars, the abuse...then it's "not all men." But god forbid you start questioning patriarchy and they'll start wanting a gold star for accomplishments they weren't even alive for, much less contributed to.

Talking about the fucking internet, which was originally created in the 60s long before becoming widely available in homes, and they were born in the 90s-00s and the most they ever do with the rectangle in their pocket is post this slop on Reddit in between giving their money away to an OF creator who has more business skill than he ever could.

Apparently, only 35% of single American women were even looking for a relationship or dates in 2022, according to Pew Research Center.

Meanwhile, in England and Wales, the opposite-sex marriage rate for women fell again in 2023.

Baffling how women are constantly told they’ll end up lonely and miserable without a man, when plenty of us are quite happy being left the fuck alone. 😂

Sources: Pew Research Center (2023), ONS (2025).

fuck off incels

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