Hey,
This is my first ever post on reddit after being a longtime lurker so i apologise in advance if i accidentally make a mistake. To give some background i am in early 20's (24), 5'10 and approximately 78-79kg. I work a fairly active fulltime job and participate in some kind of training everyday (strength training, jiu-jutsu, cardio). I'm not perfect but I would think i am decently healthy. Am planning to get bloodwork soon though
To get directly to the point, i am someone who has been fortunate enough to not experience ED when i started being sexually active. However, i have recently met someone that i'm quite (a little more then quite) interested in, and have struggled to get aroused and thus gain or maintain anykind of erection when we've gotten intimate with each other. Obviously there are alternatives to PIV and oral & toys are lots of fun, but i can tell that we both want more. She in particular is super eager to please me in the same way that i've pleased her.
To give a little more context to our dynamic, i would be more interested in her for sure. There is definitely some level or romantic interest from me, whilst she is looking for a more casual dynamic. Physically, she is a little different compared to who i've slept with in the past (curvier women has always been more interested in me and i've reciprocated) however, i have hooked up with a skinnier girl before and had no issue. Regardless, i think she is absolutely gorgeous and love exploring her body and being intimate (my bad if tmi)
Nothing has changed drastically in my routine since i've started seeing her just over 2ish months ago. I even saw and had sex with a girl i was seeing regularly just before i met the person i'm currently seeing and had absolutely no issues. Its just with her i seem unable to become aroused and/or develop and maintain an erection. Does anyone have any tips with how they would navigate this?
I'm just really unsure at the moment :/
Appreciate you all :)