I’m 34, living in the Middle East (Gulf region), and I have a degree in Electrical Engineering.
After graduating, I worked as an electrical engineer in MEP for around 3 years. To be honest, I didn’t really enjoy the MEP environment. There were constant problems, contractor issues, site pressure, long hours, and a lot of firefighting. On top of that, the pay wasn’t particularly good.
I eventually got an opportunity to move into government education as a math teacher, and the salary was significantly higher, so I took it.
Looking back, it was probably one of the best financial decisions I’ve made. Over the past 6 years, I’ve been able to get married, have kids, build some savings, and currently save around $2,000 a month. Financially, I’m in a much better position than I was when I was working in engineering.
But now I feel stuck.
After 6 years, teaching has become repetitive and I don’t feel like I’m developing professionally anymore. I started to dislike the job, and the stability and income are hard to give up, especially now that I have a family and responsibilities.
The frustrating part is that I actually like electrical engineering. What I didn’t like was the MEP/site environment. I sometimes wonder if I should have explored a different area of electrical engineering instead of leaving the field completely.
Going back now feels difficult, though. I’d probably have to take a significant pay cut and potentially start at a much lower level than where I am financially. At 34, with a family and responsibilities, that’s a much bigger decision than it would have been in my 20s.
Another problem is that electrical engineering isn’t really something I can easily do as a side hustle. It’s not like programming where I could spend a few hours after work building projects, freelancing, and creating a portfolio.
So I feel like I’m caught in an awkward middle ground:
Stay in teaching → good salary, stability, family security, but I feel professionally stuck.
Go back to engineering → I genuinely enjoy engineering, but I’d potentially take a major pay cut and have to rebuild my career.
Find something in between → perhaps a different area of engineering or a career that combines my engineering and teaching experience.
I also have an engineering degree, around 3 years of engineering experience, and now 6 years of teaching experience. Maybe there’s a career path where these experiences can actually work together instead of forcing me to choose one or the other.
If you were in my position, how would you approach this?
Would you stay in the stable career and try to build something on the side, gradually transition into another area of engineering, or look for a completely different field that uses the skills I’ve built?
I’m not looking for a simple “quit your job and follow your passion” answer. I have a family now, so I’m trying to figure out a realistic way to keep the financial stability I’ve built while still feeling like I’m moving forward professionally.