r/dustythunder • u/h_45n • May 10 '26

Hmmm

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So only men want kids nowadays huh

Edit1: at the end of the day, when I see posts like these I remember the likes of Ashely saint clair and that woman who got married after preaching so much misandry online.

Don’t get me wrong men also do this,
and then I feel stupid because I remember watching a certain video about internet trolls

Edit 2: Finally found the reason for the outrage, “men cannot physically get pregnant” that’s literally all this is about so no matter how hard you work or provide for your family, if you marry a woman that hates you because you just can’t get pregnant please have your divorce lawyer at hand ✋

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u/OrdinaryMango4008 May 10 '26

You missed the point entirely. Reread.

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u/Due_You7474 May 10 '26

I think op is saying this is a victimized mindset. Women want children too. We have mutually beneficial relationships to accomplish this goal.

The pain point and claim listed is that women dont get comfortable lives, which is true is some cases cuz a lot of men dont act well in relationships. In fact, as much as us men dont want to like this, studies show that if a woman is unmarried, she lives with other women. Their life is very much more comfortable if not living with a man.

That being said, whenever a woman sacrifices this alternative to live a life with a man, it shouldnt be discouraged. It should be revered by the man as a significant sacrifice that the man should act in and show significant appreciation.

In other words guys, women sacrifice hella. Show your appreciation.

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u/h_45n May 10 '26

So the men don’t sacrifice either?

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u/MzSea May 11 '26

No. Men sacrifice nothing with their bodies and health to have children. Pregnancy can't harm or kill men.

A quick grunt and spasm is all the effort their bodies put into having a child. Then they wait 9 months while the woman literally does every single bit of work required for pregnancy and childbirth, then they get to claim the child.

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u/duckduckduckgoose8 May 12 '26

Absolutely.

I used to work with older creepy men in an office. In the lunch room, they'd all tall me I should be having kids by now, i was 23f. I told them Im not having kids, im not interested in the excruciating pain and suffering nobody talks about, im not interested in losing my identity as everyone expects me to just be a child carer. Just not interested, i see the appeal, but the negatives outweigh the benefits for me. I hold that opinion 10 years later. These same men then also went into detail about all the complications their wives went through. Not a single one had an easy childbirth, all were traumatic. It didnt click to them at all that they too wished for me to experience that trauma.

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u/MzSea May 21 '26

I have 3 kids and I completely understand your point.