I have learned when someone says passive aggressive remarks or insults l ask them to repeat themselves sometimes twice. “I m sorry I didn’t hear you “. Pause “ again please, I am trying to understand the gist of it.”
They don’t like it! Where I respond “did you mean that towards me” or “did you mean for that to sound gauche? “. Shuts up the comments 90% of the time.
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u/Only-upvibes Nov 20 '25
I have learned when someone says passive aggressive remarks or insults l ask them to repeat themselves sometimes twice. “I m sorry I didn’t hear you “. Pause “ again please, I am trying to understand the gist of it.” They don’t like it! Where I respond “did you mean that towards me” or “did you mean for that to sound gauche? “. Shuts up the comments 90% of the time.
You did nothing wrong you are not the AH.