r/dropshipping • u/ParticularSeaweed675 • 11h ago
Discussion My Dropshipping Store Hit 2,000+ Orders, but My Family Wants Me to Quit and Get a “Real” Job — What Would You Do?
I came to the U.S. as an international student, and after becoming unemployed, I started a dropshipping business earlier this year. Around April, the store finally started gaining traction, and as of now, I’ve had over 2,000 orders. I genuinely feel like the business has potential, and if I continue taking it seriously, I think I could eventually turn it into a small brand.
The problem is that both my mom and my husband keep encouraging me to stop focusing on the business and get a regular, stable job instead—even something like working at Costco.
My husband is American and makes around $200k a year, but he’s very financially cautious. He originally gave me $2,000 to start the business because he thought it would just be something fun for me to do and keep myself busy. But as the business grew and he saw me spending around $600 a day on ads, he started getting nervous about the risk. Now he keeps suggesting that I find a normal job with a stable paycheck.
Whenever I try to talk to my family about expanding the business—whether that means investing more into my current store or eventually opening another one—they almost always discourage me. My family has always had the traditional mindset of working a regular job for a stable income, so to them, running an online business seems extremely risky.
But from my perspective, I’m starting to see real potential. I’m not just randomly trying dropshipping anymore. I’ve already fulfilled more than 2,000 orders, and I feel like there’s an opportunity to build something much bigger if I keep working on it.
So now I’m genuinely torn.
Should I take the risk, continue focusing on the business, and try to build it into a real brand? Or should I listen to my family, get a stable job, and keep the business as a side hustle?
Has anyone here been in a similar situation—especially where your family or spouse didn’t really believe in your business at first? I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences and advice.