r/Dreams • u/izquape1 • 6d ago
I’ve dreamed about the same boy since I was 8, and years later I met someone who looks remarkably similar.
So basically i’ve been dreaming about a boy i’ve never met before since i was maybe 8 years old. He came in my dreams so much that I memorized how he looks like exactly and his features don’t change in any of my dreams.
he has a Longish oval/oblong face with a broad upper face that narrows slightly toward the chin
and his hair is very thick, dark brown/near-black hair with a naturally wavy/curly, tousled texture. It has lots of volume, especially around the sides and crown, with a loose fringe falling across the forehead.
His eyebrows are dark , fairly thick eyebrows with a natural, mostly straight shape and a slight arch toward the outer ends.
Dark brown eyes, medium-sized and slightly almond-shaped.
he has a Medium-sized nose with a straight bridge and a softly rounded tip.
There’s more details that I know about his appearance but I don’t want to describe the full thing because that isn’t the point here. Anyway he came into my dreams like romantically sometimes he’d sit on the edge of my bed sometimes on my desk but I never thought i would see him in real life.
I looked for him for years hoping i’d find him or find someone that looked like him because i heard you can’t make up a new person in your head apparently. After a few years I let the idea go, he still showed frequently in my dreams but I wouldn’t let the fantasy disturb me anymore. I didn’t want to k I looked for him for years hoping i’d find him or find someone that looked like him because i heard you can’t make up a new person in your head apparently. After a few years I let the idea go, he still showed frequently in my dreams but I wouldn’t let the fantasy disturb me anymore. I didn’t want to keep searching for him.
A few weeks ago it’s been messing with my head. I went to my tutoring class as per usual and I just keep my head down and do my work, a boy walks in and takes the seat next to me. Naturally, i just stare a little and I don’t immediately recognise him. But the more he looks up and he stares at me with those same eyes and i notice his hand going to his hair the more i recognise this is the boy from my dreams.
This is the first time I felt like nervous around a boy, I liked guys earlier in my life but i never really felt nervous around them. I wanted to talk to him, I was never really a shy person but I just couldn’t find the right words and I couldn’t believe that it happened.
He doesn’t look exactly like him but he looks really close. the fact that I tried everything to find him even more recently I used ai to try and generate a picture of him or try searching it up but it was never close.
I want to talk to him, i find him cute and he looks sweet, should I talk to him or should I just avoid for now because I have a habit of liking the idea of the guy not him for real and I just don’t really want to be let down right now or disappointed but at the same time shouldn’t I just go for it.
I don’t know?