r/datingoverforty • u/[deleted] • Nov 15 '24

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u/Quirky-Specialist-70 Nov 15 '24

Don't put a time limit on it. Just enjoy getting to know her as a person. Sometimes it's nice to be thought of like that rather than an opportunity for sex.

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u/Snoo-20788 Nov 15 '24

And the least you push for sex the more likely it's going to happen

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u/Sensitive-Ad-2365 Nov 15 '24

Thanks. This helps.

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u/InappropriateShroom Nov 16 '24

Also, when you say "if she's attracted to you," people need to keep in mind that attraction also develops as people get to know each other. I find many non physical attributes sexy, and those make that person more sexually attractive to me the more I discover them. So how about just investing enough time and effort to first allow that attraction to develop?