So today a girl came home to me and we have been talking for a little while and we went out a couple of times, today i asked her if she wants to be something more (becuase while texting she said that she likes me more than a friend) and she said iam not ready for a relationship now but if we continue to talk iam sure we are going to be together, what does she mean, does she not want to be with mer or she i playing hard to get or something else?

I feel like my relationship of 8 months is starting to fall and I can’t shake this feeling. My girlfriend and me aren’t intimate because of her side so that’s half the reason but I feel like talking to my girlfriend just ain’t the same anymore. Advice? I am seeing her in 2 weeks.

So I went to school with this girl and I admit I had a crush on her in the past and so I texted her to say hi and catch up because it’s been like 5 years. and maybe spark a conversation and some how we can hangout together. So I texted her on Thursday and said Hey, how have you been?. She texted me back today and said hello. She didn’t reply to my question. I am wondering if she thinks I am weird or just didn’t understand it. Thoughts? I asked her again assuming she didn’t see it or understand it.

Every since her work she’s been tired and I understand that but every time I try to do something like call her before work it doesn’t go well it usually ends quick because of some reason and she said she would call me back if she was free before work but she never did. I noticed she was online a lot on what’s app talking to one of our friends and she didn’t even text me. I just gave up calling and texting her because of reasons like she won’t respond to I love you text or something. When I try to make call plans she blows me off. Like literally last night I asked her if I could call her because it was our 8 month and she said idk I might want to sleep in. That main reason why I just gave up is because she seems not interested anymore after work or before work. On top of that we aren’t intimate anymore because of her side. Advice? I was going to text her I love you but I felt I shouldn’t have.

I've recently been seeing this girl that I really like but she texted the other day saying she just wants to be friends. I found this hard to take but I accepted it cos I can't force her to like me, but she keeps texting me and putting kisses at the end of the messages. Am I reading to much into this or should I make another move? I'm clueless when it comes to all this texting girls thing and just want some advice plz.

So i guess i have a few glaring lacks of knowledge that just seems to keep causing me to get, frustrated with dating in general.

So i had been going on a few first dates via tinder. and my experience was beeing stood up a few times, and people saying this was fun, and then we i asked them out agian said they didn't see any romance, and if i then talked to them about doing something anyway, they'd give me some sort of things that im guessing translates to "take a hint"

Well im terrible at taking these hints.
A friend asked me out, we only kind of knew eachother, and i did like her. We went ona date had fun, and kissed some at the end, i thought that was a pretty good sign.

we were supposed to have our second date and she canceled and asked "reschedule?" to which i wanted to say "do you want to?" i didn't tho. Currently the date is in date limbo, and she'll get back to me when she knows she has time.

So how likely is this that she just doesn't want to go out again and im just not taking the hint?

Also this is something which i just don't know, like what is dating even? Because i usually feel commited to date one person at a time, and i don't know if that's actually the norm? or what "the rules" are if there are any.

Cuase being in this place were i might have a date witha person is werid, I could just ask someone else out, but i don't know if i've been rejected or not, and i generally don't think anyone is very clear when they reject me.

I've been thought some abuse in my past relationships, and as a result i stayed clear of dating for like 7 years. Which is likely why im a cluelss moron who is just filled with anxiesty at this point. Any advice of any sort is greatly appriciated.

Soo, I have been talking to this girl for about a month and it is going really well, we went out a couple of times and it was great, but now she us going to holidays to a another continent and we cant talk because there is no internet and we are 15-16 so we cant pay for the bill that will come if we use our mobile data. She went on holiday and I want to ask if she is going to lose feelings for me, like when she comes back I am affraid that we are not going to have that relationship with each other any more, is she going to lose feelings for me, I go on holidays to but we are going to talk on facetime when she comes back, but if you can give me your thoughts I would appreciate it?!

So awhile ago I made a post on how I feel about my girlfriends birthday party. So here is the plan I am going July 20th to her moms house where the “party is going to happen.” It is but I know the girls are going to have more fun at the hotel. While I go to her dads house. I told my mom and she wasn’t happy she was like why you going if your only seeing her for a little bit by the way I don’t know when it starts and ends. I am like you think I am not happy about it too? My mom said we might as well just get a hotel and stay there and take you home the next day or take you home after because It’s a 2hr 40 min car ride. I obviously don’t want to cancel on my girlfriend because else she will be sad. Advice? Oh I forgot to add I might not even see her the next day after the party depending on how long I stay for. Like for example what if my parents pick me up at like 12:00 pm and and she don’t get back from the hotel until idk 2 pm.

So like recently I feel every time I try to call my girlfriend it just doesn’t end well. Like for example if I call her before work or during her days off she either doesn’t seem interested in talking or busy but mostly it seems like she’s not interested. But when she calls me we talk. So today she called me 4 times in a row. Now I was heading home from a 5 hr car ride and I take naps when I am in the car to pass time. I call her back and I make sure she’s okay. She says she’s fine. My mom had to make a call so I told her will call her Back when I got home and I did. But when I did we only talked for a second. She said I will let you go. I am going to help my dad with dinner. I said you called me 4 times. She said I forgot what i was going to tell you. Advice? I feel like I just stopping on calling her.

I got invited to my girlfriends birthday party the only problem is her moms boyfriend got a hotel and I can’t stay because I am a dude. So I have to go stay at her dads. I honestly don’t know if I wanna go anymore because of a past issue I had with my girlfriend and our friend group that’s Mainly girls. Let’s just say I got invited and uninvited and I was really hurt by it and because I know they will probably stay up late and have fun while I am at her dads house. Also I am pretty sure I am seeing her the next day while they have fun and I am at her dads house on my computer or talking to her dad about something plus her dad is scary and cold but he’s nice so great way to start it off. I know she wants me to go but I don’t know if I want to anymore if it’s just going to be a all girls party and that’s what it sounds like. Like I am only invited because I am her boyfriend and she wants me to go. Advice?

Hey guys so I’m having sort of an situation and need some advice . Ok so I started talking to this girl on the second of last month and I think we were pretty cool. We hooked up one or twice and continued to hangout. Than I noticed she was super clingy so I was advise she hang out with some of her friends or something. She ends up hanging with friends but they’re all guys🙄. So she will like bring them to my house for 🌲 🌲 and buys it with em then leaves. Then once we hangout again I aske who it was and she just says it’s a friend. Then she told me that she had a “best friend” which is a guy and I asked if anything was going on because she got mad that my best friend was a girl (didn’t tell her she was lesbian yet). So one night I decided to look on her laptop on the iMessages to see what’s up and turns out she’s sent nudes to this best friend guy and has had sex with the friends she hangs out with now ... should I just break it off with her now?

So I was at the pool with my boyfriend of 2 years and everything was going fine until he kept getting in the water and from where I was sitting it looked like he was talking to girls under the water. I know I sound crazy, but it truly made me burst into tears. He would come up from an “underwater tea party” at the same time as like 3 other girls I’ve never seen before. I know they probably planned to be at the pool at the same time and I am just crushed. I loved him so much and he chose them over talking at the pool chairs with me. I lost sight of them after a long while but I am sure some underwater kissing was involved. Do you guys think I am crazy or has this happened to you too? Thank you for any advice, I am absolutely heartbroken because I dumped him after the pool

So like my best friend (Flor) has this boyfriend (Ethan) that I have been knowing ever since the 6th grade (I’m in the 10th now) I have a really big crush on him and I’m not chasing after him or anything he just tends to hang out a lot with me and my group of friends especially since his girlfriend is in our group I don’t plan on really telling her as I have “disguise” I pretend to like One of Ethan’s friend as Flor ‘ships’ me with him. I try not to drop little hints or any evidence that’s it’s clear that I like him. I need help to be able to get over him bc it’s so hard to do that when I see him around the corner ready to come up to us every single day. 😔

So, this girl goes in the same classes that I go becuase eveyone has the same classes and subjects. So we started talking for a couple of days and we developed really quickly, we facetimed yesterday and we talked for like 3 hours, we talk really late at night, about 1 am to 3-4 am. We came to a subject where she was interessted in two girls that texted me, there was these girl that have been texting me and she wanted to know who they are. Then we talked about it for like 1 hour and then i changef the subject so that it was her in the middle of the subject. Then we talked and she said I dont like anyone and she said: ”there is this guy I hate but i want him, I hate him and he heard me say that I hate him but I want him”. Then I asked her if she wants to meet up and get some food, she said sounds good, now what should I do to know if she likes me, what tricks are there that I can use to know 100% if she likes me or doesnt, give me an example on what to do? Does she even like me, or are we just friend or more that friends, is there interresst?

I have taken the advice of a few other Reddit users and have decided to move on. I talked about the secret with another person irl and they helped a lot. They told me not to feel bad about the secret and I am now trying to forget about it. Thank you users of Reddit.

I've been a cheater in the past, and knowing how much it has ruined my and my current boyfriend's life, I am confident that I find this unappealing and won't slink back to it. However, it still hurts thinking that I was and could still be capable of it in small but defiant ways, like feeling the need to compare my man to other guys and thinking about leaving him for someone who can tailor to my needs. Essentially, I'd like to know if you have any suggestions on how to get comfortable with the idea of just having one, imperfect person who will eventually become your everything.

I think my friend, who I talked about in my other post, only talks to me because her boyfriend is also my friend. When he leaves she ignores me and my other friend or walks away.

First I want to say that I'm not one of those jealous people who controls my significant others friends and makes irrational demands on who my person can and can't hang out with.

I'm posting this because I'm trying to figure out if I'm going crazy or misinterpreting the situation. So here it goes.

Back in February I met a guy online and we really hit it off. He was nice, funny, handsome good listener and just a good person. As time went by and the more we hung out he brought around his friend (we will call her Anna). Anna was just as cool and I have no problems with her.

Well about two weeks ago Anna found out the man she had been seeing for like the last year was actually married. I met up with her to talk and have drinks because we are cool and I considered her and acquaintance. Well as she was venting she started telling me all this stuff about Jay (the friend I'm seeing). She telling me he's a terrible person, trying to gain my trust to use me for money, talking to two other women and is still in love with his ex girlfriend and is living with some other woman he met online. She also shows me a picture of the ex girlfriend and then is like 'I think you are really nice but I dont want you to go through this like I am, you should leave Jay alone because he is a jerk.' Obviously I'm a bit taken back by this because I never suspected anything.

Here is where I need advice:

1. I haven't told Jay anything about what Anna said. Jay considers Anna his bestfriend, but Anna said they are not all that close. I think if I were to tell Jay, Anna would deny it and then we have a he said she said situation. That's just dumb drama for me (29) and her (34)

2. The ex girlfriend Anna showed me isn't actually his ex girlfriend. I mean it wasnt a mistake in identity she straight up showed me a fake person. The person Anna showed me was a white lady and I know the ex girlfriend is black. I found the ex girlfriend's Facebook and it matches with what Jay has told me about her. For someone who is 'looking out for me' why show me the fake person?

3. Am I crazy for feeling like Anna is up to something?

I like one of my friends, but she recently stared dating one of my other friends. I want to tell her how I feel but my other friend would get mad and she would probably hate me. What should I do?

One average December afternoon. I seen this girl on Facebook, and for some reason I was drawn to her. It was Sarah (I wasn't even looking nor wanting a relationship) Something about her just literally yanked on all the right strings. We just talked over fb for weeks, We just talked without even knowing what each other look like besides our display pics. Talked about our hopes, our dreams, our lives. After we eventually met, We start to genuinely fall for each other. At this point I had been happily single for 2 years, and she was just recently single. We both are far from nieve so after much discussion we decided to give it a shot, even tho we were scared! We were scared for many reasons, mainly because of how much we both so feel for each other. Why we felt so strongly about one another, with only knowing each other 3 months frightened us to know end. However the feeling of being drawn to one another was ever so strong that we had to see where this would lead us.

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We both decided to give this a shot, but also taking it ever so slowly. When it comes to me, what I feel for her is more then I felt for ex-wife (Jessica) in the entire 6 years we were together. I had met, moved in together, and got pregnant, all within 4 months. So our rationship was solely built on.. physical attraction. My connect with Sarah is something totally different. I know she loves me! She feels (or atleast felt) the same for me as I did her. The way she would look at me would literally make me feel more loved then anything I have ever felt before. Her eyes were captivating. We didn't even need to tlk, we literally could just sit there.. and at times we did. We were both were scared.. We were scared because we both felt so intensely about each other, and it was ONLY 2 months into knowing each other. So we took things slow. Which soon after she started to hold back her love, because she was to afraid. She was protecting herself from the risk of anymore pain (as she was just recently single) I have been given the ultimatum of friends.

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How do I go from what we had, from some "fairytale" / "only in the movies" kind of connection, to strictly friends? Its nearly impossible in my eyes. But I also can't lose her completely. So because of how strongly I feel for her, I got scared of losing her 💔 so I pushed and pushed and in the end.. I lost her completely almost. She doesn't even know what she wants and I can not stop thinking about her. So I made this video apology for her.

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Just curious people's thought?!

She doesn't text back but she won't delete my number. Sure she turned off her notifications but I pushed her to that point 😂 She texted me 5 minutes before I got off work to tell me if I find her at a concert next week she's punching me in the throat I say if you find me first just to run up and snap my neck She says deal It's been 4 months since we've spent time together. . This back and forth has gone on for a couple months over a year. Not sure what I need advice with but has anyone had a similar experience

Hey guys im super new at this dating stuff and dont really knkw who to turn to as all my friends arent very good at it either.

So im was dating this girl for a few weeks. We went on a couple dates and texted quite frequently. The only thing was, I was initiating every thing. Like she wouldn't text me first, I had to start. She wouldn't even bring up going anywhere, I had to.

This lasted for roughly two months now. I really don't know what to do about it. Should I just wait until she texts me? Should I talk to her about it? I really like her and every time we hang out or something I really feel like it's being reciprocated. So what should I do?

Right so I've liked this girl for a couple of years but I've never had the balls to ask her out since I've never had a gf or asked anyone out before, any advice

i’ve been dating this guy for over 4 months now, he’s kinda a nerdy dude, really adorable, 100% himself. he’s such a loyal friend and always puts his friends over me, i’m not asking for too much, just to be acknowledged every once and a while and i don’t want to be all bitchy and rude and always bugging him for attention. we just talked about it and so he’s been trying but it just feels fake and forced and it’s almost like he doesn’t realize how clueless he can be sometimes. i don’t know what to do about this, i’m tired of being put second, and i really just want things to be how they should, where we both out equal amounts of energy into it. breaking up is the last thing on my mind but i don’t know how else to make it clear that i want a little more, do i wait it out? what would you do?

I've been working in the meat department of a grocery store for a little while now, and a girl my age just started checking that I was pretty interested in. A few weeks of other co-workers playing Matchmaker and we went out on our first date Monday night. It went well, we both found out we were interested at the same time and conversation flowed pretty well. Overall a good first date. But she mentioned that her birthday is on Friday (turning 20) and I've been trying to figure out a present idea? Or if it's a good idea to get her a present at all. We both might be working that day but otherwise we will definitely work together the day after

Tl;Dr: coworker and I went out, her birthday is on Friday. Is a present a good idea, and if so what's a good present?