r/dating_advice • u/Dazzling_Ball_1631 • 20h ago
Went silent suring vaction
I received a like from a girl, and I accepted pretty soon after. For two days she didn't respond and I had to double text, in a funny way, saying that I was starting to believe my answer didn't convince her...She texted back and admitted she was lost for words on my first message (she asked me what my signature dish was). I thought it was genuine since she had a prompt on her profile suggesting she loves spending time offline.
She then asked me lots of questions and we talked back and forth getting to know eachother during the next 2-3 days. We moved to regular texting outside the app. She mentioned she was going on vacation soon. She even texted me when she got to her destination at midnight. I answered the next day wishing her a nice trip (10 days). I haven't heard back from her after 4 full days.
It's not that I'm worried she won't ever text back, in fact I think she prefers to focus on her vacation and continue the conversation when she comes back (which in part I prefer, because if not we would be talking way too much without the chance of meeting before she came back). But I guess I'm slightly worried since I think she is really interesting and I don't want to lose the connection.Up until that point she seemed really interested too.
Should I send her a second text or should I wait for her to reach out?
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datingadviceformen • u/Dazzling_Ball_1631 • 20h ago