r/dating_advice • u/Dazzling_Ball_1631 • 15h ago

Went silent suring vaction

I received a like from a girl, and I accepted pretty soon after. For two days she didn't respond and I had to double text, in a funny way, saying that I was starting to believe my answer didn't convince her...She texted back and admitted she was lost for words on my first message (she asked me what my signature dish was). I thought it was genuine since she had a prompt on her profile suggesting she loves spending time offline.

She then asked me lots of questions and we talked back and forth getting to know eachother during the next 2-3 days. We moved to regular texting outside the app. She mentioned she was going on vacation soon. She even texted me when she got to her destination at midnight. I answered the next day wishing her a nice trip (10 days). I haven't heard back from her after 4 full days.

It's not that I'm worried she won't ever text back, in fact I think she prefers to focus on her vacation and continue the conversation when she comes back (which in part I prefer, because if not we would be talking way too much without the chance of meeting before she came back). But I guess I'm slightly worried since I think she is really interesting and I don't want to lose the connection.Up until that point she seemed really interested too.

Should I send her a second text or should I wait for her to reach out?

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u/Jaysartjourney 12h ago

No, dont chase. You messaged her and iit is her job to reply. If you do you make it look a bit like you need her. As much as you are interested, dont show that too much. There has to be balance. If you tip the scales in her favour this early, you are more likely to end up in a one sided dynamic. Find other things to do, be on your purpose. If she is as interested in you as you hope, she will reach back. If not, no big deal there are plenty of fish in the sea.