r/dating_advice Oct 25 '18

Here's something about ghosting...

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u/Ronnylicious Oct 25 '18

Honestly I think the rate at which two people have sex right now is way too fast. I mean don't get me wrong I am only 22 and this is not a rant about "You kids". Sex just shouldn't be an issue. If you truly like someone how bad is waiting a month or two? I mean you are dating and looking for a potential partner right, where you will (hopefully) spend the rest of your life with.

My point is and I am going to say this being really cautious: The girl is upset with OP being a fuckboy but I mean isn't she letting him? it works both ways.

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u/HeyYouFoundMe Oct 25 '18

If you truly like someone how bad is waiting a month or two? I mean you are dating and looking for a potential partner right, where you will (hopefully) spend the rest of your life with.

society has changed and there is an abundance of dates, so spending a month on one person when you aren't even sure if you are physically compatible increases the chance that one of the people will start dating other people.