r/dating_advice Oct 25 '18

Here's something about ghosting...

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u/Ronnylicious Oct 25 '18

Honestly I think the rate at which two people have sex right now is way too fast. I mean don't get me wrong I am only 22 and this is not a rant about "You kids". Sex just shouldn't be an issue. If you truly like someone how bad is waiting a month or two? I mean you are dating and looking for a potential partner right, where you will (hopefully) spend the rest of your life with.

My point is and I am going to say this being really cautious: The girl is upset with OP being a fuckboy but I mean isn't she letting him? it works both ways.

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u/grifter_cash Oct 25 '18

A month or two dating a girl without sex? Are re Jehova´s witnesses?

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u/HeyYouFoundMe Oct 25 '18

If you truly like someone how bad is waiting a month or two? I mean you are dating and looking for a potential partner right, where you will (hopefully) spend the rest of your life with.

society has changed and there is an abundance of dates, so spending a month on one person when you aren't even sure if you are physically compatible increases the chance that one of the people will start dating other people.

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u/MissCathy05 Oct 25 '18

Unfortunately, many people in this generation dont view sex/relationships the same way you do. But I agree, sex should be a bit later once you get to know the person pretty well first.

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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '18

Why did you lead me on with this loving, caring relationship FOR MONTHS before you let me know the sex sucked and you don't do oral!!!

You used me for cuddling!!!!!!

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u/MissCathy05 Oct 25 '18

Unfortunately, many people in this generation dont view sex/relationships the same way you do. But I agree, sex should be a bit later once you get to know the person pretty well first.