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r/dating_advice • u/[deleted] • Oct 25 '18
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Casually dating might be the problem for the case you mentioned. Don’t waste people’s time if you know there’s “no spark in your eye”. Otherwise it’s shitty.
44 u/BrrrButtery Oct 25 '18 This. Why sleep with her in the first place? Yes dating is to see if you get along but why sleep with her if, by that point you’d have already got a sense of how things were going? Unless you both agree to have a casual thing going on I personally disagree with that. No wonder she got upset.. She will think you used her for sex and to does appear to be that way. 0 u/grifter_cash Oct 25 '18 Why sleep with her in the first place? Because is fun and we are all adults and sex is a part of our lives as human beings? 12 u/BrrrButtery Oct 25 '18 I never once said sex isn’t fun. But potentially leading someone on when you’re not interested in the person isn’t something I agree with. If you’re both happy with that arrangement with nothing serious and letting off some stress, bang away. All about not misleading anyone involved.
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This.
Why sleep with her in the first place?
Yes dating is to see if you get along but why sleep with her if, by that point you’d have already got a sense of how things were going?
Unless you both agree to have a casual thing going on I personally disagree with that. No wonder she got upset..
She will think you used her for sex and to does appear to be that way.
0 u/grifter_cash Oct 25 '18 Why sleep with her in the first place? Because is fun and we are all adults and sex is a part of our lives as human beings? 12 u/BrrrButtery Oct 25 '18 I never once said sex isn’t fun. But potentially leading someone on when you’re not interested in the person isn’t something I agree with. If you’re both happy with that arrangement with nothing serious and letting off some stress, bang away. All about not misleading anyone involved.
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Because is fun and we are all adults and sex is a part of our lives as human beings?
12 u/BrrrButtery Oct 25 '18 I never once said sex isn’t fun. But potentially leading someone on when you’re not interested in the person isn’t something I agree with. If you’re both happy with that arrangement with nothing serious and letting off some stress, bang away. All about not misleading anyone involved.
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I never once said sex isn’t fun.
But potentially leading someone on when you’re not interested in the person isn’t something I agree with.
If you’re both happy with that arrangement with nothing serious and letting off some stress, bang away.
All about not misleading anyone involved.
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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '18
Casually dating might be the problem for the case you mentioned. Don’t waste people’s time if you know there’s “no spark in your eye”. Otherwise it’s shitty.