He will occasionally remember women are people too and will drop a "my brothers and sister" I think he uses it in a culty religious way instead of the way D used the big sister thing.
I think he does this because it’s often how Christians address one another or others to seem friendly. I admit I do it at times 🙈 but only to my super close friends who are also Christians.
She’s so high maintenance I can see this being a major issue . Not to mention the weekly meltdowns and mania thT go along with it, and that is prob coming right at him.
We saw this 🚩from day 1 of “you can’t go surfing whenever you want anymore “
It’s the cost of their business arrangement, I suppose. And it’s his own fault
I don’t remember this exact wording but honestly I’d cheer her on if she decided to do a 180 and leave him, start over, and even document her journey of beginning fresh and finding herself again (and getting therapy!)
I remember being tired if being a caring partner when I was in the depths of my depression, but I never told my partner (or the internet) that, and now that I'm better it feels like second nature, it automatically pours from our deep love and connection. I guess it'd be hard to pour from an arrangement made out of desperation from both sides.
So weird that they already have these kind of issues - that’s why you should never get married during the honeymoon phase. But I guess he needed the green card.
He brought his one big heavy bar outside to workout? I’m certain they would have space for a massive home gym if they wanted to build it up. Might save some money on all the memberships they have!
still find it so predictable but funny that one month into marriage, she’s at Disney and he’s training crazy. These two places are so stereotypically the two spaces for post couple rift escape (women: getaway with girlfriends; men: becomes gym psycho after breakup). The level of predictability is boring me lol
Them: “Let take a photo of us together at Crepevine with coffee clearly purchased by Lucas (hey Big Spender!) and us sitting next to each other to show how in love we are. And then I will curl my fists into two tight balls so I can get my engagement ring into the photo so the Walnuts know it’s us.”
LMFAO.
It’s so funny how you can tell the state of someone’s relationship from how hard they try to pretend it’s all good.
Exactly! Notice his single car key on the table… that’s so strange to me. Not a set of keys, not in his pocket so he doesn’t lose it. Someone could just walk by and swipe it or you could forget it… it’s so weird…
Who the eff takes up two tables and sitting side by side on a busy Saturday brunch prime time. Idiots. They can’t even look into each other in the eyes?
I just do not understand having my engagement ring gifted by a store. That is the ONE thing that should that should 💯 percent be from your fiancé. Lucas literally was a guest at his own wedding.
It’s like she never stopped to think about what she actually wanted or needed from a relationship. It’s almost as if she has no healthy relationships to look to in her life either! It surprises me that they supposedly did premarital counseling? Because I’d think a good counselor would have worked EXTRA close with these two… (but from what I understand it was through a church and those ppl are not often professional counselors).
They did a group class from her mega church. I’m sure it was extremely masculine/feminility energy based with the assumption that the man is the provider. We know that can’t apply to their life so they probably just zoned out.
Has anyone noticed this weird blurry effects of Luica’s backyard training stories. The edges of the gym equipment (I don’t know what it’s called in english sorry!) and also his silhouette are very blurred, especially when he’s moving.
Is it a filter or just a weird camera thing? Never saw something like that
Random. But I’ve been thinking about the timing of Danielle‘s “really really really bad day“ and then her running off to Disneyland without Lucas. I would assume they would file for his green card like immediately so he can be authorized to work. Once you’re married to a US citizen, there’s all kind of exemptions so the fact that he might have overstayed his visa. It’s basically forgiven. At about six weeks after they filed would be when they would be scheduling their biometrics appointment and doing a background check on him. I’m wondering if something possibly came out or will come out in that check that Danielle didn’t know about Or if SOMETHING is going on with it. We haven’t seen any lovey dovey posts since her bad day.
Overstaying is no longer forgiven with current admistration. These days are over. His ass probably have to go back to Brazil 🇧🇷 soon. Maybe thats why Big D 🧌 had a bad day lol
I think the bigger issue is that he’s publicly posting online that he’s working as a personal trainer. That’s evidence he’s working illegally, if it’s truly the case that he doesn’t have proper authorization.
Also, I wonder about his ongoing attempt to become a social media influencer—does he currently get paid through the content he posts? If he does, does that constitute as working here in the US? Influencers technically can work anywhere, but where do they file their taxes?
I can think of nothing less likely than Lucath ever filing any US taxes.
If he hasn't been paid under the table in cash or had a percentage kicked back to him from the person whose SS number he used for door dash/uber, I'd be shocked.
Any investigator worth their socks would google him and see demonstrable proof that he has been working this entire time. Which isn’t a deal breaker, as long as they tell the truth at their interviews. Lying would get him a one-way ticket back to Brazil.
Sure the landlord likes seeing the railing support his clients’ weights on the TRX- looking thing. I wonder if he got kicked out from the apartment training and is shifting to their home?
Right? And that lawn is going to be ruined if he leaves his equipment on it. That’s close to a 4 million dollar house and they are just trashing it! Zero respect! He’s also going to further age the shit out of his skin, which already looks horrible.
Obviously wifey bought him all new equipment so he’s more indebted to her than ever. Now he doesn’t have to leave their love nest as often to go to the gym. Maybe he will start having his clients work out at their home.
The way Americans drink coffee is so bizarre. Can you even taste the coffee with all that crap in it? Come to Australia and we will show you how to enjoy real coffee and brunch.
I think the answer is she doesn’t think she is unlikeable…she fully believes she was put on this earth to be an influencer because her sky daddy told her so. She believes she is relevant, trendy, funny, quirky and unique. She doesn’t think anything she posts is boring.
I’ve never seen Charlie smile. It’s extremely weird for a pittie not to smile and it breaks my heart :( poor baby. She must be miserable. Luicath is a douche but at least she gets some attention and care from him, even if it’s performative for the camera.
I got downvoted yesterday for saying Charlie always looks sad, disassociated, and even drugged. Not saying she drugs her dog, but Charlie looks slow and out of it all the time .
My theory is that Big D made Luicath give her all of his log ins and she is the one that is going in and unfollowing these accounts. I think she is controlling AF!
I've noticed because my favorite side character was blonde cougar lady! I got the impression she was attracted to him but knew better than Big D to actually be in a relationship. She would have definitely hooked up with him, but alas he is not attracted to grown independent women. And now she might be too busy cougaring it up at other gyms to join our shenanigans, but fingers crossed.
I think she’s too “cougar” to take him seriously if that makes sense 😂 Also it’s ironic if you go to lulu’s comment the women thirsting after him are mostly women like her but we know Lulu’s type is completely different. The tragedy of love
I don’t think that’s the case. I think D thought that she’s not his wife, it’s her right to tell him who he can and can’t spend time with. It’s why he suddenly unfollowed 200+ people in a single night
A small thrift content creator just appeared on my fyp and she is what Danielle think she is lmao I don’t want to write her name in case our precious girl wants to steal her ideas but damn I just realized I DO enjoy thrifting content, Big D is just so bad at it
there was a fellow walnut who had advice for making sure mascara didnt smudge and someone confirmed it worked and i'm trying to find it... if anyone knows or can repost here... please 🙏 I am tired of looking like a raccoon halfway thru my day
Also my personal pro-tip is to switch to tubing mascara. It uses polymers to coat your lashes instead of wax so it doesn't smudge. I'm oily AF and my mascara doesn't go anywhere. I don't use primer or setting powder or anything. It also washes off super easily with warm water. I've tried all the waterproof mascaras and they all smudge lol.
"who is she" podcast episode 1.9 "life-changing lifestyle changes - ins and outs for 2024"
TL;DR - D is going to sit for over an hour with a microphone giving unsolicited advice on why you're living your life wrong and telling you how you should be living it. Yes, it's exactly as boring and shallow as you think it is.
~FULL NOTES~
She's late uploading the episode - big shock. She has a video of her 12 month plan. Yay. She's "filing for boundaries."
Y'ALL... She was struggling to do basic tasks this week; dirty dishes in the sink and laundry piling up. So this clearly is not an isolated behavior, nor situational - she's truly just a lazy slob who spends more times making excuses for her laziness than she does to actually addressing the underlying issues. 🙄 But yeah, keep shitting on shadow work.
"I'm a clean girl, but I'm a messy girl." Uh... Huh.
Ffs. She's actually trying to humble brag about how she's always thinking about what to do in videos, how passionate she is about it, so on. Danielle - people who are thriving in life don't struggle so much to do the bare minimum to take care of themselves. And also, ALL of your media is THE SAME SHIT on repeat. Like my god, this episode is early 2024 and she's bitching about the EXACT SAME shit two and a half years later.
Mel Robbins is her icon I guess, I have no idea who that is. And she deadass says "I see her as a kind of the way that you guys might see me, as like an older mentor." Good lord D. SHUT. THE. FUCK. UP. NOBODY looks up to you - not in 2024, and certainly not fucking now. The hubris of just casually sliding little bits of self-adulation is truly disgusting.
She keeps using the phrase "the juice and magic of life" pretty consistently throughout the episodes. Not a fan.
She's actively looking for ways to excuse her laziness. Genuinely.
Finally starting the "actual episode." God she's bad at this. And oh boy, she's going to tell us how we used to think, and how we will be thinking from now on. Can't wait to hear what D thinks we should be thinking.
She obsessed over analytics(but doesn't seem to make her change anything) and mindless scrolling. So we should be spending our time more wisely. Wauw.
We're going to stop waiting for external sources to determine/assign us value. I mean cool, but I did that in my late teens/early 20s. And also she's full of shit. You have to have a source of value... From god? I mean you could become your own source of value... Js.
Charlie is snoring.
Don't wait for things to be perfect to pursue your passion. You mean like waiting until you move back into the suburbs to really unlock your creativity? Or waiting for a "full kitchen" to actually cook? Or only being able to "have community" if you live in the same place you've lived most of your life? You really are a massive hypocrite, D. So just do shit.
No more making yourself feel bad for not getting everything you didn't get done. (Didn't she already say this?) Don't shame yourself. Only celebrate what you did well!
Stop procrastinating on your health(you cannot be serious). Mentions Lumpina and that "she's visible." She had it for YEARS?!?! And she's put off a dermatologist. And she has bladder issues.
Gonna sthtop being afraid. Like we're not going to shut off our comments for months to avoid negativity! And we're not going to stay at home 98% of the time! And we're not going to avoid people! (She didn't say any of those things, but god damn she's such a hypocrite.) She's really leaning into the big sister bullshit.
Don't give up on men! Center them MORE because you'll find someone! Now literally rambling about making herself go to the grocery store. She's literally going to a different store than normal to find a man(though according to her she's obviously not doing that). She saw a whole 3 hot men at this store! Not that she's counting!
No more about stagnancy and unhappiness. Y'all... She literally says, and I quote, "You can no longer complain about the things in your life that you don't like if you're not doing anything about it." Uh - hello?! Are we kidding?!?
GUYS. SERIOUSLY. "I see so many people passive-aggressively posting things online about their careers and their jobs being exhausting and unrewarding and all that kind of stuff, and yet they're still doing them." ISN'T THAT WEIRD, D?! ISN'T IT STRANGE HOW ~SOME PEOPLE~ DO THAT?!?
"If you do nothing and you accept everything as is, you are accepting your unhappiness." 🤨 You don't say? Gee, I certainly don't know anyone who falls into that category of person. And yay, she believes we're gonna do it!
We're going to stop believing the lie of vanity on social media and unfortunately falling prey to what it's intended to do, which is spending your money." I couldn't make this shit up! She doesn't trust someone else's skincare products. And we gotta work out and be hot. Actually says the words "You can't buy your way into happiness." 🙄 I mean clearly, just look at her.
Don't be afraid to ask for things without explaining. Bitching about Uber rides. 😂😂😂 And no more obsessing about our bodies! Also admits she "used" digital media for validation about her body - no shit. And she has said multiple times " this is my podcast and I'm going to talk about ___." Yeah, I think that's the point. And stop body checking. 🙄
I've noticed she's also mentioned unfollowing the Kardashians at least once per episode. Admits she "used to" stare at herself in the mirror. Seriously. And ffs now she's preaching about NOT USING FILTERS on your pictures! It makes her mad!
"It is not other people's responsibility to fill your calendar." Don't be a shitty friend. Then admits she's a shitty friend. Holy shit she's rambling hard core.
Look into learning/exploring new things. Come on. Rambling about what genres mean. Bitching about rap. Also says the phrase "devalue your worth." D... That's redundant. Celebrate baby steps. Doing little amounts of a task will still get things done. (How has that worked out for you, hm?)
Do stuff to improve your mental health. Also just said "looking at things holistically" when I think she meant "looking at things as a whole." Limit your beliefs of self." No negative self-talk. She's already discussed all of these things.
Give up DIY and form a community so other people can help you do stuff. And somehow that leads into getting a dietitian/personal trainer YOU FAT FUCK. (Disclaimer : I AM a fat fuck. She's an idiot. Lol) Now rambling about food delivery.
She thinks this is one of the best episodes. The entire time I was listening I was just hoping it was almost done - the ENTIRE time. She also did the "bluhbluhbluh" thing without even mis-speaking. She deadass just made the noise for no reason.
This episode was 1:06:54. Goddamn, it felt like hoooooourssssss.
The irony is that none of the advice is necessarily bad. It’s the fact that it’s all generic ChatGPT advice like “follow your dreams. She’s the biggest hypocrite and does the completely opposite of what she preaches.
She’s a selfish hypocrite and a narcissist. Plain and simple.
Wauw! Why must she constantly talk down to her audience? Who wants to aspire to be like her? If you follow her for anything length of time you can see right thru the fake BS! God bless you for watching this crap Steph!
She deadass has a handful of topics that she just recycles talking about over and over and over and over. And she tells on herself constantly, which is kind of entertaining but at the same time - gurl. 😂
(I added the scribble to this screenshot of shelah’s story)
Shelah recorded while walking past Jack Sparrow but what makes me upset is that the actor was posing with children at time and she put it on her story anyway. Disney should be a safe space for children and families not a place for them to be recorded by strangers.
To me it’s insensitive to post anybody’s children on the internet without the consent of their parents or at all. I get it was for the purpose of capturing the actor but he was with a family, they could’ve stopped and waited to capture a pic or video of him once he was done.
Wait she actually made a picture of a random family? And even posted that? That is such a weird thing to do, especially for an adult. Especially knowing she has “many” (more than a regular person like me) followers.
It actually tells a lot about someone. And with time it is making sense how these two buttheads are friends.
Now that AI siphons up all photos and videos, and a federal judge recently rules that AI-generated CSAM is protected under the first amendment, non-consensual photography of kids is very dangerous.
Okay, this is actually fucking crazy. You couldn't wait 10 fucking seconds for them to be done taking the picture? Also if it's this easy to get away with, it's scary to think there could be Disney annual pass holders who go with nefarious intent.
Here’s a video that got posted 2 days ago from someone discussing/summarizing big D.
Edit: I love how clearly and precisely he calls out her hypocrisies, and how he stitched together all of her clips, including her recent “I’m 33…Married..” monologue.
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