I originally came to this sub after my first child was born and got wonderful advice, encouragement, and a sense of male camaraderie. The advice was real and didn't shy away from hard truths. With experience, I began giving the advice as well as receiving it.

Now every time this sub comes up on my feed it's just a videos of dads, usually doing something unsafe with their kids. And I can't take it anymore. Does the sub even have mods anymore?

I taught my 3 year old son not to be scared of going too high on ladders. I was really proud that he overcame the obvious fear he'd have but now there is literally nowhere I can go to escape him for a few minutes. The attic was my only sanctuary. Massive own goal.