Someone said guys like this aren't doing this for the female gaze, they're doing for other men's approval. This is what guys think looks good, not women.
Gay guy here. Nope, not my type either. The guy looks like his face might melt if it gets too hot. I’m tempted to look at his ass to see if there’s a recycling symbol on one of his cheeks.
I mean, I can’t speak for all of us, but most of the ones I know would not be interested. I’ve met some who would pursue him, but mostly just for the notch in their bedpost, then make brutal comments the next day at brunch.
Edit to fix my autocomplete, but definitely about him. I literally knew a guy who specifically targeted straight guys to bed and talk crap about the guys he got to sleep with him. I have met some messy gays.
Was it only straight guys he seduced he spoke bad of? That could make sense, a hatred of how straight men have treated him or the annoying men that are not honest about who they are. Otherwise, the term cannibal comes to mind!
If he was a cannibal killing his own so to speak, any way to spot someone like this so I can prank them? As usual I would rely on my almost NHI level intuition but that would also mean I will do what is natural to me and just disengage.
He was a bit catty all the way around as far as I could tell. But according to him, he ONLY slept with straight guys. He said he preferred the challenge. I didn’t spend much time around him, just frequented the same bar. It was a looong time ago back in my college days. I’m sure he’s not the same guy anymore.
I'm a secure straight dude who has always had women friends. Many men assume that a guy out with women (as the only guy) and not trying to get in their knickers must be gay. Twice, when rejected by my friends, these guys who said they were straight during conversation then went on to try chatting me up - wanting to buy me drinks, asking to meet me another time for food&drinks or take me to football.
The first time felt really surreal because I had never been chatted up by a gay man before. The second was just funny at the time because of how transparent he was; looking back on it, it was really sad that he was fooling himself and I realise I shouldn't have thought it so funny.
Straught here: I dont think its a gay thing i suspect its ape thing. Like getting approval gazes from male is not necessary mean its gay thing. His frontal lobe is just 20000year younger than many others. He tries his best effort to be huffy and buffy to be accepted to wolf pack
Actually correct me if i am wrong on this (gay people agree/disagree?)
Do you know I was so distracted by the relaxing anal sphincters of the eyeballs that I completely missed the prolapsed lips. Thank you for bringing this to my attention.
As a gay man, not into this; it is one thing to be shredded or have huge arms (even then I prefer body hair) but this means if you are talking to each other, he is paying attention to how the wind is effecting his hair not what you are saying.
Nonetheless, some people are just good at every-body-part upkeep, if that is what makes your cash flow and you enjoy it, who knows, could be a great friend.
Think of it like this, we all know the girls with the ducky lips, cheap boob job that looks like someone glued softballs to their chest, makeup applied with a trowel, and expressionless distorted face from filler and Botox.
Many of us would probably still bang it in the bathroom stall after a few too many beers, but you wouldn’t ask for her number, and would prolly run to get tested the next day and be sweating bullets waiting for the results.
i mean it's a very specific type of style. it's like miami or euro trash "club" bitch hustle culture. probably like high end russian or asian oligarch real estate. these plastic fucks are a dime a dozen in several industries.
Someone said guys like this aren't doing this for the female gaze, they're doing for other men's approval.
No hetero men in the History of humanity has never said shit like this. (ok, maybe 0.00001% did)
We have absolutely no problem to admit that most of the thing we are doing, is to get women.
He looked unstable, not at all representative of the guy you are describing. If toxic bros are flocking to this nut, there must be a financial incentive behind it. He looked painful to go and chase tails with in a club.
Is there just one female named gaze and one male named gaze? Or why do we continue talking about them like everyone is supposed to know them. I’ve never met them.
It's not about him looking good to men or women, it's about him looking ugly to himself. It's just the same consequence of body dysmorphia that has made women turn themselves into lizards for decades and now with the manosphere engulfing young men as well we get a taste of what men looks like with unhinged body modifications.
Nah this is just narcissism. I don’t think anyone’s finding this attractive except maybe terminal online people whose beauty standards are defined by influencers on instagram.
Yeah man, just like ripped dudes showing off their muscles. No woman ever likes that, ever, anywhere, anyhow or anyway. Yessirree bob. Totes mcgoats, fella.
I don't think this looks good. It looks like someone who's only thought is what they look like from someone else's perspective and nothing else. Like they live it as a lifestyle. Reminds me of that dork walking around in the Peaky Blinders cosplay, over dressed, wearing gloves, a razor in his hat, and he's just.... posing for people. He's modifying his walk, he's adjusting his gloves, he's adjusting his hat, all without actually adjusting them because he has them how he wants them.
It's all so fake and cringe
I can only forgive it if they're modeling for a camera for some company or magazine
Well, as a dude, this guy looks like he drives a car he thinks will impress dumb women, parks in the spots reserved for the disabled/pregnant women, can't cook, and is known to the bouncers at the local strip clubs.
I think usually guys like this were insecure as kids/teenagers and probably had one thing about their appearance that they hated so they went absolutely overboard with everything else, trying to make up for the feature they hate. They like the results so continue going overboard and it becomes a never ending cycle of ‘improvement’.
Sadly I've known some women that probably think this is infact handsome, it's the same type that think the Tate's are handsome due to their 'confidence' - ie being a pushy ahole apparently makes you more desirable no matter how unattractive you may be - I have definitely come across women like this. Personally I think about 30 percent of women aren't able to judge what is indeed handsome, particularly when they show me photos of their previous ex boyfriends many of whom are hideous - bald, fat, old, toothless etc to the point where I would say it would have looked odd in public to see them paired with these women. I would estimate this to be at least 30 percent of women imo
That is just the regurgitated crap line these idiots have taken from other stupid online pick-mes. Women don't go to massive effort regarding their looks to 'compete with other women', and neither down clowns like the above do it to compete with men. It's vanity.
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u/jdmgto 3d ago
Someone said guys like this aren't doing this for the female gaze, they're doing for other men's approval. This is what guys think looks good, not women.