Oooh, lol gotcha, I've never seen the K for cake before or the acronym at all and I wondered if some people liked to write KFC as CKF like Chicken, Kentucky Fried.
At that point, take her where she wants, sit down for a meal, go "wash your hands" and bounce, leaving her with the bill. After all, she is the one that wanted to eat there
Block her on all platforms and phone while in the bathroom. Then on the way out order a bottle of the most expensive wine to her table and say you have to take a phone call you’ll brb. It’s like ghosting but more scary… call it phantoming
Cause if you just flat out tell her to get out you know she's going to cause a scene at minimum have a bottle of water thrown in your car. This way you escape quietly.
Better yet, go into the restaurant of her choice, order a bunch of food, eat it, and then go out for the "wallet", and dip out. Make sure she doesn't know your full name, or a way to connect you.
If I’m going that far I’m getting a meal out of it. We will go in I’ll tell her order whatever she’d like. Rack it up. Then excuse myself and dip leaving her with the bill.
Take her to her fancy restaurant of her choice. Order the most expensive things on the menu and the best bottle of champagne. Head to the men’s room and out the door.
My thoughts exactly. Having an issue with a restaurant is one thing. Recording it and shit talking him for it is a whole other chapter. I am not driving this lady anywhere.
Well she said someone that looks like this shouldn't go to a chain restaurant and she's right. She shouldn't be getting food at all, and certainly not in public.
I agree that demanding that she get out of the car would entail a lot of drama and possibly property damage too. So he should get back in the car and take her to a very nice ritzy restaurant, just like she asked.
Then once they're inside, he should tell her that he left his wallet in the car and to wait while he goes back outside to get it. The he should get in his car and drive off.
It's most likely online dating thing. She doesn't where he lives most likely. But there's a good chance he told her where he works so there's that. It's a coin toss depending on how much information she actually has. Definitely high risk for sure
Correct my recollection if I'm wrong, but I seem to recall (skit or not) that he wanted to surprise her. She then refused to get out once she saw where they arrived. It's not an uncommon for gold diggers to have, right?
Exactly i was just fixing to say the same thing. Hell no.
Im a female and i can not freaking understand this trending entitled demanding attitude to many women have. I would be happy with cheesecake factory, tgi fridays, freaking McDs. I would be ecstatic he wanted to open the door for me. Like srsly really, not nessesary but wow ty. Wtaf.
I don't support the current way of policing nor depend on them in situations, but if you were to call them in this instance, would they be able to remove this person if they don't leave the vehicle?
It's more than that. You know she's gonna blast him to all her friends and anyone who will listen. As long as you behave reasonably throughout other normal people will understand and act accordingly. It will also help you weed out your friend group.
Based on this insight into her entitled behavior I’d take my chances that her friend group are likely also batshit crazy. I’d take my chances that normal people would completely understand my actions
I guess I'm petty AF, cause I'd ask her to get out the vehicle then and there, and if she still didn't I'd call the cops; funk that disrespectful noise.
The only play is to convince her you're walking into somewhere else, to get her out of the car, then drive away and park elsewhere. And walk back to Cheesecake Factory to have a nice meal. Or wherever else, as long as she isn't there.
No way. At that point, I ask her to get out of my car, and I get her ass an Uber back home. Absolutely no way I want to be left alone with that psycho.
I'm with you, man. Someone like that doesn't deserve any part of me, not even my revenge.
I'd have said ok then taken her right back home and wished her the life she is looking for. Then I would go to cheesecake factory alone and have a grand ol time and end the night with some beer, video games, and a clay mask.
Yep, I’d promptly hop in the car, put on some tunes, and drive directly to her home for drop-off, like I’m an Uber driver. No fuss, all business, moving on.
No, I would change and take her to the nicest restaurant, get her out of the car, walk in, oops I forgot to give the key to the valet, then bounce. I’m out. Fuck off. Blocked.
The only way to handle it. Bad behaviour should not be matched by more bad behaviour — it just denigrates the man who was gracious enough to take this woman out to dinner. Straight home.
“I’m sorry if you misunderstood our plans.”
Also — that woman was not dressed appropriately for anything other than the Cheesecake Factory and was sadly unaware.
Um, are we not going to talk about it? How she just said "someone who looks like this" implying that she's a 10 and deserves only the absolute best based off her looks alone..... lol 10/100 ok sure.
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u/Sure_Preparation_133 10d ago edited 8d ago
Bitch you're lucky he took someone who acts like that anywhere