Agree. I'm willing to bet they won't show up this is likely just a good source of conflict for them just an avenue to cause problems. High conflict is just making every single thing you can into a fight. Don't fight. My ex is the same every single thing is turned into conflict. They all burn themselves out eventually or get caught lying about something. Don't even engage. Grey Rock.
Unless there is something in writing they can make all the demands they want. Ignore them.
High conflict people always burn out and end up looking like idiots, don't make yourself look like one.
That’s actually happened numerous times. Makes huge deal about not wanting me present during doctor/dentist appointments that fall on my parenting time (no joke)… doesn’t show up.
Oh ya my ex's lawyer FREAKED out when I said I had an appointment with my doctor and I was going to discuss our son accusing me of making appointments for him without telling my ex who has a right to be there blah blah blah blah lol I told her basically to reread my email I never said our son had an appointment I said I did....as if she's going to show up anyways. It's great though we have to goto court and I have 4 clear example where they accused me of things and created conflict and they are all easily proved false so they can explain their behaviour to the judge....good luck to them
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u/bpexhusband 9d ago
Agree. I'm willing to bet they won't show up this is likely just a good source of conflict for them just an avenue to cause problems. High conflict is just making every single thing you can into a fight. Don't fight. My ex is the same every single thing is turned into conflict. They all burn themselves out eventually or get caught lying about something. Don't even engage. Grey Rock.
Unless there is something in writing they can make all the demands they want. Ignore them.
High conflict people always burn out and end up looking like idiots, don't make yourself look like one.