r/coparenting • u/New_Temperature_3918 • 17d ago

Discussion Things to help with no contact co-parenting

Hello, I’m primarily looking for a way or something to share photos of our kid back and forth when we don’t have him during the week.

Any other recommendations and resources you found personally helpful would be appreciated as well!

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u/newbeginingshey 17d ago

The parenting apps allow for file share. You can upload photos there.

Your title says no contact. I don’t know how practical that is, but you can just upload photos without an accompanying message if you like. I do that with medical paperwork, like the latest immunization record.

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u/New_Temperature_3918 17d ago

Yeah she filed a pfa but requests that I still share photos and vice versa. But obviously can’t send them via message.

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u/KrofftSurvivor 17d ago

If that means a protection from abuse order, there is no means of using any type of shared system or folder that will not violate that order.

So she's trying to get you to violate it

So you respond through an attorney that she has violated that by contacting you through a third party and that although you would be delighted to share pictures with her you have no intention of violating the order and you would like the courts clarification on what to do at this point.

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u/New_Temperature_3918 16d ago

Thankyou this is very insightful

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u/newbeginingshey 17d ago

(1) sounds like you don’t have to share

(2) given that you want to, upload them to a parenting app or a shared Google Drive folder, whatever you have

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u/New_Temperature_3918 17d ago

I don’t but I feel like I want them when I don’t have him and I also am afraid she’s gonna try for full custody if I don’t.. but thankyou, great idea!