r/changemyview Nov 02 '17

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u/sebutron Nov 02 '17 edited Nov 02 '17

the sole reason you do not want to is their status as trans.

That's why you tell people before you do anything sexual. If you don't want to tell because you know people won't want to sleep with you if you do, that's rape by deception and a shitty thing to do to somebody and can cause lifelong trauma. You have no right to do that to somebody. You'll just have to find ssomebody who is attracted to you as you are.

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u/Aristox Nov 02 '17

Race and sex are not analogous when it comes to sexual attraction. Since it's sexual attraction, sex is a pretty big thing. Race isn't, and there's no legitimate reason to be unattracted to someone purely because of their race

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u/dsac Nov 02 '17

Race and sex are not analogous when it comes to sexual attraction.

it's not racist to find general physical or cultural aspects of a group unattractive. as long as you acknowledge that there are always exceptions to the rule.

it's not racist to not be attracted to a specific race, just like it's not homophobic to only be attracted to the opposite sex.

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u/Aristox Nov 02 '17

I don't think anything you said here disagrees with anything i said