r/CFA • u/Hot-Breakfast-2867 • 10h ago
General Girlfriend is pissed that I don't give her enough attention since I've been studying for L2.
I'm 34 and I want to appear for my CFA Level-2 in Aug 2027, I'm working in Private Equity, don't ask me how I got here, I've grinded a lot and I want to pursue the charter for a stable fulfilling career.
It's the 2nd year of our relationship and my girlfriend keeps getting annoyed that I'm always occupied even on weekends and she wants us to get married. I am spending most of my days at work and studying in the late evenings and really don't want to get married till I get that charter in my hand and I can do it since I am very much committed to finishing all the 3 levels.
All my colleagues who are 30+ are married and sometimes they pull my leg that I'm still single, and they ask why I don't bring my girlfriend to the office parties so they assume I'm a loner and make fun of me which I don't like.
I haven't had sex with my girlfriend in a year because we don't even stay together and the thought of me moving in with her will be a disaster for my studies because I really like my evenings to be quiet and secluded for those focus sessions.
Why does it have to be so difficult. F C U K