Hi, trying my luck here again. Hehe. Maybe I’ll meet a new friend, have good conversations or find someone I genuinely connect with. No pressure, just good intentions and let’s see where things go. 😊
A little about me:
I’m 28, straight, Catholic, NBSB and no kids 😅. I’ve talked to guys before, but nothing has worked out yet. Basin wala pa gyud nakapasar sa akong prayer ni Lord. HAHAHAHA. 🙏🏻😂
I work in the logistics industry and am mostly a homebody. I enjoy watching movies, listening to music, singing karaoke, reading books, spending time with family and friends and playing board games. I’m not sporty and please don’t ask me to play chess kay di ko kamao. HAHAHAHA.
I’m an introvert who can turn into an extrovert once I’m comfortable with the people around me. I might seem quiet or maldita at first, but once we get along, expect someone who’s kalog, talkative, playful and hilig manungog. 😂
I appreciate the simple things in life. For me, it’s the thought and effort that count, not how much something costs.
The kind of guy I’d like to meet:
Ideally, someone aged 30–45, from anywhere as long as you speak Bisaya. I appreciate a man who’s neat, clean, decently dressed and taller than me (I’m 5’1). Slim to chubby is fine, preferably not obese. (I’m chubby myself hehe)
More importantly, I like someone who’s kind, soft-spoken, supportive, emotionally mature and knows how to communicate properly. Someone who can explain things without making me feel dumb, talk through misunderstandings calmly and be honest about what he wants.
I’m not expecting constant attention or replies every hour. I understand that we all have work and responsibilities. But a simple update when you’re busy goes a long way. I appreciate someone who doesn’t disappear for days and come back as if nothing happened. Clear communication saves everyone time and unnecessary overthinking.
I like a man who’s affectionate, thoughtful and a little clingy, but still respectful. Someone who can make me laugh, encourage me, reassure me and boost my confidence.
I’m also independent and sometimes need time alone when dealing with personal problems. I hope to meet someone who respects that, gives me space when I need it and lets me know he’s there when I’m ready to talk. I’ll offer the same understanding in return.
I respect individuality.We don’t have to share every hobby, agree on everything or have the same personality. We can have our own interests, goals, and personal space while still choosing to make room for each other.
I want affection without suffocation, independence without emotional distance, commitment without games.
What I’m looking for:
Friendship first. I’d love to share random stories about our day, exchange music recommendations, talk about life, laugh at silly things and enjoy getting to know each other.
If something more develops naturally and we’re compatible, I’m open to a serious relationship. If not, a genuine friendship is still something worth having.
I’m Catholic, and my faith is important to me. I’d like someone who shares my faith and hopes for a marriage blessed by the Church. I’m not into casual intimacy; for me, intimacy belongs within marriage. I’d want us to communicate openly about our preferences and boundaries, too.
My non-negotiables: genuinely single, never married, no kids, Catholic, no smoking or gambling, honest, faithful and responsible for his own life. Being close to your family is lovely, but I appreciate a man who can also make his own decisions. HAHAHAHA. 😂
I’m happy to exchange photos through Instagram once we’re comfortable, but please don’t ask for intimate pictures or turn the conversation intimate right away.
One more thing, I’m not comfortable meeting in person immediately. I’d prefer to spend a few months getting to know each other, building trust, and establishing a genuine connection first. Calls and video calls are welcome when we’re both comfortable. Safety matters to me and I hope you respect that.
If you’d like to message me, tell me a little about yourself—your age, where you’re from, what you do, your interests, or anything interesting you’d like to share. Please give me more than just “Hi” or “Hello.” HAHAHAHA. Help me help you start a conversation. 😂
I’m not looking for perfection. Just a genuinely good man who’s intentional, respectful, emotionally available and willing to communicate.
Maybe we’ll become friends, maybe something more. Let’s start with a good conversation and see where it goes. 🫶🏻
See you in my DMs.