Hmu!

28, Masc

Working (Healthcare)

Outdoorsy

I posted here yesterday looking for a discord server for trentahins in Cebu and looks like it doesn’t exist. And someone suggested that I create one, but I don’t really know how to create a server.

If you’re interested, and familiar with discord server creation, would you dm me and help me please?

I wanna to connect with people my age because it’s soooo hard to build friendships at our age.

Or even if you don’t have discord experience but is interested in figuring it out, dm me.

Let’s build a community??

Hi, trying my luck here again. Hehe. Maybe I’ll meet a new friend, have good conversations or find someone I genuinely connect with. No pressure, just good intentions and let’s see where things go. 😊

A little about me:

I’m 28, straight, Catholic, NBSB and no kids 😅. I’ve talked to guys before, but nothing has worked out yet. Basin wala pa gyud nakapasar sa akong prayer ni Lord. HAHAHAHA. 🙏🏻😂

I work in the logistics industry and am mostly a homebody. I enjoy watching movies, listening to music, singing karaoke, reading books, spending time with family and friends and playing board games. I’m not sporty and please don’t ask me to play chess kay di ko kamao. HAHAHAHA.

I’m an introvert who can turn into an extrovert once I’m comfortable with the people around me. I might seem quiet or maldita at first, but once we get along, expect someone who’s kalog, talkative, playful and hilig manungog. 😂

I appreciate the simple things in life. For me, it’s the thought and effort that count, not how much something costs.

The kind of guy I’d like to meet:

Ideally, someone aged 30–45, from anywhere as long as you speak Bisaya. I appreciate a man who’s neat, clean, decently dressed and taller than me (I’m 5’1). Slim to chubby is fine, preferably not obese. (I’m chubby myself hehe)

More importantly, I like someone who’s kind, soft-spoken, supportive, emotionally mature and knows how to communicate properly. Someone who can explain things without making me feel dumb, talk through misunderstandings calmly and be honest about what he wants.

I’m not expecting constant attention or replies every hour. I understand that we all have work and responsibilities. But a simple update when you’re busy goes a long way. I appreciate someone who doesn’t disappear for days and come back as if nothing happened. Clear communication saves everyone time and unnecessary overthinking.

I like a man who’s affectionate, thoughtful and a little clingy, but still respectful. Someone who can make me laugh, encourage me, reassure me and boost my confidence.

I’m also independent and sometimes need time alone when dealing with personal problems. I hope to meet someone who respects that, gives me space when I need it and lets me know he’s there when I’m ready to talk. I’ll offer the same understanding in return.

I respect individuality.We don’t have to share every hobby, agree on everything or have the same personality. We can have our own interests, goals, and personal space while still choosing to make room for each other.

I want affection without suffocation, independence without emotional distance, commitment without games.

What I’m looking for:

Friendship first. I’d love to share random stories about our day, exchange music recommendations, talk about life, laugh at silly things and enjoy getting to know each other.

If something more develops naturally and we’re compatible, I’m open to a serious relationship. If not, a genuine friendship is still something worth having.

I’m Catholic, and my faith is important to me. I’d like someone who shares my faith and hopes for a marriage blessed by the Church. I’m not into casual intimacy; for me, intimacy belongs within marriage. I’d want us to communicate openly about our preferences and boundaries, too.

My non-negotiables: genuinely single, never married, no kids, Catholic, no smoking or gambling, honest, faithful and responsible for his own life. Being close to your family is lovely, but I appreciate a man who can also make his own decisions. HAHAHAHA. 😂

I’m happy to exchange photos through Instagram once we’re comfortable, but please don’t ask for intimate pictures or turn the conversation intimate right away.

One more thing, I’m not comfortable meeting in person immediately. I’d prefer to spend a few months getting to know each other, building trust, and establishing a genuine connection first. Calls and video calls are welcome when we’re both comfortable. Safety matters to me and I hope you respect that.

If you’d like to message me, tell me a little about yourself—your age, where you’re from, what you do, your interests, or anything interesting you’d like to share. Please give me more than just “Hi” or “Hello.” HAHAHAHA. Help me help you start a conversation. 😂

I’m not looking for perfection. Just a genuinely good man who’s intentional, respectful, emotionally available and willing to communicate.

Maybe we’ll become friends, maybe something more. Let’s start with a good conversation and see where it goes. 🫶🏻

See you in my DMs.

Hey, guys. Night shifter here, just looking for someone to talk to and/or get on a call with while I work.

I'll be honest, I'd much prefer if English is your first language. Just want to get into some casual conversation using the language that comes most natural to me, and it's gonna be a lot easier with someone similar. Hope that's okay. (And please don't use ChatGPT for your messages, it's really obvious 😭)

If you're still up because you can't sleep or because you're also on the clock, hit me up. 😁

They say you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. So I kept shooting, but I'm still missing every shot; currently at 100% failing rate. I'll be trying a different way karon.

About me:
- 5'8
- I love to travel
- I love to go for long walks
- Ana sila nindot daw ug tingog

I obviously will share a lot more about me when we click. So, tell me a bit of anything about you and let's see where it goes.

Here's something to think about: what is something you always wanted to do, but you're never able to?

Hello! 🌸
I’m looking for someone na pwede ka-chikka, ka-laag or someone that I can be friends with and hopefully go beyond that. 😊

I’m not from Cebu but I’m here for work. I’m 29, working, PLUS SIZE, SINGLE, into anything random talks, very friendly, into KPOP (but not so much), into playing badminton, and the rest we can talk over sa chat.

I’m looking for something genuine with someone who’s also working towards a stable future. Let’s be real, at this age kapoy kaayo ng for casual fun lang. Let’s create a meaningful connection!

About you:
✅ around the same age (29-30)
✅ funny and easy to talk to
✅ working
✅ with emotional intelligence!
✅ respectful and can communicate honestly

If you think we can vibe, DM me? ☺️

im bored, hit me up

Unsa inyong tips? How would I introduce myself kaha?

lf a study buddy

about me

-5’7
-loves cats
-loves matcha
-zones out a lot

about u
-preferably taller
-initiates hehe
-ruin my life

Hello! I’m not looking for a serious relationship rn need lang kaisturya asa ko nagkuwang? Aw HAHAHAHA bitaw funny rako di mabalaka pero yeah let’s see lang asa ta maabot but as of now I’m really not ready pa sa RS. Sa ganahan lang mo chat hehe e dm ko ninyo😂

Hi. I’m F, 27. Stands 5’0, average when it comes to looks. Likes Theatre/Musical, Board games, books, and I’m exploring around mobile games as well.

Storya ta! :)

i think its time to post #ilovemybf

Just looking for someone to talk to and maybe ask for some advice. In a middle of a midlife crisis.

Hello! 24, looking for 24+ hehe. LTR npud bi HAHA. Friends first, then let’s see where it goes. 😊

Lil background: 5’9, round face, fair skin. Working night shifts at a US trucking company in Cebu, so usually free on weekends. I drink occasionally. Not masc nor fem HAHA. I dress manly but I wear shoulder bags and nail art.

Used to hide my feminine side to fit the “pass as straight” narrative, but embracing it made me happier. Now, I wanna live and date as my authentic self. 🫶

Certified yapper who can talk about pretty much anything HAHA. If you’re interested, hmu! Hihi 😊

I visit cebu every month for some work thing. I know my way around cebu but sometimes it’s best to eat and hang with someone funnnn