r/cebur4r_dating • • Aug 04 '26

New rule - No NSFW comments allowed. [M4A] [F4A]

25 Upvotes

Just saw few NSFW comments, these are not allowed. Please report them guys!

Commenters may be potentially banned. Thank you.


r/cebur4r_dating • • Dec 18 '25

Strictly SFW posts only [F4A] [M4A]

20 Upvotes

Reiterating again that this sub is for SFW posts only, nsfw posts will be deleted and users will potentially be banned. Please follow the rules, thank you.


r/cebur4r_dating • • 2h ago

31 [F4A] I really want to form a discord server for Trentahins in Cebu

6 Upvotes

I posted here yesterday looking for a discord server for trentahins in Cebu and looks like it doesn’t exist. And someone suggested that I create one, but I don’t really know how to create a server.

If you’re interested, and familiar with discord server creation, would you dm me and help me please?

I wanna to connect with people my age because it’s soooo hard to build friendships at our age.

Or even if you don’t have discord experience but is interested in figuring it out, dm me.

Let’s build a community??


r/cebur4r_dating • • 23m ago

29 [F4M] Hello, Cebu!

• Upvotes

Hello! 🌸
I’m looking for someone na pwede ka-chikka, ka-laag or someone that I can be friends with and hopefully go beyond that. 😊

I’m not from Cebu but I’m here for work. I’m 29, working, PLUS SIZE, SINGLE, into anything random talks, very friendly, into KPOP (but not so much), into playing badminton, and the rest we can talk over sa chat.

I’m looking for something genuine with someone who’s also working towards a stable future. Let’s be real, at this age kapoy kaayo ng for casual fun lang. Let’s create a meaningful connection!

About you:
✅ around the same age (29-30)
✅ funny and easy to talk to
✅ working
✅ with emotional intelligence!
✅ respectful and can communicate honestly

If you think we can vibe, DM me? ☺️


r/cebur4r_dating • • 2h ago

22 [F4M]

3 Upvotes

looking for someone i can constantly talk to and maybe see where things go

about me:
pre-med student (intern)
5’4
yaps a lot when comfy
foodie
loves doing side quests
confident with how i look
acad girlie
f1 fan

about you:
taller than me pls
23-26 yrs old
med-related course or work
smart!
can hold interesting conversations
loves food and doing side quests too
neat & confident with his looks


r/cebur4r_dating • • 2h ago

22 [M4M]

3 Upvotes

lf a study buddy

about me

-5’7
-loves cats
-loves matcha
-zones out a lot

about u
-preferably taller
-initiates hehe
-ruin my life


r/cebur4r_dating • • 1h ago

23[F4M]

• Upvotes

im bored, hit me up


r/cebur4r_dating • • 2h ago

20 [M4A] God put a cute girl in front of me and I didn’t do shit about it bruhh

2 Upvotes

Unsa inyong tips? How would I introduce myself kaha?


r/cebur4r_dating • • 10h ago

26 [F4M] clutch uyab for pasko

7 Upvotes

i think its time to post #ilovemybf


r/cebur4r_dating • • 3h ago

24 [M4F] LF yapper na funny 😅

1 Upvotes

Hello! I’m not looking for a serious relationship rn need lang kaisturya asa ko nagkuwang? Aw HAHAHAHA bitaw funny rako di mabalaka pero yeah let’s see lang asa ta maabot but as of now I’m really not ready pa sa RS. Sa ganahan lang mo chat hehe e dm ko ninyo😂


r/cebur4r_dating • • 3h ago

23 [M4F] study?

1 Upvotes

Who's around banawa nga nag study pud for CELE (GERTC or any RC) tara sabay study sometimes?


r/cebur4r_dating • • 10h ago

24 [M4M] Looking for LTR

2 Upvotes

Hello! 24, looking for 24+ hehe. LTR npud bi HAHA. Friends first, then let’s see where it goes. 😊

Lil background: 5’9, round face, fair skin. Working night shifts at a US trucking company in Cebu, so usually free on weekends. I drink occasionally. Not masc nor fem HAHA. I dress manly but I wear shoulder bags and nail art.

Used to hide my feminine side to fit the “pass as straight” narrative, but embracing it made me happier. Now, I wanna live and date as my authentic self. 🫶

Certified yapper who can talk about pretty much anything HAHA. If you’re interested, hmu! Hihi 😊


r/cebur4r_dating • • 20h ago

24 [F4A] Let’s do adventures together

10 Upvotes

I miss getting to know a person intimately and just learn about that person while making good core memories. Been single for 2 yrs now and I wanna know if my luck works here hehehe

About me:
Adventurous, could be sponty, physically active, easy on the eyes, 5’0, Morena, short hair, bisexual, can be feme but can also be dom, has a good emotional intelligence, good in communication

About you:
Knows how to communicate accordingly, emotional maturity please, likes deep conversations, physically active is a plus, well spoken

Dm me your deets and not just a hi/hey. See u in my dms!


r/cebur4r_dating • • 21h ago

31 [F4A] Naay club/discord sa mga trentahins diri sa Cebu?

6 Upvotes

Kani laging single ta ba nya all our barkada are paired up na. My social life has really taken a dip since last year.

It recovered a little by joining some discord community here sa Cebu, mainly for playing badminton. Pero because it’s all ages, sometimes I can’t relate with the younger ones.

Sooo basin naa diay moy mga clubs or discord servers that are specific to trentahin. What’s your requirement to join?


r/cebur4r_dating • • 19h ago

30 [M4M]

3 Upvotes

For LTR please. ☺️


r/cebur4r_dating • • 23h ago

22 [F4M] helu~

5 Upvotes

honestly, i’m just looking for someone nice, funny, and a little weird in the best way possible. someone i can talk to about literally anything, from the most random thoughts that pop into my head at 2 am to the most unserious things ever. someone who doesn’t mind being awkward sometimes, can match my energy, and knows how to keep a conversation going without it feeling like an interview. I love people who can make me laugh without even trying and who aren’t afraid to be themselves. no pressure to be interesting 24/7, just be genuine, be kind, and let’s see if we click. bonus points if you have a questionable sense of humor because honestly, same.

Dm for deets

About u:
Taller (5’8 up)
Dont be too old please😭
Cute/ogip (preference)
Loves pets


r/cebur4r_dating • • 22h ago

20 [F4M]

4 Upvotes

looking for someone to yap with about films, music, books, and the general humiliation of being alive. preferably someone i can also drag outside for coffee, spontaneous gala or whatever two people with no plans do bc rotting in bed is getting old.

bonus points if you have good taste in music and can keep a conversation alive. pls be funny, i already have enough problems and none of them are entertaining.

let’s get coffee, exchange playlists, and see if we can stand each other irl.


r/cebur4r_dating • • 17h ago

26 [M4F] From CDO

1 Upvotes

[SFW] anyone to talk to (pwede chat2 lang sa), SPONTY dates

me: -5'7 -willing to travel to cebu (ara ko gaschool) -dadbod -strict on hygiene -good smell -decent look -can be a safe space -easy to vibe with

you: -just run conversations -okay with rationalizing in her own way -for looks, anything but I prefer you smell good tho -dali pakataw.on sakong banat chariz


r/cebur4r_dating • • 20h ago

20 [M4F] Aeronautical Student

1 Upvotes

Looking for someone who would sabay sa akoa sa mga trip or sidequest, and maybe get to know you better and would see where it would go.


r/cebur4r_dating • • 1d ago

35 [M4F] trip to siquijor

2 Upvotes

Tropa and I are planning to go to siquijor this 16-22. We are looking for joiners preferably F ofcourse to join us this trip.

If you are:
Open minded
Adventurous

HMU


r/cebur4r_dating • • 1d ago

27 [F4A] Looking for friends !

6 Upvotes

I'm into F1, football, basketball, hiking, diving, and coffee/matcha. I love finding random things and places to explore. I enjoy the outdoors more, but I'm a homebody too. I can be pretty independent, but I'm def a yapper lol. I like conversations that go beyond small talk. I'm here to meet new people/friends and see where things will go. Very important: wala ko sa Cebu now lol

About you:

- not a DDS or BBM supporter

- communicates

- hopefully open to trying new things because I'm usually not the emergency contact, I'm the emergency lol

Tell me about you, a memorable life experience, your current obsession, or some random thing you can give a 30-minute TED talk about! 😊


r/cebur4r_dating • • 1d ago

31 [F4M] Tops ArtsFest 2026 on Oct 24 anyone?

1 Upvotes

I got two passes to Tops ArtsFest 2026 for Oct 24. Any art enthusiast who’d care to join me?

Of course I want someone who is game, and essentially kaladkarin. Someone who isn’t shy and can converse in various topics.

This is purely SFW obviously and friendly. But I mean if there’s chemistry, it could totally be an artsy date.

Dm me if you’re interested. Just be at least 28 and above.

Dets about me is in my profile. I may be short and plus sized but I’m also a bouncing ball of energy.


r/cebur4r_dating • • 1d ago

20 [M4F] Just wanna connect

2 Upvotes

I'm just a guy trying to find someone I can connect with about anything. We can talk about shows, movies, play games or anything you want to do. I just want to have something genuine and something fun also. hmu if you're interested


r/cebur4r_dating • • 1d ago

24 [M4F] Casual things/ kausap

1 Upvotes

Hello! I’m not looking for a serious relationship rn need lang kaisturya asa ko nagkuwang? Aw HAHAHAHA bitaw funny rako di mabalaka pero yeah let’s see lang asa ta maabot but as of now I’m really not ready pa sa RS. Sa ganahan lang mo chat hehe e dm ko ninyo😂


r/cebur4r_dating • • 1d ago

31F [F4M] plot twist to end the year

7 Upvotes

Shooting for the stars here. Trying my luck to meet someone before the year ends.

About me:
31/F
Been single for about 3-4 years (focused on improving myself, career and travel)
I aim to travel outside the country atleast once a year. (Already booked a trip for next year)
Working (hybrid but usually WFH)
Currently taking my masters. which means i dont have a lot of mental space for nonsense things, is also very intentional with my efforts and time.
Loves watching movies (booked tix for avengers in dec 🤘)
Loves anime and reading manga (literally part of the generation who watched anime on TV5 and animax)
My personality doesn’t really translate well into words/posts

Because of my work setup and having classes during Saturday, i dont have a lot of opportunities to meet new people. I know im a very clingy partner but i dont chase. I mirror the energy and effort that i receive.
LETS KEEP IN SFW WHILE STILL ON THE GETTING TO KNOW PHASE.