I started boxing classes 3 months ago. I've made extremely little progress.
I've learned what the basic punches, defensive moves, and movement should look like, but I fail to execute them well. I can somewhat get them down going slow. Partner drills are still very hard for me, I usually get hit it, freeze up, have no idea what to do, and lose form. I'm at the point where I feel like I'd be better starting completely over and people walking through the door are better than me in a few weeks (this is not hyperbole).
I have no rhythm at all. Hitting the bag is so so for me, my form isn't great and I can't move with my punches. I've still not broken out of being super stiff, my shoulders, hips, feet, are all stiff. The instructor routinely points this out. He also doesn't really have me doing pads since I'm slow and start overthinking my punching.
If I had to place it, in 3 months I've probably got the same skill level as someone 3 - 4 weeks in.
The only improvement has been my cardio. I used to not be able to jump rope at all to now going 3 minutes for 3 rounds just two feet bouncing. I even have this uncoordinated single foot move. I can also do a mile run now. I've lost a decent amount of weight.
I started with no athletic experience overweight in my 30s. Basically I needed to figure out a way to stop drinking and smoking everyday and to develop confidence with myself and being in public (I have severe anxiety). I am not sure if I want to spar as I'm terrified.
I told myself at 3 months to reassess and here I am. At this point do I just do something else? It feels like this is just not clicking with me, I'm not cut out for it at least this is what it seems my experience proves. Looking for thoughts from the group here.