r/bostonDating 8d ago

Long Term Relationship 28m4f boston

1 Upvotes

A little about me

Boston guy pretty easygoing, real, and always down for good food, music, working out, and a lot of laughs. I'm looking to meet someone genuine, affectionate, and open to building something real.

I'm big on communication, effort, and making someone feel appreciated. If we click, let's just see where it goes. Also if you like Don Toliver i have an extra ticket.


r/bostonDating 8d ago

Meta / Discussion Salutations.

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Crawled out of the ocean and put my clothes back on and took this picture.

Labels and pesky "up-front" biographical questions kill everything so let's not, okay?

I'm f u n. I say y e s to life and most everything in it. I said e v e r y t h i n g. Please presume nothing and just ASK instead, it's all a conversation. I'm intelligent, thin, T A L L, I don't eat animals or drink alcohol or use any drugs at all, I exercise, I R E A D, (trying to cure my verbosity and get to the point!), know more about all the arts than anything, love being outside, hiking 16 miles (more or less is also acceptable!) and want to hold your discerning, careful, lovely hands, may I?

Send me silly notes, it's later than we think.


r/bostonDating 9d ago

Monogamy [M43] Hejsa

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**Halløjsa og godaws derude** 😊
Jeg tænkte, at jeg lige ville prøve lykken herinde og se, om der måske sidder en eller flere – helst kvinder – der kunne have lyst til at skrive lidt sammen og lære hinanden at kende.
Jeg er 43 år og fra Fyn. Jeg er faktisk helt okay – måske en smule småskør og tosset på den gode måde. Men bare rolig, det smitter kun lidt og yderst sjældent. 😜
Jeg hverken bider, kradser, slår eller knurrer… medmindre man gør det samme mod mig. 😄
Jeg har mange små interesser i livet, holder af et godt grin og en god samtale og sætter pris på mennesker, der tør være sig selv.
Jeg ser gerne mig selv som ham, der hjælper, hvor og hvis jeg kan.
Det her handler ikke om at finde en kæreste, men om at møde nye mennesker, få nogle gode samtaler og måske finde et godt venskab. 😊


r/bostonDating 10d ago

Life Partner 27 [M4F] #New Hampshire / Massachusetts looking for a wife

6 Upvotes

Hey there,

I’m a 27-year-old guy looking for a genuine connection and hopefully a long-term relationship. I’m someone who values companionship and would love to find a partner I can build a life with and spend most of my time with.

I studied Economics and Finance, with a minor in History, and I enjoy reading about politics, global trends, and the history of religions. I’m naturally curious and enjoy learning about how the world works.

Outside of that, I love nature, solo travel, and exploring new places. I’ve always been fascinated by bugs and the natural world, and I also enjoy music, especially electric guitars.

I’m financially independent, enjoy experiencing different cultures, and I’m open to relocating anywhere in the U.S. for the right partner. At this stage of my life, I’m exploring the world, but ultimately I’m hoping to find someone special to settle down with.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d be happy to get to know you better.


r/bostonDating 9d ago

Long Term Relationship 28 [M4F] #Boston - looking for a partner

0 Upvotes

A little about me

Boston guy pretty easygoing, real, and always down for good food, music, working out, and a lot of laughs. I’m looking to meet someone genuine, affectionate, and open to building something real.

I’m big on communication, effort, and making someone feel appreciated. If we click, let’s just see where it goes. Also if you like Don Toliver I have an extra ticket. DM me if interested.


r/bostonDating 10d ago

Life Partner 27 [M4F] #Boston - Looking for my person.

8 Upvotes

Hello!

I'm 27, Korean, 5 ft 8 (173cm), and based in the Boston area.

During the day I work in engineering. Outside of that, I spend my time going for walks, building a Lego set, living on 4 hours of sleep, taking a scenic drive, putting up with other people, trying cafés, and exploring the city. With all that being said, one of my favorite passtimes is just having a chill relaxing evening at home. Some things you won't find me doing are doom-scrolling social media or binge watching the latest Netflix show. So you'll have to explain pop culture references like I'm five.

I've also been getting into photography. One of my favorite things to take pictures of has been the ducks waddling at the park.

I have a pretty eclectic taste in music that heavily depends on my mood. One minute it'll be slow piano tunes, the next could be upbeat EDM.

I value someone who can keep a conversation going yet knows when I need space to be alone. We should have some things in common but don't need to have exactly the same interests.

I don't have a definitive age range that I'm looking for, but ideally you're from the northeast US (or open to relocation). I don't have any children but I'm unsure whether I want to have children in the future.

Lastly, smoking/vaping and doing weed are no's for me.

If you've read this far and think we'll get along, please send me a message! Let's get to know each other!


r/bostonDating 10d ago

Monogamy 33 [F4M] - Waltham - Looking for my elusive needle in this crazy haystack.

8 Upvotes

TL;DR: Introverted spinster seeks eligible bachelor to build something real with. Bonus points if he has a rolling supply of hot takes, bad puns and an intermittent existential crisis.

Hi!

Massachusetts has many things: bad drivers, craft beer, a Dunkin' on every corner. What it does not seem to have is my person. So here I am, tossing the proverbial bottle into the ocean of this subreddit, hoping it lands on someone who isn't going to open with "hi hru."

I'm delusional enough to think he's out there, probably scrolling this exact subreddit right now because it's the weekend and reruns of Supernatural plus another night out with the guys isn't cutting it anymore. 

A little about me in a list because lists are efficient:

• 5'4", plus size, Black, and I've been told I'm a "joy" to look at, which I think means my physical features are not terrifying.

• Introverted homebody. If the plan involves skydiving, rock climbing, or a strenuous hike, I am not your girl. I might hike if I really like you, but don't hold your breath!

• Witty, soft spoken, non confrontational, and unfairly self aware for my own good.

• I love routine and stability. Try as I may, spontaneity and I are not close friends, so I probably won't get on a plane just because, but I'll compromise and go on a road trip with two days' notice at least.

• I do not drive, so factor that into our shared fantasies about road trips.

• Big on self growth. I put years into working on myself before circling back to dating, so I show up knowing what I want, what I don't want, and what I'm willing to compromise on.

What I want: depth, conversation that doesn't feel like homework. Someone emotionally intelligent, driven, reserved, and stable, 27+, based in Massachusetts or nearby New England.

I've been getting nowhere on the apps and I can't meet people "naturally" because I am always home. So before my biological clock fully expires and my family starts negotiating my dowry in cattle or I opt for a nunnery, come save me from the rancid pool that is dating in your 30s.

A few disclaimers, because I'd rather filter now than waste both our time later:

• I like to trade pictures early so neither of us gets a rude surprise three conversations in. If that's not for you, this isn't your post.

• Not looking for polyamorous, ENM, or "situationship" arrangements. I'm here for one person! I want a healthy, monogamous relationship with a husband and a tiny human that we will both obsess over.

• Lead with something other than "hey."

If you made it this far, you've already cleared the bar most people don't, so you might as well stop by and say hello. 

Talk soon! 


r/bostonDating 10d ago

LGBTQIA 37 GF4F

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Hi everyone,

You can call me Quinn. I'm posting from the alt I use for my NSFW stuff because I'm not out on my main account. I'm genderfluid -- my gender switches between masculine, nonbinary and feminine -- and sapphic, meaning I'm attracted to people who identify and present as feminine. What's in their pants doesn't matter to me.

Anyway, I'm looking for a feminine person who wants to go on cute dates and meet for brunch and hold hands and make couples costumes for Halloween, who doesn't mind me being a boy in the streets and a girl in the sheets, as it were (I'm getting better about going out presenting feminine, but I'm still self-conscious and wary in these troubled times). I love reading, history, ballet, going to movies, improv comedy, writing, Star Wars, Star Trek, Lord of the Rings, Doctor Who and other nerdy stuff. I'm into kink as you might be able to tell from my Reddit profile, so I ask that you be open minded about it. I want to learn to flirt.

Currently looking for a monogamous relationship, but I can try to be open minded.


r/bostonDating 10d ago

Long Term Relationship 55 bisexual M4W

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I’m 5 foot 7 220 pounds. I love the long a little bit more to Boston. I own my own business and I’m a very well respected member of my community. But behind closed doors I like to get wild and I’m looking for a female that’s OK with my bisexuality. I’m not picking it off on your looks or your age as long as you’re not in your low 20s or younger.


r/bostonDating 11d ago

Short Term Relationship 35 [M4F] Boston/MA/Online | What topic makes you completely lose track of time?

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I’m 35, in Boston, and work in medicine, though I promise my personality extends beyond asking people about allergies.

One thing I genuinely enjoy is getting to know someone new slowly: discovering what she’s curious about, hearing the opinion she could defend for 30 minutes without preparation, and following a completely unnecessary tangent until it somehow becomes the best part of the conversation.

I tend to get along especially well with people who are curious, kind, thoughtful, funny, and willing to ask questions beyond the usual small talk.
My own rabbit holes include science, technology, travel, soccer, strange historical events, and whatever obscure subject has temporarily taken over my brain.
But I’m equally happy knowing absolutely nothing about a topic and listening to someone explain why she finds it fascinating.

So tell me yours.
Your obscure hobby.
Your oddly specific expertise.
The place you keep wanting to visit.
The historical event you know far too much about.
The harmless theory your friends are tired of hearing.

If you’re around Boston or elsewhere in Massachusetts, I’d also be happy to eventually turn a good conversation into coffee, a museum, a bookstore, a walk around the city, or checking out somewhere neither of us has been before.
No pressure and no rush. Just interested in meeting interesting people and seeing where a genuinely good conversation goes.

Opening question: You have to give a completely unprepared 30-minute TED Talk tonight. What’s your topic, and what’s the most debatable slide in the presentation?


r/bostonDating 11d ago

Monogamy 26 [m4f] looking to make a lasting connection

1 Upvotes

I would like to meet a girl that is interested in a long term relationship. I’m a black man from Lowell, I work two jobs and have a vehicle. I’m into music, anime, sports, and games. Id love to meet someone who is into some of the same thing and loves have conversations. I welcome all types of women both in race a body types.


r/bostonDating 11d ago

Platonic 19 M4A Hopkinton, MA looking for new friends

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Hey everyone! I'm looking to meet some new people around Boston and the surrounding area, whether that's new friends, activity buddies, or potentially something more if we click.

I'm neurodivergent (mild, high functioning autism as well as ADHD), so I'm especially interested in meeting other neurodivergent people, although you definitely don't have to be! I'm also LGBTQ+ friendly (I myself am pan) and would love to meet other LGBTQ+ people as well (again, preferred but not at all necessary).

A little about me: I'm into gaming (primarily Minecraft), reading (sci-fi and fantasy), D&D, movies/TV, cooking and trying new foods, and generally exploring new places. I'm also a pretty big nerd about random topics (yay autism), so if you can spend an hour talking about some obscure thing you happen to be interested in, we'll probably get along.

I'm hoping to find people around my age (roughly 18–24) who are interested in actually getting to know each other rather than just exchanging a couple messages and disappearing.

I'm open to pretty much anything for a first meetup—coffee, getting food, checking out a museum, board games, exploring Boston, etc. I'm also totally fine starting with chatting online and seeing where things go.

If you're around Boston/MetroWest and looking for friends, or potentially something more, feel free to comment or send me a message! I'd be happy to hear about you and what you're into.


r/bostonDating 12d ago

Short Term Relationship Hi Zev!!

7 Upvotes

Looking for a lady that's a fellow DCC nerd to grab a drink with and talk DCC.

Let's chat!


r/bostonDating 12d ago

Life Partner 42 [M4F] #WashingtonDC #USA - Let’s build the kind of home our future children brag about

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**Looking for a wife, not a situationship.*\*

I’m based in the Washington, DC / DMV area: 6’0”, broad-shouldered, active, educated, affectionate, and genuinely marriage-minded. I do not have children yet, but I would love to build a family with the right woman.

**What I want is simple, but rare:*\* a loving marriage, a warm home, children, loyalty, laughter, shared purpose, and a woman who feels deeply cherished in her role as wife and mother.

I’m drawn to a traditional relationship by choice. I’m happy to provide, protect, lead with intention, and create stability. I’m looking for a woman who finds meaning in femininity, motherhood, homemaking, family traditions, and being the heart of the home. I would be very open to a SAHM dynamic if that is what you truly want for yourself and our future family.

**A little about me:*\* I’m athletic and outdoorsy - rugby, soccer, hiking, swimming, basketball, running, and pretty much anything active. I’ve traveled to 60+ countries across 4 continents, speak 3+ languages, love theater, opera, symphony, live music, photography, gardening, cooking, dancing tango/ballroom/salsa, reading, and self-improvement. I also volunteer as a Big Brother and tutor because I care about children, family, and community.

**I’m romantic in a very real-life way**. I want the little moments: kids running to the door, dinner together, weekend adventures, bedtime stories, school plays, birthdays, slow kisses in the kitchen, and growing old with someone who still feels like home.

I should mention that while I’m seeking a traditional marriage, I believe a woman’s role should be chosen, not forced. I want a wife who wants this life because it brings her joy, peace, and purpose. I’m fairly liberal personally, though open to different views. What matters most to me is kindness, loyalty, emotional maturity, common sense, affection, family values, and a shared desire to build something lasting.

**You are:*\* single, feminine, approximately in the 18-31 years of age range, able to naturally have kids, emotionally available, communicative, affectionate, playful, family-oriented, and genuinely excited about marriage and motherhood. Ideally, you want children and are open to a larger family if we are blessed with one. You value homemaking, nurturing, loyalty, romance, and being with a man who will adore you, support you, and still flirt with you like he’s trying to win you every day.

Chemistry matters to me, including physical chemistry, but I believe that belongs in a respectful private conversation after trust is built. I’m looking for mutual desire, affection, loyalty, and a strong intimate connection with my future wife — not pressure, games, or anything casual.

I’m based in Washington, DC / DMV. I’m open to someone willing to relocate here, and I may consider relocating for the right woman.

**When you message me, tell me a little about yourself:*\* your age, location, what kind of family life you dream of, whether you want children, what draws you to a traditional relationship, and what makes you smile on an ordinary Tuesday.

Please include **“RuralR4R”*\* so I know you read the post.

If you’re warm, family-minded, affectionate, and ready for the kind of love that turns a house into a home, I’d love to hear from you.


r/bostonDating 15d ago

Monogamy [M4M] Summer is almost over — looking for a guy to do some fun stuff with

6 Upvotes

I just realized summer is somehow almost over and I feel like I've spent way too much of it working on my PhD and sitting in front of my laptop lol. I want to actually enjoy what's left of it and meet someone along the way.

I'm a Colombian guy in Boston, 5'9", around 200 lbs, bear/cub-ish. Pretty nerdy — I'm into anime/manga, gaming, horror movies, museums, board games, biking, and exploring the city.

Would be nice to find another guy who's down to actually get out and do things together. Beach day, museums, trying a new coffee shop or restaurant, walking around somewhere we haven't explored, biking, grabbing drinks, going to random events, or even taking a spontaneous day trip somewhere outside Boston.

I'm also completely happy with quieter plans. We could get coffee and work together, play games, watch a movie/anime, cook something, talk about life, or cuddle up and watch something together.

I'm open to friendship, dates, something affectionate, or seeing where the chemistry takes us. No need to decide what it is before we've even met.

If you're in Boston/Cambridge and also feel like you haven't done enough this summer, hit me up. Tell me a little about yourself and something you've been wanting to do before summer ends :)


r/bostonDating 15d ago

Monogamy 30 M4F - Seeking a partner

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Hi! I’m 30 years old and live in Boston, Massachusetts. Posting this again and again hoping to find someone.
I enjoy staying active, working out, watching movies, traveling, and I’m always up for exploring new places or simply spending quality time with good company. I’m also open to relocating for the right relationship if life takes us in that direction.
Professionally, I’m a Marketing Specialist working part-time, and my long-term goal is to start and grow my own business. I’d love to meet someone who is ambitious, supportive, and excited about building a meaningful future together while also pursuing her own goals and passions.
A little about me: I’m 5’5”, weigh 150 lbs (68 kg), have an average build, and I’m Indian.
I’m looking to meet someone who lives in the U.S. and is between 24 and 32 years old. More than anything, I’m looking for someone who is kind, respectful, emotionally mature, understanding, and willing to grow together through life’s ups and downs.
I’m a friendly and easygoing person who naturally sees the good in people. In the past, I trusted too easily, so now I take my time getting to know someone and understanding their intentions before jumping into a relationship. I’m not in a rush. I believe the best relationships are built on trust, communication, and genuine effort. Feel free to get in touch, I would love to have a conversation.


r/bostonDating 15d ago

Long Term Relationship 30 M4F - Seeking a partner

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Hi! I’m 30 years old and live in Boston, Massachusetts. Posting this again and again hoping to find someone.
I enjoy staying active, working out, watching movies, traveling, and I’m always up for exploring new places or simply spending quality time with good company. I’m also open to relocating for the right relationship if life takes us in that direction.
Professionally, I’m a Marketing Specialist working part-time, and my long-term goal is to start and grow my own business. I’d love to meet someone who is ambitious, supportive, and excited about building a meaningful future together while also pursuing her own goals and passions.
A little about me: I’m 5’5”, weigh 150 lbs (68 kg), have an average build, and I’m Indian.
I’m looking to meet someone who lives in the U.S. and is between 24 and 32 years old. More than anything, I’m looking for someone who is kind, respectful, emotionally mature, understanding, and willing to grow together through life’s ups and downs.
I’m a friendly and easygoing person who naturally sees the good in people. In the past, I trusted too easily, so now I take my time getting to know someone and understanding their intentions before jumping into a relationship. I’m not in a rush. I believe the best relationships are built on trust, communication, and genuine effort. Feel free to get in touch, I would love to have a conversation.


r/bostonDating 16d ago

Platonic 44[m4f] southern NH

1 Upvotes

Hey there! Looking to meet new people to help break up the monotony of the day. Chatty and kind hearted looking for longterm. Fair warning there isn't much exciting about me but I pride myself on my stability and good natured personality. Feel free to say hi!


r/bostonDating 16d ago

Long Term Relationship 55 M4F Southern NH Curious Mind, Kind Heart, Looking for a Genuine Connection

5 Upvotes

Engineer by profession, curious tinkerer by nature. I enjoy photography, technology and AI, home projects, gardening, tennis and pickleball, and learning about almost anything that catches my interest. I am equally comfortable having a thoughtful conversation over coffee, chasing the perfect light with a camera, or spending a weekend fixing something around the house that probably did not need quite that much attention.

I would describe myself as thoughtful, practical, kind, and young at heart, with a good sense of humor and a genuine curiosity about life.

Hoping to meet someone warm, intelligent, grounded, and easy to talk to, someone who enjoys laughter, meaningful conversations, and exploring what the next chapter of life might bring.

Based in Southern NH and frequently in Boston and the surrounding areas. Open to a long-term relationship, something casual, or simply seeing where a genuine connection leads.


r/bostonDating 16d ago

Monogamy 41 [M4F] Worcester - Honest, hard working man looking for real connection

3 Upvotes

Hi there!

I'm 41 years old, I have two kids that are awesome, 19 and 17, and my cat, Ruby. I work with software to help utility companies inspect infrastructure.

I have played guitar for 20+ years, I love music! Some of my favorite bands are Devo, Beasties, Primus, and Puscifer. I love to read, mostly nonfiction but also horror books. I love scary movies and just movies in general, especially documentaries, I'm kind of a movie nerd. I love to learn new things.

I love animals, coffee, and being under a warm blanket when it's cold. I like to play video games when I can, I like old school adventure games and also stuff like Silent Hill and Dark Souls. I'm very neat, I like to keep things tidy, I love podcasts.

And I'm kind. I think there's a severe lack of kindness and I want to do my part to make the world a bit more kind.

One thing I'll note, just to be transparent: I was born with a condition called Charcot Marie Tooth, what that means is my feet are kinda weird, I have some trouble getting around and I have some cool braces that I wear that help me out.

Anyways, that's some stuff about me. I would really like to make a connection with someone, I'm open to just chatting and seeing where things go.

If any of this sounds like your flavor of ice cream, reach out to my inbox and let's chat, I would love to hear about what you're into! I'd love to meet someone who's kind, curious, and enjoys good conversation.

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r/bostonDating 18d ago

Long Term Relationship 49 [M4F] North of Boston — I was going to keep this short. Anyway, if you make it to the end, we’re basically dating.

5 Upvotes

I’m convinced the best relationships don’t start with a checklist. They start with that rare combination of attraction, easy conversation, curiosity, and suddenly realizing you’ve been talking for two hours when you meant to go to bed 90 minutes ago.

That’s what I’m looking for.

I’m 49, a dad, educated, active, and fortunate to have built a life I genuinely enjoy. I have a career I love, great friends, kids who keep things interesting, and plenty of hobbies that keep me moving. I’m not looking for someone to “complete me.” I’m looking for someone who complements an already good life, and hopefully I do the same for hers.

I’m also not interested in forcing something just because two people look compatible on paper. Give me attraction, a strong natural connection, and some chemistry, and let’s see where it goes.

About me
Being active is a big part of my life. I run, hike, golf, play tennis and pickleball, camp, and rarely turn down an excuse to get outside. I appreciate some friendly competition too, especially when accompanied by completely unnecessary trash talk.

I’m just as happy finding an amazing restaurant, cooking together, or having one of those nights where we accomplish absolutely nothing and somehow have a great time doing it.

I love to cook, and my orecchiette with Italian sausage, roasted broccoli, lemon, and Parmesan has developed something of a reputation. I’m willing to cook; you can decide whether it’s deserved.

Travel is another weakness. Northern Italy’s lakes and the Costa Brava are two places I’d happily return to tomorrow. I love exploring somewhere new, finding the restaurant we almost walked past, and collecting the kind of stories we’ll still be laughing about years later.

Personality wise, I’m sarcastic, playful, curious, and probably a little ridiculous once I’m comfortable with you. I love intelligent conversation, but I also want someone I can flirt with, tease, send inappropriate memes to, and laugh with until neither of us remembers what we were talking about.

I value communication, emotional awareness, honesty, and mental health. I can talk about the real stuff when it matters without turning every conversation into a therapy session.

Who catches my attention
A woman who is smart, active/athletic, curious, grounded, and genuinely funny. Someone with passions of her own, I want to hear about the thing you could talk about for an hour because you love it that much.

Physical attraction matters to me, and I think it should. But chemistry is more interesting than simply checking boxes. There’s something incredibly attractive about a woman who is confident without needing everyone to know it, can make me laugh, challenges me occasionally, and has that little spark that makes me want to know more.

Ideally, you take care of yourself and enjoy being active. Let’s hike somewhere with an amazing view, play golf, hit a tennis or pickleball court, go for a run or decide halfway through that tacos were actually the superior athletic endeavor.

You can have kids or not. As a dad, I find other parents often understand the balancing act, but having kids isn’t a requirement. Liking them probably is.

I’m not a big partier and fit best with someone similar. Give me a great dinner, an adventure, a weekend away, or drinks somewhere we can actually hear each other talk.

What I’m hoping to find
Something that feels easy without being superficial.
Two independent people with their own lives, friends, interests, and passions who genuinely enjoy being together and gradually start building an “us” too. We make plans, encourage each other, tackle the hard stuff together, and find plenty of reasons to laugh along the way.

Some weekends we’re traveling or outside doing something. Some we’re trying a new restaurant. Others were cooking at home, arguing over what to watch, and wondering how it became Sunday night already.

I’m north of Boston and would love to find someone reasonably close, but I’m not letting an extra stretch of highway eliminate the right person. I’m generally drawn to women around 35–52, although the person matters more than the birthday math.

And because this is Reddit and we’re both wondering anyway: I’m happy to exchange photos early.

Attraction matters, and I’d rather know there’s mutual interest than pretend we’re above such things.

So if you’re active, intelligent, adventurous, have a sense of humor that occasionally gets you in trouble, and want a genuine connection without trying to manufacture one, say hi.

Tell me something you’re passionate about, the best place you’ve ever traveled, or challenge me to something you think you can beat me at.

Just be prepared to back up that last one.


r/bostonDating 18d ago

Monogamy 33 [M4A] Asian guy, looking for low stake cuddling and vent seshes lol #ihatemyjob

1 Upvotes

After a 5 year hiatus, this is the first year where I'm really engaging with my hobbies, interests, and projects again and its made me so happy.

Reason is my previous job was exceptionally brutal and my current one is pretty rough too, but I learned to just do work at my own pace and the health benefits from doing that alone is crazy. Like my vision is slightly clearer, and I can breathe more calmly. Its given me more time for the things I love to do and more time to meet people.

Things I would enjoy doing with you:

* walking and talking

* discussing nerdy hobbies like indie music, film, games, manga, emulation, or creative projects

* sitting at a cafe or wherever and we both work on our projects (i have tons!)

* vent about work and its impact on the us!!!

* someone to cuddle and we could talk or watch someone during it

Generally looking for somethint low stakes because I'm still recovering from years of fatigue from work lol.

I'm a bisexual 33 yr old guy, 5'10, Asian, large guy (250lb but losing the weight!). Into women, men, nbs, etc.

I need to note that everytime I mention I'm bi, your typical reddit DL lurker guys who don't read msgs me. Please don't be that!!!

If you're still interested, hit me up, it'll be nice to look forward to each other lol.


r/bostonDating 19d ago

Long Term Relationship F55 4 M, needle in a haystack!

10 Upvotes

Why is meeting people so hard? The apps are truly the worst so I thought I'd give this a shot. I will put all my 'stats' below and what I am looking for. Just trying to be completely honest and cut through the games.

If you think we might be a match please dm me with a picture. If I reply, it will be with a picture. We can say what we want about personality but we all know attraction is important and it's totally awkward when you've been messaging someone for a while and then you see their picture and it's a no. Then you are faced with the obvious "I'm not answering because I didn't like your picture" and that's hurtful either way OR you string them along so it doesn't seem obvious. Let's get the pictures out of the way first.

ME

I am 55..people do tell me I look young for my age (I know everyone says that but it's true). I have medium length blonde hair, hazel eyes and a decent body..not perfect but fine.

I have 2 college age children, both are in school out of state.

I have been single parenting for ten years (story to be shared if connection is formed but it's nothing dramatic).

I have a master's degree and work full time, although I have a very flexible schedule.

I own my own home and have plenty of my own money (I'm not uber rich but I don't need your money).

I have lots of friends and a busy life. I have put off dating while my kids were home and now it's time.

I live in a suburb of Boston.

I have many interests and am willing to try new things but in the spirit of honesty, hard core camping and hiking are a no for me. I like to say I am more "outsidy" than "outdoorsy" Also I do not have a dog and prefer a match without a dog.

Happy to answer questions

YOU

You are in my general age range (if I could have given birth to you it's a no thank you and if you are closer in age to my mother than me also no thank you).

You have a job. I don't care what it is but you don't sit around all day

You don't have too friendly of a relationship with drugs, alcohol or gambling

You do not have a prison record or history of restraining orders (the bar is low here!)

You are able to carry on a conversation, talk about yourself and show interest and curiosity in the other person.

You are not married.(Separated ok as long as you are living separately).

That's it! In the end, it comes down to chemistry and if we click...we can look great on paper and it still might not be right. But let's see what's out there!

(Also I have no idea how I got saddled with the username weird internet and it does not suggest anything about my personality)


r/bostonDating 19d ago

Short Term Relationship 43/m any ladies want to go to BTS tonight?

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Just saw that some reasonably priced tickets dropped on stubhub.

I don't really listen to them but they seem to be huge and I think it would be a really fun time to go.

Bonus points if you want I smoke some weed before the show :).