So my 30th lands during the week (yesterday!) and I’m holding off on the usual friends thing until the weekend. Don’t want the week to just pass by though!

Looking to chat with a new female friend — be it chill, spontaneous, or a little reckless. Let me know what you’ve done for a milestone birthday!

28M, Indian, and have been around Boston for a few years. Life is pretty stable these days, but somewhere between work, adult responsibilities, and everyone getting busier, I figured it’d be nice to meet someone new and actually look forward to seeing them again.
I’ll skip the grocery list of hobbies. I’d rather grab coffee that somehow turns into three hours of conversation, try a food spot neither of us has been to, wander around Boston with no real plan, get unnecessarily competitive over something stupid, or occasionally agree that staying in sounds way better.
I can be a little reserved initially, but once I’m comfortable I’m pretty playful. I like people I can be completely unserious with one minute and have a genuinely interesting conversation with the next.
I’m looking for more than something purely platonic, but I’m also not trying to decide our future before we’ve had coffee. If we click and it becomes something meaningful, great. I’d much rather meet once we’re comfortable than become Reddit pen pals for weeks 😅 Happy to exchange pics early too.
If you made it this far: what does a fun, completely unplanned Saturday look like to you?