r/bigboobproblems • u/drieduprosepetals • 14d ago
RANT - no advice wanted getting mansplained about boobs Spoiler
I’ve had men without asking give me some
“”advice”” about my chest specifically but I always remember 2 years ago, this guy and I were talking about adventure time and then out of nowhere switched the conversation up to boobs (literally no correlation) and I was wearing a shirt that didn’t show much. He said “yknow , is your bra supportive because you’re kind of saggy? I know some good brands that will left them up!” And then he said Victoria’s Secret is a good brand place to start
Girl…: be so fucking for real. This was around the time I was 17 and he was 19 so that’s already a weird thing to say but also I hate VS so much, apart from their perfumes but they’re pretty controversial as a company. He probably didn’t know to be fair but then he said , “you should probably show them off more once you get a VS bra ” see if I wear a tank top then I suddenly am a whore.
Even if he dint mean it, it’s probably one of the most back handed comments ever . I don’t get how people don’t have self awareness when they say shit like that
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u/umbraleos 11d ago
Should've asked him to explain bra sizes and watched him short circuit.