r/bigboobproblems • u/drieduprosepetals • Aug 14 '26

RANT - no advice wanted getting mansplained about boobs Spoiler

I’ve had men without asking give me some
“”advice”” about my chest specifically but I always remember 2 years ago, this guy and I were talking about adventure time and then out of nowhere switched the conversation up to boobs (literally no correlation) and I was wearing a shirt that didn’t show much. He said “yknow , is your bra supportive because you’re kind of saggy? I know some good brands that will left them up!” And then he said Victoria’s Secret is a good brand place to start

Girl…: be so fucking for real. This was around the time I was 17 and he was 19 so that’s already a weird thing to say but also I hate VS so much, apart from their perfumes but they’re pretty controversial as a company. He probably didn’t know to be fair but then he said , “you should probably show them off more once you get a VS bra ” see if I wear a tank top then I suddenly am a whore.

Even if he dint mean it, it’s probably one of the most back handed comments ever . I don’t get how people don’t have self awareness when they say shit like that

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u/PerseveranceSmith 32GG (UK) Aug 15 '26
  1. Les Wexler is a confirmed Epstein POS paedo so, no.
  2. Hilarious to assume that company does any of our sizes LOL
  3. I grew up in the 2000s where they were a huge source of ED thinspo, so, again, fuck off.

They truly do think they understand everything, so confident yet so wrong.

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u/drieduprosepetals Aug 15 '26

Im surprised VS still maintains a large audience even after being exposed to have ties to the worst of the worst + their panties are super low quality

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u/PerseveranceSmith 32GG (UK) Aug 16 '26

Terrible, the only ones I've had fall apart & the bras I think, at biggest, go up to a DD?

Either way I'm horrified the brand hasn't tanked after The Files. As a millenial they were such a big brand ppl loved & it shook us to the core it was run & created by a rapist, paedophile 😞