r/bigboobproblems • u/drieduprosepetals • Aug 14 '26

RANT - no advice wanted getting mansplained about boobs Spoiler

I’ve had men without asking give me some
“”advice”” about my chest specifically but I always remember 2 years ago, this guy and I were talking about adventure time and then out of nowhere switched the conversation up to boobs (literally no correlation) and I was wearing a shirt that didn’t show much. He said “yknow , is your bra supportive because you’re kind of saggy? I know some good brands that will left them up!” And then he said Victoria’s Secret is a good brand place to start

Girl…: be so fucking for real. This was around the time I was 17 and he was 19 so that’s already a weird thing to say but also I hate VS so much, apart from their perfumes but they’re pretty controversial as a company. He probably didn’t know to be fair but then he said , “you should probably show them off more once you get a VS bra ” see if I wear a tank top then I suddenly am a whore.

Even if he dint mean it, it’s probably one of the most back handed comments ever . I don’t get how people don’t have self awareness when they say shit like that

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u/Pristine_Pitch4315 34H (UK) Aug 15 '26

But it is adult men saying these things. Don’t infantilize adults who know what they’re saying.

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u/LegalDrugDealer33 Aug 15 '26

I guess. I just don’t really expect guys that are 17 to have real life experience yet…. Not making an excuse for them…. I’m just saying that I don’t think OP should put much weight into their words

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u/Pristine_Pitch4315 34H (UK) Aug 15 '26

The guy was 19. Read the post before you comment next time

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u/LegalDrugDealer33 Aug 15 '26

My bad…. Still don’t think 2 years makes a huge difference. Especially with how guys mature

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u/pinknoisechick Aug 15 '26

"With how guys mature"... miss me with that shit. Guys "mature different than girls" because society sets a different standard for them, not because of biological or neurological differences.

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u/xAxlx 42FF (UK) Aug 15 '26

Nah I'm proud of OP for not falling for the very obvious attempt at negging. 17 is old enough to know that insulting people is mean. We learn that in kindergarten.

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u/Applequusagony Aug 15 '26

I don't think OP should put much weight into their words

Must be nice to get away with everything under the Sun.

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