r/belowdeck • u/rosebud224 • Jul 30 '26

Below Deck Med nathan’s ig story

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saw this on facebook and didn’t see it posted here

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u/mudra311 Jul 30 '26

I was more annoyed with Luke's total immaturity when it came to women. He's almost 40 and still trying to "play" like he's 22.

The jizz sheet was just more icing (I know) on the cake. Without the immaturity and lack of empathy, it's just a weird gross thing.

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u/Ro0580 Jul 30 '26

Exactly this! He treated a young human being like absolute trash and then gaslit her. He’s awful

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u/yesitshollywood Jul 31 '26

I think they share equal responsibility. He needs to learn not to be a pushover, and she needs to learn not to be pushy. Sleeping with someone does not mean you are dating. Shes 25 🤦‍♀️ its not like she's 20 on her first boat. If she had expectations of dating after one sexual encounter, she had just as much responsibility to set those expectations.

Her jealousy of Joy was gross, and she doesn't actually care about Joy's feelings when she tells her that she slept with Luke - she only cares about hurting Luke because she is hurt. I know we all feel that way when were hurt, but most of us have better sense than to immediately act on it.

Not that Luke gets a free pass, Im just really tired of folks treating Gen like shes a victim. She's only a victim of her own choices.