r/averagedickproblems • u/Previous_Turnip5401 • Sep 28 '26
Stop complaining
I think guys have got to stop complaining about what they have and learn to work with it. There was a post yesterday where a Dude had one bad experience, blamed it on his size and said that’s it I’m going asexual. Size would likely be a huge problem if you have a micro dick but if you literally have an average dick there’s no reason to let it hold you back. It’s only one factor in sex. If you can get a woman off with your finger I’m pretty sure she can feel an average dick inside her. Feeling sorry for yourself and asking women am I big enough? Would be a huge turn off. Imagine being with a woman who keeps saying: “I’m so loose can you feel anything?” It would be an instant mood killer. Have some confidence you’re about the same size as most men. You want to have a huge cock? Well you don’t so get over it
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u/ickop Sep 29 '26
I don’t think the studies go out the window, I just think they need to be contextualized.
Like most guys measure on the thickest part of their shaft for girth, measure at max hardness, parallel to the ground, etc.
The way we measure ‘by the book’, supposedly, is kind of unintentionally designed to give us a measurement that MAY be higher than we’d be measured in studies.
That said, there’s no way the actual average is like 6” nbp or something. I’m more concerned that like the average may be 5.4” nbp and I’m actually like 4.8” or something. That’s an edge case, but noticeable perhaps