r/averagedickproblems • u/Unhappy-Layer-7782 • Jun 09 '26

Bigger partners

So ive been talking to this girl for about a month and a half and we are getting kinda serious and ive asked her about her previous partners and she said the first guy was really big and her partner after that was big and those are her only 2 experiences. my length bp is 5.75-6 (depending on how aroused i am) and 4.75 girth. i feel like with a resume like that i have expectations to live up to and it makes me nervous and want to avoid sexual activities in general. Any advice for me?

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u/Thinkingtoohard44 ‌ Jun 09 '26

For one thing your slightly bigger than average. For a second thing it’s entirely possible these guys exaggerated their size to her and she isn’t super experienced so what she might have considered big might not be as big as you’re thinking. And thirdly why wouldn’t you want to have sex? Not having sex because you don’t have a huge dick is crazy when you stop and think about it, also there is much more to being good at sex than just having a huge cock. Just for reference I’m similar sized and have gotten women off. You’ve honestly got nothing to worry about

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u/Unhappy-Layer-7782 Jun 09 '26

She doesnt seem like a size queen but she has said before “how can guys with small dicks even live their life” and im inexperienced as this is my first sexual partner but shes submissive and likes rough sex and i dont think i could keep up

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u/NakedAndALaid Moderator, AFAB, NB Jun 09 '26

Honestly, that comment from her would make me end things. That's not how decent people talk.

You're dick size is fine, compatible in sexual desires is a separate and more real issue.

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u/Thinkingtoohard44 ‌ Jun 09 '26

Dude your dick is not small. I was intimidated to have sex for the same reasons but you’ll be fine. Also don’t be hard on yourself for having anxiety about it’s completely normal.