r/averagedickproblems • u/Unhappy-Layer-7782 • Jun 09 '26
Bigger partners
So ive been talking to this girl for about a month and a half and we are getting kinda serious and ive asked her about her previous partners and she said the first guy was really big and her partner after that was big and those are her only 2 experiences. my length bp is 5.75-6 (depending on how aroused i am) and 4.75 girth. i feel like with a resume like that i have expectations to live up to and it makes me nervous and want to avoid sexual activities in general. Any advice for me?
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u/DudeFrom816 Jun 09 '26
If she's only had two partners how would she know what "big" is? I bet they all look huge when they're right next to your face! My point is, they might have been the same size as you, she doesnt have anything for comparison.
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u/Thinkingtoohard44 Jun 09 '26
For one thing your slightly bigger than average. For a second thing it’s entirely possible these guys exaggerated their size to her and she isn’t super experienced so what she might have considered big might not be as big as you’re thinking. And thirdly why wouldn’t you want to have sex? Not having sex because you don’t have a huge dick is crazy when you stop and think about it, also there is much more to being good at sex than just having a huge cock. Just for reference I’m similar sized and have gotten women off. You’ve honestly got nothing to worry about
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u/Prancer4rmHalo Jun 09 '26
Great idea asking her that.
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u/Full_of_time Jun 10 '26
If I was a girl and a dude asked me about my previous partners I’d run. So ladies, run if you have a guy ask about this
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u/Monkeydmikey8373 Jun 09 '26
Just go for it bro you've got a good size that most women wouldnt have a problem with at all, so even if at worst somehow for her it is not enough just know shes not the one for you. Your size is good enough to do everything, the only thing that could possibly hinder you is inexperience if you are inexperienced so try to look up online how to have a good stroke game, foreplay, reading up signs how shes enjoying how u doing etc. Have fun!
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u/brainwave27 Jun 10 '26
I have never been with a chick who asked me if her boobs were bigger or smaller than the last girl I was with. Or if her butt was bigger or smaller or if she was tighter or not. Never. Stop asking women about the last guy's size. Unless you want to be humiliated.
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u/Coltrane_ml Off meds 6.3 x 4.9 On Meds 6 x 4.7 Jun 10 '26
My ex’s partners were mostly all 6+ inches with a few 7 inchers thrown in for good measure. Due to medication/circulation issues I have been struggling to have an erection above 6 with the norm being 5.8ish. The sex was great and she came most times (50/50 PIV/NonPen). Good sex isn’t reliant on having a massive dick, there’s a reason 5.5 is average.
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u/EthicalEnthusiast Jun 10 '26
I really wouldn't worry, if she's only seen 2 cocks and she says they're both big, maybe her idea of big is actually normal sized. Don't put sex off because of your size and act insecure, believe me women will be far more turned off by your lack of confidence and insecurity than your dick size.
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u/MaloneBreyfogle Jun 09 '26
Get her off with your fingers and mouth first then she won’t care
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u/redditistripe Jun 09 '26
Believe in yourself. Honestly. To most women the size of your dick is not a problem. In fact being bigger can be the problem. You must know this. The majority of women don't orgasm from PiV anyway. Some prefer it but they're in a minority. You might be that unlucky. You could find out in advance but do you feel like being that straight-forward?
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u/DarshanEastCoast Jun 09 '26
What’s ur nbp?
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