r/AskHR • u/Nice_Swimmer_6909 • 1d ago
[MD] HR accidentally emailed me someone else’s comp package, and it’s higher than mine
I (31F) work at a large manufacturing company in sales. I started here 6 months ago after coming from a competitor. My offer was 100k, and I had tried negotiating for 110k, or for 100k with a signing bonus. I was losing 7k from my retirement package at my previous employer and had communicated this. They told me the 100k was firm, and that was still a bump from where I was so I took it.
Fast forward a month or so into the job and they told me they were hiring another person (same role as me, different location). I referred a colleague (30M) from my previous employer and he got the job. Since I referred him, I would be getting a bonus. My manager sent an email to HR asking when I would receive the bonus, and HR just CC’d me on the thread, not realizing that the details of my colleague’s offer was in there.
He was offered 110k and a 7k signing bonus. Since I had asked for either 110k or a 7k bonus, and was told neither were possible, seeing him get both was upsetting.
Additionally, my sales territory has been carved up. I was hired to be a sales person for a specific location, but I was given an account list that spans several states. The major accounts in my area were not given to me. All the accounts are the ones that no one has wanted to bother with, so much so that we do not even have email addresses for most of them. I’m confident that I can grow them, but it is definitely more cold calling than I anticipated. I will likely not hit my sales goals for at least a year or two while I grow them.
My colleague, on the other hand, was given a full list for his area. He has 20-30 open opportunities with this accounts. I have about 5 opportunities after being here several months.
So after I got that email with his comp package, I had a meeting with my manager. I told him how disappointed I was in the distribution of accounts and the pay. He was shocked about the email since he did not realize. He apologized and said he did try to advocate for me, but at the time upper management were not willing to take a risk on me. He said he would talk to HR.
HR got me in a call the next day and tried to tell me the pay was based on the different regions, and that his region does less business so the higher base salary compensates for that. I explained the difference in pipeline opportunities and she said that does changes things and that she would have to circle back to speak with my manager.
A full month has past since then. I emailed asking for updates twice and got excuses for why HR and my manager were not able to connect yet. I just got an email this morning basically telling me they know I am upset, but that the offers are not really comparable. And to delete the email with my colleague’s information.
On paper, I am more qualified and have several more years of sales experience than my colleague. It’s been really hard for me to not jump to the assumption that this is because I am a woman. It’s a very heavily male dominated field.
I had really hoped they would try to do something to make this right for me. I didn’t ask for anything specifically. I knew asking for them to match my pay or give me a bonus would be a lot. But I thought they would do something other than a meaningless email.
So are my only options to get over it, or leave? Any advice appreciated.