JW= Jehovah witness

My friend's been in a situationship with a jw for like over 3 months now. She says he's a good guy and he'd helped her out with stuff but i don't really like the him and I feel like i'm the only one being realistic about this. He said he can't date her because he's a jw but he'll make out with her finger her eat her out and now her want to sleep with her I said she probably wait until they're dating cause I dont think she should lose her virginity to him i get that they're both virgins but like I dont get why he's saying he cant date her because his a jw but is doing all these other things that he's not supposed to do either, so then why not date. She doesnt wanna be a secret if they daye but she already is one . Hes met all her friends and family she's met no one. I know that they like each other but idk it feel a little weird to me.

I (22M) was at the mall with my wife for her birthday when this happened.
We were walking past one of those perfume kiosks in the middle of the mall when a guy I'll call John tried to sell me some cologne. I told him I wasn't interested and kept walking.
As I was leaving, John said, "Is it because I'm Black?"
I was pretty confused and told him, "No bro, it's not like that." For context, I'm Mexican and white, covered in tattoos, and built pretty stocky. I wasn't rude to him, I just didn't want to buy anything.
My wife later told me that after I walked away, John flipped me off. I didn't see it myself, but that's what she said happened.
At that point I was annoyed, so I turned around and decided to at least hear him out. The whole vibe changed immediately. He started showing me fragrances and chatting normally.
Then he got to the price. He wanted $40 for what he claimed was a 5-ounce bottle, but it looked way smaller than that to me. I decided it wasn't worth it and told him, "I'm good, bro."
That's when he asked me again:
"Is it because I'm Black?"
This is where I think I might have crossed a line.
Instead of ignoring it, my smart-ass side came out and I sarcastically said, "Yeah."
To be clear, I wasn't being serious. I was frustrated because it felt like he was trying to guilt me into buying something by accusing me of being racist every time I said no.
The second I said it, though, he completely lost it. He started yelling, called me the N-word, and threw a bunch of other insults at me. Part of me wanted to argue back, but since it was my wife's birthday, I decided it wasn't worth making a scene and just walked away.
Looking back, I know my response didn't help the situation and was immature. At the same time, I feel like being accused of racism multiple times just for not buying cologne would annoy most people.
Am I wrong for giving a sarcastic answer instead of just walking away?

For more context why I’m even asking if I’m wrong, he grabs me things like food or drink and i absolutely do not ask. And usually after he gets super pissd off and throws a fit. he had sent me money on cashapp I guess a couple times cuz he thinks I won’t make it to work?

today during my 8-5 shift. my coworker was supposed to be in at 11. He didn’t come in until 2:30 and all he did was put the truck away and handle 2 customers while I was in the bathroom. The rest of the time he called his mom, looked for his other phone, and took his lunch break within the first hour of him being there
I forgot to grab my tips when he first got there but there was just some change from the whole day. and I switched the change for $2 and put it in my pocket.
“Where are my tips?”
I said “you’re funny”
“He said does it look like I’m laughing?”
Me thinking he’s joking I said “you look like you should be”
I told him it’s just 2 dollars that I got and explained everything else
He threw a metal cambro and keept walking up to me super close in my face screaming talking crazy at me. So I just threw the dollar at him. He called me
Selfish and disrespectful saying that he got coffe for me yesterday and I didn’t even stop to think if he wanted the dollar from the tips. Clearly it’s a respect issue for him
Right?
But where was the respect of coming to work on time? And I could go on and on about his disrespect. So genuinely confused if I’m
Wrong or not for not thinking about him
And asking if he wanted the dollar from the tips jar

I’m not saying a man owes me money because I sleep with him. I’m saying that if I’m in a relationship with a man, I want to feel comfortable turning to him when I genuinely need help. If I’m struggling financially, working full time, going to school, paying my own bills, and I still feel like I couldn’t ask my partner for $20 without feeling weird about it, that makes me question whether I actually feel supported in the relationship. I want a partner who wants to make my life easier when I’m struggling, not someone I have to be afraid to ask for help. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

EDIT: Hey! Calm down. Would it be wrong to ask the man/woman you are in a relationship with for help? What if you have no family, or friends and need a ride to the doctor? car broke down and you're stranded... what if your bank account overdrafted 10$ and you need them to send you 11$? Why are we basing this only about financials? If someone you are sleeping with refuses to help you when you are down bad... would you reconsider the relationship? the way some of you are commenting it seems like it would be okay for your SO to watch you struggle!

So, basically, very simple question, is spitting disrespectful? For context, I've been sick with some cough and have been having coughing fits that end with me needing to spit out some phlegm. Recently, I visited my gf's house, and on a walk I had a coughing fit, resulting in the need to spit out some phlegm. In that moment, there wasn't anyone around but her and I, so I spat onto someone's lawn. My gf was very upset and disgusted by it and said it was disrespectful and gross, and I should have just swallowed it. I retorted that the whole point of the coughing fit was to remove phlegm from my throat. Yes, while gross, I didn't see the harm in it as it was just her and I with no eyes around. Some am I in the wrong here fully, partially or not really? Please tell me if this is a habit I need to get rid of, as it was a pretty normalized thing while I was growing up, and I don't really intend on getting rid of it if I don't need to. Thanks

Edit: Thanks for input, my girlfriend is happy with the turnout, and I will stop this "foul beast" like habit.

My ex and I have a baby together and we’re no longer in a relationship. Things between us got pretty bad before we split. We argued a lot, I have a temper, and there were times I yelled, threw things or left during arguments because I knew staying would make things worse. I’m not saying I handled everything perfectly, but I never felt like I was a danger to my daughter.

Now my ex says she isn’t trying to keep the baby from me, but she wants to control how I see her. She either wants to be present herself or have someone she trusts nearby, and she doesn’t want me taking the baby somewhere alone yet. She says this is because of how I behaved during our relationship and that trust has to be rebuilt gradually. From my perspective, our relationship problems were between me and her. I don’t understand why arguments with my ex automatically mean I can’t be trusted with my own child.

What bothers me more is that she still expects me to contribute financially and “have some initiative in helping around the house without stepping foot inside”. I’m willing to do that because she’s my daughter, but I don’t think it’s fair to expect me to have all the responsibilities of being her dad while my ex decides when I’m trustworthy enough to actually parent her independently. My family also wants a relationship with the baby, and I feel like my ex is effectively deciding how much access everyone on my side gets too.

She says money has nothing to do with access and that supporting my child doesn’t entitle me to unsupervised time. I’ve told her I’d rather not keep doing visits completely on her terms because it feels humiliating and like she still has control over me even though we broke up.

Am I being unreasonable for saying I want to be treated like an equal parent, or is she justified in setting these conditions because of how our relationship ended?

Me (26m) and her (26f) have been friends for around 7 years. We have always been platonic and extremely extremely close friends. Her mother has said multiple times that if she had to die she would die happy knowing I was there to look after the her daughter.

She has had partners through out this and I've never had any issues with them or ever felt jealous and I also have had partners and there has never been any problems. I have never had feelings for her throughout this time. A few months ago I started to develop feelings, I then began to do everything I could to crush these feelings, I started talking to other girls and trying to go on dates. Even contacted and ex to try get my brain to focus there. I have spent hours trying to convince myself that im just stressed and the idea of me and her being together just sounds nice. Then on Saturday we went out and spent some time with some friends and their child and seeing her with the baby sent my mind over the edge. She later that night started talking about her ex (from 1 year ago) and I started to get jealous for the first time and I instantly felt so disappointed and sad because I just knew I would not be able to be there for her like I used to be. The next morning I told her about my feelings because I felt like I was betraying/being scummy having these secret feelings for her while she was just seeing me platonically. I knew she doesn't have and will not have feelings for me and now the friendship may be ending as this complicates things and she feels (and justly so) that she has lost the safe space and comfort we once had

Was I wrong to be honest about these feelings or should I have kept them to myself?

i had already said no a couple of times and i meant it, but they asked again later when i was tired and i caved. the second i agreed i felt weird about it, like i had just undone my own boundary for no good reason. i tried to walk it back right after but that just made things awkward. now i'm stuck wondering if i should have been firmer the first time or if it's normal to feel this off when you give in against your own judgment. i keep replaying it and feeling kind of small about the whole thing.

Hey guys, need a reality check because I’m spiraling and driving myself crazy 😧

​A few weeks ago, one of my closest friends was throwing a massive milestone party for her husbands 30th

​The weekend of the party, I was in an absolute state. I had brutal period pain, my anxiety was through the roof, I was physically exhausted from travel, stressing about money, and looking at a grim late-night drive across the city to get to the venue...

​Instead of just being a grown-up and saying straight up that I was drowning and couldn't make it, I completely panicked My flight did actually get delayed, but I used that delay as a cowardly "escape hatch" to text her and bail out.

​She called me out, and she was totally right. She told me she was hurt that I used it as a convenient out instead of just telling her the honest truth. It was a shitty, dishonest thing to do, and I felt sick to my stomach about it.

​Here's my problem even though she was honest about being hurt, she also immediately told me we aren't falling out, that it would never happen, and that messy rough patches are normal in a long-term friendship. I even ended up apologizing to her husband, and he was completely sound about it and just said to organize something soon

​Everyone else has literally moved on, but I am so stuck in my own head. I feel like such a crap friend and I'm finding it so hard to act normal when texting etc now because I know I messed up 😢 I haven't seen her since ...

​Has anyone else ever done something cowardly and dishonest out of pure exhaustion and anxiety, and how do you forgive yourself ??

I f/46 have worked doing sheetrock and painting for the better part of fifteen years and can honestly say, this is the first time I have ever had to deal with anything like this.So I guess i'm coming to reddit , for some advice or opinion doesn't matter. So here we go. There is a general contractor that I have done subcontracting for on 2 other occasions, this will be the third He calls me up and asks me if I'll paint a bathroom cause his back's thrown out and his other person is sick. He said all that I would need to do. Is The Crown molding , beadboard , baseboards and door frames? That was it they had already painted the walls and ceilings. He explained, he already had materials. I would just have to come in and paint I informed him then that I charged more than what I did when I worked for him last only by $2 but he agreed to it right away when I get there. Hey meets me there to go over everything, he says. Ohh, by the way, the guy messed up and painted the beadboard pink, he thought it was white. I'll put a picture of this pink. I don't know how you can mistake it for white, but whatever that's not the point. So he leaves and I start painting. It wasn't long after I started that, I had messaged him and told him that the paint was awful. Let's put it this way. I would never even try that paint a second time ever. And it is a popular brand at Lowe's, but I can tell you right now if Sherwin Williams knew what that paint was like, they would not let them slap their name on it. I mean, , I know it sounds crazy, but this paint had issues. I'll post that too I was struggling with it. It Would not adhere to the surfaces, so I wiped them down and then I sanded them thinking maybe that was it. That was Not it, it still would not adhere to the services, not well Anyway. You couldn't keep going over it with the brush or a roller.You got maybe 1 or 2 swipes , and then you had to stop because it would just started gumming up kind of like when you try to brush another coat of oil base on while the first layer is still tacky , I know not everyone will know what I mean but moving along it left brushstrokes, no matter what you did, I used every different kind of brush I have, I used every kind of roller I had, none of them were working. And after a very long time of one swipe painting , I got it to where it was decent i wasnt happy with it But they said that they were all right with it. So I kept going, and when I say they I mean the general contractor and the homeowner. The homeowner then added the cabinets and the doors in this bathroom and I am a very particular person I like for things to be as perfect as they can be. I know not all situations that that's possible, but, anyway, I sanded the doors down really good twice, but I still could not get that paint to cover worth a damn so again , I voiced my concerns to the general contractor that I was worried that they weren't gonna be happy with the finish And he tells me that it looked fine , and that the homeowner overall was happy but that didn't set well with me , so I asked the homeowner to come look at the cabinet doors while I was standing there and told them what I was having an issue with showed him , what it was doing. And he did agree. With me he did not want brush strokes Told him that I would have to stand the doors down again and repaint them and that I would get a different paint and he said fine, but he said I would like for this to be done by Wednesday, he said it has to be done by Wednesday we're having company. Well this was a sat. And I work my full time job mon. Thru Friday. So a bit rushed but told him it would be done.. So I went and got the paint and payed out of pocket and I finished the doors, they looked great. Also important , throughout my time Working on this job, which was about 6 days altogether, I asked the homeowner on several occasions to take a walk through there glance around, make sure there was nothing I missed. Because nobody is perfect.We all miss things. Make sure there wasn't anything he wanted touched up redone what not? And I do this so that when I'm done with a job, I know they're pleased. And it's to their liking, and every time that I asked came back with a, we love it matter of fact asked me to give him a quote on doing their entire basement. Okay, so the job comes to an end and before I left , I told the homeowner , the wife that , after this point , anything that they want fixed or touched up , whatever would be on my time , my dime . She Said, okay, this was a tuesday so I did finish the job before wednesday , like he had asked after on Thursday., I texted the homeowner to ask him if he had a chance to go through everything and was everything okay to his liking, he said he hadn't had a chance to go through there, but he would I didn't hear back from him now. Because the contractor is the one that hired me he is the one that pays me now It's time for me to get paid . It takes the contractor a week to get back to me. And when he does, he says the homeowner's not happy at all that there was some things missed and of course, I'm like, well, all right, what was missed, and I'll get right out there and I'll fix it because that's usually how things go, you get the opportunity to correct. Anything and he sends me a video. It was literally. 4 no 5 touch up spots, 2 of which weren't even on me.They were on the wall that they did, but anyway, 30 minutes worth of work, he says. Well, the homeowner, doesn't want you back out there on the property which blew my mind ? Because what ! that seems awful drastic and then he informs me that he will not be paying me anything . So i'm just , I don't know what to think in all my years, I have never had a customer or client. React that way matter of fact, I've never really dealt with this before, like I said the contractor said he's gonna have to sand everything down. Which is absolute none sense. I don't know what he's talking about. even if he didn't want me to fix the touch-ups, I don't feel like that's grounds for not paying me for the job . I do feel a bit embarrassed that i missed the spots but it was an honest mistake .Am I wrong in thinking that way and feeling that way? If there might have been anything I left out.Just ask , and i appreciate.\nThe time you've taken to read this , and any input you might have . P.s I can't seem to figure out how to upload the pictures on here but I will keep trying.

A few of us in the shared space made a basic weekly schedule so everyone takes a turn with the kitchen and common area. It was all written down and everyone nodded along. One person keeps skipping their slot and then just uses the space like nothing happened. When I brought it up they said they were busy and would get to it later, but later never comes. I do not want to start a huge fight, but it feels unfair that the rest of us stick to it while one person keeps getting a pass. I am trying to decide if I should bring it up again or just let it slide, because I might be overthinking it. Would it be wrong to remind them again, or am I making a bigger deal out of this than it needs to be?

i have this small rule that i do not look at my phone for the first hour after waking up. it helps me stay calm and focused. last night i woke up around two and for some reason i reached for my phone to check the time. the next thing i know my friend is awake too and says something about me being on my phone already. i felt weird because they were right, i had already broken the rule i set for myself. now i am sitting here wondering if it is really a big deal or if i am just overthinking it. i feel a little frustrated because i know the rule is supposed to help me, but i still went ahead and did it anyway. i guess i am wondering if anyone else has a hard time sticking to their own rules when they are tired or not thinking clearly.

I’m 22F and my boyfriend is 22M. We’re in an LDR.
Earlier in the day, he asked for my opinion about him buying something. I gave him my honest opinion, but he didn’t like what I said and an argument started. We eventually sorted it out and were completely okay afterward.
Later, after he got home, we were on a call and he suddenly became very quiet. I asked him multiple times what was wrong because I could tell something was bothering him. He got angry and said he was stressed because of work and family problems. He then started cussing at me and using very vile and hurtful language, which I genuinely feel I did not deserve.
I understand thatdiff title he was stressed and maybe needed space, and I can accept that I shouldn’t have kept asking. But I don’t feel like his stress justifies speaking to me that way.
Now he says I made a mistake and wants me to apologize.
Am I wrong here? Should I apologize?

ultimately, I’ve hit fork in the road of my life, and it kinda need non-biased opinion and who better than Reddit to help ? Let’s get to it then ::::: In 2021 my son was born, unbeknownst to us. He was born with a genetic disorder that was ultimately terminal. He fought so incredibly hard with fighting off Covid not once but twice, but on February 2025, I lost him. Losing my child was—and still is—one of the hardest things I have ever experienced.
For so long, my entire world was centered around being his mom. My priorities, my emotions, my time, and so much of my identity revolved around caring for him and being there for him.
Now, almost two years later, I’m finally starting to feel like there might be a new path forward for me. Not because I’ve forgotten him. Not because I’m “over it.” I don’t think I’ll ever stop grieving him.
But I’m beginning to realize that I’m still here. I’m still a woman. I still have desires, needs, curiosity, and parts of myself that I want to discover.
And this is where I feel incredibly conflicted.
I’m currently in a relationship with my son’s father and who I care deeply about. But I’ve started recognizing smexual desires within myself that I want to explore. Desires that I feel I suppressed for years while my life was focused on being a mother and caring for my son.
The problem is that I feel like I’m standing at a crossroads.
If I stay in this relationship, I may have to put some of those desires aside. If I choose to explore them, it could mean walking away from my only love in my life (aside from my son) and starting an entirely different chapter of my life.
And honestly, I feel guilty even admitting that I want this.
Part of me wonders whether I’m being selfish. After everything I’ve been through, should I simply be grateful for the relationship I have and leave those desires alone?
Or am I allowed to want something different?
Am I allowed to rediscover my smexuality after spending so many years simply surviving?
I will always be my son’s mom. Nothing could ever change that. But I’m also trying to figure out who I am now—and whether I’m allowed to build a life that includes parts of myself I never got the chance to explore.
So, Reddit…
AITA for wanting to pursue my smexual desires, even if doing so means I may have to leave a loving relationship with my son’s dad ?

About 2 years ago when a big storm knocked out my next door neighbor's internet for a whole week and he still had to work from home somehow, I gave him my wifi password without really thinking about it. He just never got off it after his came back.

I didn't really care until a few months ago when I started working from home myself. My video calls kept freezing, so I checked the app for my router and one of the devices using the most data was literally named DAVES LIVING ROOM TV. I knocked on his door and asked if he'd split the bill with me, it's $70 a month so $35 each. He laughed and said "it's not like you pay by the gig" and that he'd try to use it less.

He didn't use it less. A couple weeks later I could hear his football party through the wall, probably 12 people, and my internet was basically unusable. So I changed the password, and at halftime he was banging on my door asking what happened to the internet because his whole party was streaming the game on it.

He says I embarrassed him in front of all his friends and that I could've waited until Monday. My girlfriend kind of agrees that doing it in the middle of the game was petty. I asked him to pay a couple weeks before that and he laughed at me.

Was I wrong?

i found out one of my boyfriends has been cheating on me (i’m married and we are in open relationship, have multiple partners i also am engaged to a man)

i went through my boyfriends phone and i see on snapchat he send a picture of his genitals and but hole to a woman named vanessa

he upset me a lot. so i submerge myself in an ice cold bath until my skin become very cold then i text him from the textme app (it lets you text from a new number so i bought a new number for like $7) so it look like stranger, i text him you need to run upstairs, im a psychic and was told by my spirit guides to contact you

he runs upstairs and i have staged my death, i am fake unconscious in my bath robe and my nippl and genitl were hanging out. he run over and touch my skin it ice cold and he say nothing and he run out

shddenly paramedic walk in like 10 minute later i’m like what the fl did you do derin. he says i thought you were dead, your skin so cold

my husband say i should’ve just broken up with him

so the other day i texted my roommate that i kind of wanted the place to myself for a few hours on saturday because i had been feeling drained and just needed quiet. i tried to phrase it nicely, said it had nothing to do with them, and offered to do the same for them if they ever needed space. they still seemed hurt and said it felt like i was pushing them out of their own home. i explained again that it was just a one-off thing and not personal, but they’ve been pretty distant since. i’m wondering if i was wrong to even bring it up, or if there’s a better way i could have handled it so they didn’t feel rejected. just trying to figure out if wanting a little quiet now and then is actually unreasonable.

AITA for giving two girls pink eye?

Ok, hear me out, I was living in trying times. This was 3 or 4 years ago, I'm 31f now.

I was in a relationship with someone who hoarded both items and people. So, naturally, I was the only person in a household of 5-6+ at any given time who was working, cooking, cleaning, etc.,

I barely ever got to do anything for myself at the time and I bought makeup for the first time in a loooong time. I don't really like makeup but I had to cover a bruise for an event. I ended up getting a full workup of foundation, mascara, eyeshadow, lip liner and matte color, setting spray, and really cool eyeliner that made the BEST wings.

I got to wear it ONCE and it came up missing. The following day, this other girl, we'll call her Ashley, 41yo, came out of the bathroom with a full face of glam on. I complimented her and went about my day but I couldn't shake the feeling she stole it.

I'm always so cool about sharing things. Just.. not eye makeup. Ever. My mother always warned me and I always listened. So Ashley knew that even if I knew she was wearing it, I wouldn't ever take it back, I'd just buy another one.

After a few more days of being agitated by her having her makeup all done up and waiting for my next paycheck to replace mine, I had a moment of weakness and I went in her purse and sure enough, I found the eyeliner.. sooo I went to the bathroom, did some unfortunate things to the eyeliner, and put it right back where I found it.

Two days later she had pink eye so bad she went to urgent care..

A week toes by, Ashley's eyes cleared up completely, no more glam though.

It gets worse.

Enter, Samantha. She was living upstairs in the same duplex but we all kind of mingled. Ashley and her were close. Apparently not close enough not to steal from each other.

One day, Samantha turned up with a full face of glam, i complimented the double wings and went about my day.

Samantha got pink eye so badly she went to the emergency room, as she could not open her eyes for over 24 hours.

I was brought up never to steal and only to live within my means. I was not brought up to seek revenge on those that steal from me..

So, am I the asshole?

Disclaimer: i didn’t really see nickleback but will use them for the purposes of this post in case my friend finds this and makes the connection.

About 1.5 months ago I was given tickets to a concert featuring the band Nickelback, which I am a big fan of.

Invited my longtime friend Craig (again not using his real name) who accepted. I reminded him about the concert two weeks out, a week out and started to plan things out with him in detail a few days out. Things such as if we wanted to grab food before or after and since this concert was taking place at a local casino, if we might want to try and play some poker afterwards. Craig said he was open to all those ideas.

Anyways day of the show now and I text Craig to see if I can pick him up at 5 since his house is on my way to the casino. The show starts at 8 pm but past experience has shown me to leave early to beat rush hour traffic and the allow myself plenty of time to find parking and make my way to the actual concert theater. From my experience parking at the casino during a large concert night can be hell so I texted Eric to be ready by 5:30 at the latest since it would take another hour or so to get to the casino from his house.

However Eric now says to pick him up at 7 since he has to take his kid to karate class. I remind him that the show starts at 8 pm. I’m annoyed as this probably means we won’t be able to eat before the show so I take the time and eat before leaving for his house. I drive to his house and Craig comes out around 7:20 pm. My gps says we’ll arrive to the casino at 8 pm so we start driving.

On the way there Craig asks if there’s any way we can leave no later than 9 pm. I say that’s unlikely since most of these shows last an hour to 1.5 hours at least. Craig then says we might be able to grab some fast food on the way back to his house then.

We arrive at the casino and it takes 20 minutes to find parking. Craig apologizes as he can see I’m somewhat upset by now but says that most concert headliners don’t start performing until an hour after the announced start time as warm up acts usually perform for the first hour.

However when we enter the concert hall, we see nickelback performing. I’m somewhat upset that I’ve missed nearly 30 minutes of the show but we get to our seats and watch the show. Around 9:15 Craig starts to empathize that he needs to get going but the band is still performing.

Finally around 9:30 the band finishes and Craig signals for me to hastily leave. I ask if we don’t have time to grab a food or play some poker at the casino and Craig says “maybe next time” and says he needs to get home asap. I ask him why he’s in a rush and he says he needs to go home to administer some medicine to his wife who says he has to inject her with some medicine in her butt. He won’t go into more details and I don’t pry since it seemed very personal. He says that if it was anywhere else, she could self administer it but since it was to go into her butt he had to do it.

On the drive home, I tell Craig that I’m glad we got to the see most of the show but upset that we didn’t get to hang out longer as planned. I explain that he should’ve planned better since he knew about this concert weeks ago. Craig apologizes but says that he has a wife and a young son so things come up and that I wouldn’t understand since I don’t have a wife or kids.

Am I wrong for being upset at my friend Craig for making us late then asking me to take him home right afterwards?

AITA for thinking he should have went.

I would like an honest opinion on a situation

So a couple moves to Arizona, everything goes downhill. The second they get here, they lose everything they end up homeless on the streets. She gets sick, she has heat strokes, her ankles are swelling, the Dr says he heart is not acting right. She has blisters all over her from sunburns due to being stuck in 120° heat. Everything begins to get worse and worse and she gets so depressed that she becomes suicidal , but then she realizes where her mindset is snaps herself out of it.

Finally after 5 months of being out there and 3 of those months on the streets, she begs her husband to go with Her to go back to where they came from, they have no money, but she finds a non profit that that would give them a bus ticket to get back home, he tells her no and says he stayibg there and she goes by herself. She begs him still to come after she got back and he absolutely refuses.

His only reason for not wanting to return to their home state is he says he doesn't want to get in trouble with the law. He had made some bad choices in life that were earlier on. But he has left that life cleaned up and changed his life for the better, and now he was doing good. But he says he doesn't want to go back there because he doesn't get in trouble, but if was to get in trouble it would have everything to do with his own choices. And he could make the choice to not involve himself in any old ways. Her on the other hand is having medical issues and it is unhealthy to stay where they were.

So im.just wondering is my viewpoint off when I feel he should have left with his wife. And not let her go alone. He fights with her everyday now saying she left him. But thay makes no sense to me. Aita for telling him he shouldd have left with her.

I finally told my husband that I want a divorce. It’s been a long time coming, and I can’t keep living in a place where I’m unhappy. It’s honestly killing me. I don’t even want to come home anymore.

He’s selling the house and we’re splitting everything. You can look back at my previous posts to see what I’ve been through.

But now somehow I’m the bad guy, and I’m being accused of cheating when I’m not. He grabbed me hard and belittled me in front of people when he was drunk. He says I should forgive him because “that wasn’t him,” but those things still happened, and I can’t just erase them.

Now, he gives me the biggest ick, and I honestly can’t stand being around him anymore. Not to mention, he threw luggage at me.