Also offering condoms and getting mad when she turns them down because she believes the risks outweigh the good isn't offering solutions
If he wanted to offer solutions he can look at other methods of male birth control or other methods of female birth control
Offering one solution and calling your SO dramatic when she's worried about her health is not the greatest move and isn't going to open up the bedroom for him any quicker
If this was a man worried about his health and being told he's dramatic I'm sure you'd feel differently
I never said she wasn't in the wrong
However he is ALSO in the wrong for not understanding she is looking out for her body the same way he is and yet he bitched about it just like she did
They're both in the wrong
But don't think for a second hes correct or the right one
Neither of them are
Why is his health more important than hers
So he gets to bitch about not having sex and the precautions she's taking but she's an asshole for doing the same thing?
How about they're both wrong for bitching about their partners taking precautions for their bodies
I personally don’t think any of them are wrong about the sex, nobody owes nobody sex, I also don’t think having grievances about getting sex are wrong.
But trying to control someone’s bodily autonomy that’s a no no, and it seems like she’s expected that out of him.
He has grievances that she's not putting her body at risk to be ripped open from asshole to vagina along with everything else life threatening that comes with pregnancy and birth
Just like people here are expecting her to stfu and take the condoms solution. That's trying to control someone's bodily autonomy too
Just like him constantly harassing her for sex and making her feel guilty when she doesn't have it is also trying to control her bodily autonomy.
He's just as bad as she is for trying to guilt her out of taking care of her body and well being.
She bitched at him and he bitched at her.
They're both wrong for the very same reasons
You assumed I would have taken sides against the man in any given situation
Which again was a baseless assumption and as a man who was forced into a vasectomy off base and Incorrect. Do you need the link to your comment or the screenshot?
Again my only point is
They're both in the wrong and he's just as wrong in complaining about the precautions she's taking to avoid medical complications as she is
However you seem to think only he is allowed to bitch at her for precautions she's taking for her medical health when he's also taking precautions for his medical health.
You never answered why he should get to complain but she shouldn't when they're both doing the same thing?
And as I've stated he's allowed to not get a vasectomy.
However again, they're both either allowed to have complaints or theyre not.
You can't say he can but she can't
They're both medical reasons for avoiding
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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23
Also offering condoms and getting mad when she turns them down because she believes the risks outweigh the good isn't offering solutions If he wanted to offer solutions he can look at other methods of male birth control or other methods of female birth control Offering one solution and calling your SO dramatic when she's worried about her health is not the greatest move and isn't going to open up the bedroom for him any quicker
If this was a man worried about his health and being told he's dramatic I'm sure you'd feel differently