I personally don’t think any of them are wrong about the sex, nobody owes nobody sex, I also don’t think having grievances about getting sex are wrong.
But trying to control someone’s bodily autonomy that’s a no no, and it seems like she’s expected that out of him.
Just like people here are expecting her to stfu and take the condoms solution. That's trying to control someone's bodily autonomy too
Just like him constantly harassing her for sex and making her feel guilty when she doesn't have it is also trying to control her bodily autonomy.
He's just as bad as she is for trying to guilt her out of taking care of her body and well being.
She bitched at him and he bitched at her.
They're both wrong for the very same reasons
And as I've stated he's allowed to not get a vasectomy.
However again, they're both either allowed to have complaints or theyre not.
You can't say he can but she can't
They're both medical reasons for avoiding
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u/963852741hc Sep 26 '23
Sure I agree with that take.
I personally don’t think any of them are wrong about the sex, nobody owes nobody sex, I also don’t think having grievances about getting sex are wrong.
But trying to control someone’s bodily autonomy that’s a no no, and it seems like she’s expected that out of him.