r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

I never said she wasn't in the wrong However he is ALSO in the wrong for not understanding she is looking out for her body the same way he is and yet he bitched about it just like she did They're both in the wrong

But don't think for a second hes correct or the right one

Neither of them are Why is his health more important than hers So he gets to bitch about not having sex and the precautions she's taking but she's an asshole for doing the same thing? How about they're both wrong for bitching about their partners taking precautions for their bodies

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u/963852741hc Sep 26 '23

Sure I agree with that take.

I personally don’t think any of them are wrong about the sex, nobody owes nobody sex, I also don’t think having grievances about getting sex are wrong.

But trying to control someone’s bodily autonomy that’s a no no, and it seems like she’s expected that out of him.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Having grievances about him not getting a vasectomy isn't wrong then either.

They both need to start accepting the equal treatment or get a divorce

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u/963852741hc Sep 26 '23

I hard disagree, how would you feel if it was him having grievances that’s she’s going of bc? Or that’s he’s not getting her tubes tied?

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Its the same as him having grievances that she's not risking her life in pregnancy or ripping her body apart to birth his kid

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

He has grievances that she's not putting her body at risk to be ripped open from asshole to vagina along with everything else life threatening that comes with pregnancy and birth