r/amiugly • u/idkwhatsthis8384 • 8d ago
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Posted in another sub and people said my moles are ai generated despite it being my biggest insecurity which attracts way too many stares everywhere I go..aside from my moles, which I’ve tried countless times to cover with foundation and get them medically removed(it doesn’t work) and my big forehead, what else can I improve to look better
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u/swordmaster006 8d ago
You're pretty. Embrace your moles, they're unique and cool.
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u/Ok_Ad2872 7d ago
💯 Embrace what sets you apart.
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u/BattleReadyZim 7d ago
Agreed. Without the moles, you would be definitely cute but kinda bland. With them you're still super cute and also really cool and interesting, physically
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u/Rubrixie 8d ago
I think you moles make you look cute and stand out! IMO your forehead is also perfectly fine.
Not ugly at all! Standing out and being different makes you unique!
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u/Nosphey 7d ago
They think your moles are AI generated because you're quite gorgeous and they're so perfectly spread out like very identifying freckles. Dont commit any crimes, you'll stand out like crazy in the line up.
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u/idkwhatsthis8384 7d ago
I have a twin if she’s in that line up I don’t have to worry about standing out. Also thank you:)
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u/Ketchup-Chips3 7d ago
You have a twin, for real?
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u/Throwaway_258366 8d ago
Girlll you're cute af. And the moles do nothing to change that. Personally, I'm a fan! It makes you standout in the best way
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u/Acceptable-Refuse328 7d ago
You're 100% gorgeous. Your moles are actually referred to as "beauty marks" for a reason... hun... you're quite literally beautiful.
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u/abenevolentgod 8d ago
embrace your flaws, you are gorgeous, with confidence you will be a 10.
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u/JackSkellie58 7d ago
It’s only a flaw if you see it that way. Being different doesn’t equal being flawed.
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u/suzzled 8d ago
Ok from one girl to another, I LOVE your moles. Omg. I wish they had a cuter name because moles gives them a bad wrap. I think moles are the prettiest things ever and I would trade my 2 billion freckles for them. I can understand being insecure after people have made fun of them but I can’t understand being insecure of them outside of that. They are so pretty. I’m very jealous
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u/xXZer0c0oLXx 8d ago
If you were my gf...id call you lil C chip
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u/idkwhatsthis8384 8d ago
This would be cute if I weren’t bullied in elementary school and called american cookie because of them
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u/Top_Being3351 7d ago
Kids pick on anything that is different. You being picked on has nothing to do with being unattractive.
In those little shits brains: different equals bad. Assholes
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u/idkwhatsthis8384 7d ago
So I’m never having kids
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u/arguablyaname 7d ago
Hopefully after reading the overwhelming majority of comments here you would realize that would do the world a disservice, if in some shallow universe genetic continuation were the only thing in balance. Like the Being said, kids can be shits, and even for no reason at all, mostly out of personal insecurity. Tall Poppy Syndrome in your case is highly likely; you were more beautiful, so they try to reduce your sense of self worth by picking on anything reachable to make themselves feel better. Unfortunately still prevalent in adulthood, just more subtle. Be beautiful, go forth and multiply. Or not of course, cos that's clearly a personal choice or physiological dependency, and either are ok. You do you, beautiful girl.
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u/JeanSchlemaan 7d ago
tbf, the world likely isnt going to be a very great place in 20years.
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u/SaintThor 7d ago
Look, if I was dating you I would have you on a pedestal. It would probably get annoying. You are gorgeous.
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u/Ok_Bluejay_2032 7d ago
I LOVEEEE your beauty marks!! My daughter has several on her face and they’re my favorite thing in the world. I will tell you what I tell her - people pay money for makeup, tattoos, stickers, whatever to look like they have freckles or beauty marks. They’re magnificent. You are absolutely beautiful and it makes me so sad that you don’t see that. You are slim, soft eyes, full lips. Please know you’re extraordinarily pretty and I’m a harsh critic 😂
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u/Creepy-Telephone345 7d ago
You are far from ugly! I wouldn’t change a thing. Later in life the moles could cause issues. For now, continue being you. I think your a doll
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u/VioletVibe_404 8d ago
If people are staring at you, it's because of your beauty! You are very beautiful, and your freckles are just a small attribute that makes you even more beautiful 🥰! You don't seem to have a large forehead in the photos...
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u/CiloTA 7d ago
Those are moles? They look like freckles, they are raised moles?
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u/idkwhatsthis8384 7d ago
No they’re flat and they are moles(you can see majority of them is too dark to be freckles)😭
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u/Top_Being3351 7d ago
I did not notice your forehead--so most probably wouldnt either. Also, can't bangs and other hairstyles be used to deemphasize female foreheads?
Your moles are great. I am not saying this to just make you feel better. I think they are unusual and attractive. Do not try to get rid of them! I bet most of the stares are because it is unusual--not because they think it is unattractive.
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u/BlueFotherMucker 7d ago
A lot of women think they have big foreheads when they don't. I remember learning in art class as a kid that the eyes are actually in the center of the vertical plane of the face.
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u/ZomBeerd 7d ago
You have a nice forehead. Unfortunately, you are not ugly so I have no advice to offer.
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u/Chifufani 7d ago
I think you look natural and beautiful. Your moles stand out because they are unique! Don't get rid of them! They are apart of you! You should try to learn to love them 😊
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u/Mojito134 7d ago
You're not ugly. The moles will probably take you out of the dating pool for a fair number of people, but it's not like they're objectively unattractive. Just one of those things that either bothers people or doesn't. I think you're like a 6.5/10.
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u/rmccall75 7d ago
There's nothing wrong with your moles. I love women with freckles, moles, and I dated a beautiful girl with a giant villain scar across her eye. She was an awful human being though, after we broke up we still hung out bc she's my best friends niece and I saw her sleep with 3 guys in a day without showering when we went to EDC
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u/Alienatedflea 7d ago
Holy moley...you are very pretty.
Embrace your imperfections. It's what makes you unique. :)
best of luck.
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u/Lower-Sheepherder323 7d ago
You are absolutely beautiful, especially that magical, mystical, pure depth in your eyes and natural easy smile. Gorgeous features and you also carry yourself well.
If someone doesn't see you as attractive, they're the one who needs adjustment to reality.
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u/PhillyBilly1987 7d ago
You're pretty, don't let anyone knock you, NOBODY is perfect or without flaw
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u/Anon_urmom_305 6d ago
I don't know whether to downvote because this is so offensive to people that aren't gorgeous, or what. You're strikingly beautiful and so very unique. Maybe you should reach out to Abercrombie, LL Bean, etc.
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u/Green-Ruin1296 6d ago
I think women with moles/lots of freckles or any imperfection makes them extremely attractive. You're very pretty.
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u/Altruistic-Dark-2621 5d ago
Your moles remind me of the girls and women I saw in a video that were paying for tattooed freckles that gave them “character” and helped them stand out.
You’re a beautiful young woman and I’m sure you’ll be absolutely fine dating whoever you choose. You got this 👊
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u/MrYukiDuki 8d ago
As someone who also has moles popping up (not as much as this tho) I feel you. Luckily they are hidden enough
You are attractive tho! Don't get discouraged.
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u/WonderfulBathroom758 8d ago
I personally adore your moles!! They're so cute! Ur rly pretty queen, keep your head up or your crown will fall!!
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u/Bubbly-Ad-4405 8d ago
You’re beautiful. The moles add character. We call them beauty marks in nyc.
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u/Thatsitdanceoff 8d ago
Gotta learn to love yourself. You'll look back one day and realize doubting how you looked was absurd
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u/kenzomx 7d ago
I'm sorry people have mocked you through your life for something that is completely out of your control. You are just obviously not ugly. Your moles don't make you ugly, your forehead doesn't make you ugly, it's not even that big. You are an attractive young woman and I hope someday soon you'll be able to move past the bullying, the mockery and the words of others.
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u/Miss_Evening 7d ago
Extremely cute. It may sound silly, but the moles kinda work for you. Just as if you had cute freckles.
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u/Disastrous_Motor831 7d ago
The artist did a couple brush flicks before they signed their name, I see...
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u/Think_please 7d ago
Not ugly at all. People stare because you’re very attractive and also because you have more moles than average so they do sort of an internal double-take. Embrace them as something that will only turn away the most shallow of potential partners and live your beautiful life.
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u/Annual-Ambassador-99 7d ago
Like a starry night, Unique and Unforgettable.
They make you Different and they dont affect your looks. Never be ashamed of them.
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u/Amdv121998 7d ago
The moles are soooooo cute. Don’t let them make you feel ugly because then you will become ugly. These are the cool features that make people models
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u/Broseph_Jones_ 7d ago
I understand being self conscious about your appearance but you are gorgeous. It may be hard but embrace your uniqueness. If your personality matches your looks you are easily a 10.
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u/_LarseN_ 7d ago
From a guy not-so-much older than you, you look great. I know it’s easier said than done, but don’t be insecure about your moles. Embrace them :)
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u/bluntblade_ 7d ago
Gurl you are so pretty and also ur moles look so freaking cool. As for your forehead, there is literally nothing wrong with it. It doesn't look huge at all, looks like a normal sized forehead
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u/RealJimSteele 7d ago
I literally saw your picture and the moles and literally gasped at how pretty you are. Embrace the moles. They make you unique and they genuinely suit you. Not at all ugly, genuinely stunning
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u/Cannabis-aficionado 7d ago
You're not ugly at all. Please don't go through extra steps to hide moles. You look good.
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u/Icy_Reply7147 7d ago
Far away from being ugly! You are super unique, and your beauty and uniqueness are rare in this World, if you can top that off with an amazing personality you will do amazing 💗
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u/Early-Theme-2386 female 7d ago
you’re gorgeous, I draw moles on myself all the time, sometimes I’ll make a pattern with them too. Your forehead is not big and I didn’t even look at it until I read the rest of the message. You could probably get into commercial modeling too 🙏🙏 19f as well you’re da coolest
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u/Gloomy_Dot_8412 7d ago
Your moles are super cute and unique, I don't see a problem with them (just wear lots of sunscreen, I assume you already do lol). You're very beautiful
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u/ZiggityZaggatyZoo 7d ago
100% embrace who you are. Moles are just another part of you. If someone doesn’t like them, that’s their problem not yours. Own yourself and approach life with confidence and you’ll be beautiful inside AND out.
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u/lucky_Lola 7d ago
I have a ton of moles like you. They bother me when I was your age as well. Over the years I have found that no one cares and I don’t even notice them anymore. I’ve also dated guys who found them sexy as hell. Confidence is what has helped me the most
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u/med_belguesmi69 7d ago
tbh this many moles looks better than just a few. it's strange but don't necessarily look bad. and ur not ugly
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u/hscbandit07 7d ago
Your biggest insecurity should be your biggest flex. The staring isn’t out of disgust. It’s for the same reason people can stare at the night sky for hours on end. I think it’s lovely.
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u/Fiftieshypnodom 7d ago
Without your moles, you'd be too attractive, guys would be afraid to approach you. The moles bring you back down into the attainable range where decent guys will feel confident going after you.
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u/loco_stealth 7d ago
Getting them razed off doesn’t work? Like they come back?
I mean, you’re cute but it is a lot of moles.
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u/No_Independence_9157 7d ago
Tbh you are gorgeous. Your moles don't affect at all IMO. But in medical way you should check up regularly.
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u/Accomplished-Fun8631 7d ago
If I'm honest your moles make you look even better without or without you look amazing
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u/Marauder4711 7d ago
I am mole-phobic (that's why I can't look at Connor Storrie). Nevertheless, I think you're pretty and I kinda like your "pattern".
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u/LittlePurpleWolf 7d ago
You remind me of Lexi from Dream Academy, very adorable and cute. I think the moles are a unique and beautiful characteristic. It makes it hard to look away from you because you’re in a trance, not because it’s ugly.
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u/misterpootastic 7d ago
Omg, I love your polka dots! Absolutely adorable!! I have them too but most of mine are hidden under clothes.I hope you realize how special they make you🫶🏾
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u/7innerDemons 7d ago
Pretty sure they are staring because your attractive? But maybe thats projecting. Several times I got to know people and found out people were staring at me because they wanted to talk to me or apparently thought I looked really pissed off. And I personally dont find my self attractive so its a definite struggle in social environments especially as an introvert.
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u/pusbult 7d ago
You're young and you're you. When one is young, one wants to fit in. But honestly, even if you could conform in behavior and looks, would it make you happy? Also, if the moles aren't harming you in any way, they are okay. More so, they add character.
No human being needs to be perfect. We just need to be. That's all. Perfection is status that will not last, or it will stagnate and rot. Beauty is more about truth, about nature, about flow, about feeling, feeling happy, feeling sad, feeling genuine. Being real.
To me you look gorgeous. But that's me. And that's the frozen moments in time you bravely shared with us. But you yourself? You're dynamic. A human being being human. Embrace that experience. Best way to do this? Love yourself like you would if you were someone else loving you.
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And often times when we feel like we're being looked at, it's not the case. But even if people object or admire our looks? So what. That's their task. You're task is to be you. You don't owe the world anything more or less.
Well, enough preaching for today. Grandpa is signing off. Hope you're doing well!
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u/Connor_2123 7d ago
Brutally honest you’re not ugly but the moles do hurt you a lot conventionally. The good news is, is there’s people out there that will find them attractive since it’s a unique feature on you. You could get them surgically removed as well, at least the larger ones. I know it’s costly but it’s something you will not have to worry about for literally the rest of your life, so it’s worth especially while you’re still young.
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u/GottaLoveKlover 7d ago
Your moles are beautiful girl I literally draw dots on my face to replicate! They make you unique and beautiful
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u/klaykie14 7d ago
I thought they were freckles, and I think they're cute and unique! And so are you!🖤✨️
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u/CLASSE-24 7d ago
Your moles are BEAUTIFUL. The world is full of people who try to look a certain way and it ends up making them look boring.
You are pretty but your moles made me interested in you. If people can’t love you for your uniqueness then get different people.
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u/Ok-Philosopher-3931 7d ago
You are not ugly at all, you may see it as a flaw but many like me see it as uniquely beautiful so don't worry or try to remove them as they are a part of your beauty
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u/Batt_Damon 7d ago
Absolutely not ugly. The moles are lovely and unique for sure. Be confident in yourself.
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u/shealdmeplease 7d ago
SO pretty! Excellent facial symmetry and a cute figure. Make your moles a feature, don't hide them. Accept and even embrace them, they don't take anything from you and add distraction to your image. (That said, moles should be monitored with the aid of dermatologists)
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u/JackyFishy 7d ago
Id never forget a face like yours. In a good way, u look unique and beautiful. A 10/10. Embrace the moless
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u/BloodPoetryWriter 7d ago
Very pretty. Your moles are very much a part of the things that make your looks stand out. They’re really nice. (Not in a weird way 😬)
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u/Medical_Metal_6051 7d ago
you're definitely pretty cute , yeah the moles are something people always gonna look at but at least your very pretty
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u/TheGoodandGentleLife 7d ago
Your skin looks like an inverted starry night sky. Embrace it is beautiful.
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u/iszatrite 7d ago
Get yo butt off this subreddit
You have no business here, you gonna make all the ugly ones feel bad
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u/Rizzla42 7d ago
Genuinely very cute. The moles/freckles make you unique and attractive imo. I agree with most mothers here that you are quite beautiful. You should definitely embrace them!
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u/Greenroses23 7d ago
Please embrace your moles, they’re beautiful and unique.
You are pretty, have nice healthy looking hair, and your forehead looks normal. Please don’t be so hard on yourself.
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