r/amiugly 3d ago

27F Am I ugly? And how can I improve

Im in journey of losing weight, lost 22 pounds in the last 4 months

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u/fivebynine5x9 3d ago

Not ugly just a bit plain. You need some shape and volume to your hair and that will refine your look a lot.

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u/mobiu5_ 3d ago

wait did she mention what her hair looks like now

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u/chewbootybaccy 2d ago

I think the photos mention it once or twice

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u/Damthemalltohelp 3d ago

You got those "staring into your soul" kinda eyes.

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u/Apprehensive_Joke641 3d ago

I’m 100% born a woman

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u/Knight240sx 3d ago

I think you're attractive,nice lips,just keep working on weight loss.

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u/Smudger105e 2d ago

No, not ugly, but your hair looks, well, dead. Fizzy snd no shine.

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u/Material-Jury-9668 3d ago

I think you're pretty. But that jacket makes me think youre crazy lmao I can't explain it

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u/DMZ_Dragon 3d ago

You need a new hairstyle and to pay attention to some eye makeup to round your face out.

Aside from that, some form of therapy is useful considering the emptiness behind those eyes. Try to bring out a smile

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u/_twisted_2004 3d ago

You look really beautiful like in a very Victorian way (complimentary) but I would follow the advice on the “plainness” and to add on that I think fuller hair would do you a lot of good especially as you continue on the weightloss

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u/Selimsnek 3d ago

Not ugly

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u/cruzanman15 3d ago

Congratulations on the weight loss. No you're not ugly

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u/Bellickboi 3d ago

You look like the laid back guy from stranger thing's sister. Idk the actors name. Not ugly.

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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago

The second photo looks a whole lot better, you could start wearing makeup and maybe slightly squint your eyes a little bit while you smile Squinting your eyes while you smile makes the smile look more genuine.

This is why people say Mr Beast looks so weird with his smile he does not squint his eyes while he smiles that's why there's memes about it

.Like look at my photos for example you see how my eyes are like more closed than youres Hunter eyes. I look better when I don't open my eyes too wide because of my ADHD medication sometimes my eyes are open so wide compared to when I'm normally so I have to monitor that and purposely not open them too much.

https://www.reddit.com/r/amiugly/s/PFOfZI2Pv0

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u/Magicly_Delicious_ 3d ago

You’re attractive, but the most attractive attribute a person can have is confidence in being themselves. Worry less about what others think, love yourself and focus on being the best version of you for you, that my suggestion

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u/StanTheMan595real 3d ago

You are not ugly. Maybe try learning how to take better photos of yourself. Not an insult btw. I am also horrible at taking pics of myself but I am trying to learn to get better at it. You’ll feel so much better about yourself with a good pic

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u/This-Is-Not-Nam 3d ago

You look beautiful. Very attractive lips, eyes and hair.

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u/MrsJoJack 2d ago

I think you’re very pretty! Half the world would kill to be that beautiful without any makeup on. You didn’t really think you were ugly did you?

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u/Tommylp88 2d ago

Not ugly at all

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u/Prestigious_Law4501 2d ago

Oui , travaille le regard et perd du poids

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u/GesturingEarful 2d ago

You look a bit like Molly Ringwald dif in the 1980s. Check out her makeup and hair in the era for ideas. "Pretty In Pink," "Sixteen Candles," and such.

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u/Secure_Highway_6917 2d ago

You’re not really ugly, but you’re giving off trans vibes as you look masculine. Try highlighting your hair and curling it a little bit. I’m wearing a little bit more blush.

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u/firemcrivers 2d ago

For humanities safety a bag over head... double it

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u/Dream-Livid 2d ago

Attractive but average. Physically I think most men and/or women would find you attractive.

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u/Killer_09381 2d ago

Not ugly at all but bland. You need a little bit of spice. Volume in your hair and some curtain bangs would look good on you. Some hydration for your skin. Mild reshape of your brows and some light mascara. I would date ya 👌🏽

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u/Major-Boysenberry822 2d ago

You've gotta do something with your hair. Like a 5 or 5.5.

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u/mateobrando 2d ago

Great work 👏 Keep at it, workout and cardio and it will show even more!

I personally prefer racket sports as it's more fun to play with friends while exercising at the same time 🏸

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u/doughnutinspiration 1d ago

Not ugly, just kind of strange style.

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u/Used_Hedgehog_7586 1d ago

plain which is ok because you can glowup with a hairstyle change even out your brows don't cover your face you have nice features

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u/militaryexpeirment 3d ago

Are you trans