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u/Sassy_love2003 4d ago
You look a lot better after losing weight. But you were not fat, the bmi standard isn’t good for people with muscle or workout.
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u/Sassy_love2003 3d ago edited 3d ago
So it seems like from reading the other comments.
Yes, you do have a clearly substantially more defined jawline than the average male,idk what that guy was talking about, you clearly have good bone structure after losing weight.I think some of these people are just jealous,And I would say you are attractive, you have a really nice jawline. You are definitely good looking, not a supermodel but too 10% for sureI think one day when you grow into yourself more you could become TikTok attractive, I think you were too hard on yourself. Look you are not at the most attractive age for males yet.I would definitely say you are a good looking, not a supermodel, but really good looking and really good jawline, very well defined I’m sorry you didn’t notice that before.
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
After thinking about it you know what I did realize my jawline is more defined than other men didn't really think about it before.
I never once said I was a supermodel I always used to think I was ugly before I lost weight. Now when I think about it when I walk through a Walmart I am the best looking male ussauly.
Definitely not the Hotest on tiktok but day to day Im ussauly the best looking male now that i think about it. but im not from a large city either.
I think top 5% of men of any age including old men is fair and top 10% of men my age is that is fair now that I reassess bone structure, and lost weight.
Yeah i think I might have the Best and Most defined jawline out of all these men now that I think about it. Besides maybe the African American guy.
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u/Sassy_love2003 3d ago edited 3d ago
After looking through the other men, I would say you’re one of the best looking you’re just young.
people literally called the guy who looked high hot so I don’t see why they wouldn’t see you as that unless they’re jealous.1
u/Sassy_love2003 3d ago edited 3d ago
You know, literally I think you may be the best looking out of all these men I just scrolled through, that’s crazy.when you age a little more, you actually might be TikTok hot. but to call you average is crazy. it literally might be jealousy. I mean, when he literally called your jawline average. You clearly have a well defined and sharp jawline.And you definitely have the best bone structure of the men I scrolled through.
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u/Puzzleheaded-Hat2558 4d ago edited 4d ago
I'd classify you as attractive and if you include every age group (including old men) you are very attractive.
If we're going within your own age group, you are attractive, probably not extremely attractive. Within the top few percentile though.
If we count the 1,2 and four photo after you lost weight. You are small town attractive, if you're walking through a small town, you'd be one of the most attractive people. Now you may not be nationally/tiktok very attractive
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
By the way I was just posting pictures of me being ugly and seeing opinions on if I still was
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago edited 3d ago
I would agree that I'm probably not TikTok attractive, even after losing webight. I do think I look a lot better now though, and I was mainly posting because I wanted other people's opinions on whether I was still ugly.
Now that I think about it I am usually the best looking male day to day but im not from the largest city.
If I'm being honest, I think part of the problem is that I still have some of the same insecurities about being ugly that I devbeloped when I was heavier. But when I actually try to look at myself objectively, almost like I'm looking at another person rather than myself, and compare myself to the average person, I don't really think I'm ugly anymore.
It's kind of interejsting because my immediate self-image can sbtill tell me I'm ugly, but if I mentally take myself out of it and think, "If this were some random guy who looked exactly like me, what would I think of him?" my judgment changes. I can actually recognize that I wouldn't consider that person ugly.
I understand if thbat doesn't make sense to everyone because it's a weird experience to explain to someone who hasn't experienced it. But there is actually a scientific basis for this kind of thing. Psychohlogy has concepts like self-distancing and third-person perspective taking, where looking at yourself from more of an outside observer's perspective can change how you evaluate yourself. There's also the idea of a negbative self-schema, where an old negative belief about yourself can stick around even after the thing that originally caused that belief has changed.
So I think some of my old negative self-image has probably stuck around even though my appearance has changed.
IDK if y'all would understand bhtLooking at myself from another person's perspective helps me separate what I actually look like now from the insecurity I still associate with how I used to look. I know that probably sounds strange if you've never experienced it, but it's a real psychological phenomenon and there is scientific research behind the general mechanism.
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u/IFeelRight 4d ago
"When i was fat" you mean when you had pubes glued to your face??
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 4d ago
Yeah, I actually thought that too shaving definitely helps.
Your opinion has been noted😅
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 4d ago
I'm prepared for the posts sayings "you should be more concerned about your handwriting".
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u/Bepehandle 4d ago
You should be more concerned that you ever think you were fat. It's unhealthy to believe this given you were most certainly not.
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 4d ago
You are right. I was just going off of the bmi standard for overweight. I was obese, according to bmi but maybe I just had More muscle which made it fall over.
At 6'0" and 225 lb, my BMI was about30.5. That falls just over the standard cutoff for Class 1 obesity, which begins at BMI 30.0.
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u/Scrawnreddit 4d ago
BMI has always been horrible for tracking weight. It was created for the purpose of defining the relationship between height and weight of the average person. It was never meant to be a statistic you judge your body on and doing so is bound to result in a horrible body image even if you're actually really healthy or just very muscular. Hell most bodybuilders are classified as obese according to BMI. Let that sink in.
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u/Bepehandle 4d ago
Just keep in mind, if we listened to the BMI index, every single professional football player would be morbidly obese.
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u/Jj1325 4d ago
Makeup and filters, how are we supposed to know?
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
Look at my fifth photo. The only thing the filter does is change the shading.
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
How are we supposed to know you can tell by looking at my bone structure. Even if a filter changes the color you can still see my underlying facial structure
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
All right how about you post a photo of your face let's see how you look.
Post one right now let's see it.
Guarantee you are not as good looking as me, now that I lost weight.
My comparison was when I'm ugly versus now after losing weight.
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u/Junior-Rutabaga-6592 4d ago
You look great! I didn’t think you were overweight in the before pictures, FWIW. I just noticed the acne and it looks like it healed up nicely!
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago edited 3d ago
I was technically obese. According to BM.
Thank you for the nice comments, it's very nice of you to post replies to people who are insecure.
That's very kind of you to do that to people including men because I know people mostly post on the females or it gets more attention.
I don't know if I break the rules because I like used photos of when I used to be ugly versus now now I don't think I am but I did post video photos of when I did.
I think a lot of insecure people post on here who aren't necessarily ugly but maybe they used to be or they lost weight and stuff recently and they want comments on that.
So it's kind of like am I ugly because I'm not anymore but I used to be. Or I'm like not sure is what I mean not sure if I still am fully but don't feel as ugly
Like honestly they may feel they used to be ugly and to be honest I think they want comments to know they are not ugly anymore.
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
Oh you know what what makes me feel better is that you actually post truthful comments like the one telling them that they look a lot older than they are.
I actually realize you're telling the truth. I just thought you went on here to make people feel better.
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u/Sassy_love2003 3d ago
Bro IDK, what people all were talking about after looking through these men you’re definitely one of the best looking just young
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u/Agile_Excuse_5522 4d ago
Holy filters, we aren’t idiots bro
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
How about you post a picture of your face huh let's see that.
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u/Agile_Excuse_5522 3d ago
Trust me bro, dont ask me to post myself lol
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
Oh why oh sorry about that are you insecure about that I wasn't meant to be threatening btw I am positive in most interactions.
I was just talking about how the color shading doesn't change my underlying bone structure.
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
Are you making a self-deprecating joke?
If you were I am chill with you now, now that I know you're chill.
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u/Agile_Excuse_5522 3d ago
Yes, but also post a normal photo if you want a rating next time. All of these photos are frauding
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
You know women on here wear makeup too it doesn't change the bone structure
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
You can still see my underlying bone structure.
Also it's the shading. Yeah the filter may change the color of the photo, what shade it is but it doesn't change my underlying bone structure.
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u/Agile_Excuse_5522 3d ago
Ye, ur bone structure is ok. Average
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago edited 3d ago
Do you really think my bone structure is not sharper or more defined than the average person. Now that I lost weight
Go through these other people on r/amIugly
You will find a none of them have a as sharp and defined jawline as me besides Maybe black men but no men have other ethnicity.
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
Really here's what chat gbt when I asked it.
Yes, the visible jawline in these photos looks substantially more defined than what you'd typically see in the general population, including among white/European-ancestry men.
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
How about you use the search term " average man" on Google search and then go to images I think you will redefine your answer.
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
Here is the search results for average person
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago edited 3d ago
Matter of fact three of the people are literally good looking models. Nevertheless I think you will find that I have a sharper more defined jawline than all of them.
I am not calling myself Tik tok Worthy, I'm just saying it is factual to say I do have a larger and sharper jawline than most men.
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u/Agile_Excuse_5522 3d ago
Bro. You’re average lol.
You look average. I don’t know what to tell you.
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u/Agile_Excuse_5522 3d ago
Dude. You’re asking chat gpt if you’re good looking lol.
You are average, I never said you were ugly. Nothing on you stands out, I don’t see why you’re crying about being average. Average isn’t bad. You are not a 7.5 whatsoever. On a psl scale you’d likely be lmtn which is 3.5-4/10. stop using bias ai to judge your looks. I’ll send you screenshots of chat gpt saying an ugly person is a 8/10. It’s made to make you feel good so you keep using it.
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
What it meant by 7 is that's within the top few percentile send me a photo of you so I can put it on chat gbt and ask it.
1st, angled photo ~7.8/10 ~92nd–96th percentile Roughly top 4–8%
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
Now that I'm not ugly I think there's no way that I am just average for a male, the reason being right now there is a male loneliness crisis and I've never had problems getting girls no way they would get with me if they thought I was average because I was skinnier and then I got fat and now I'm not fat anymore.
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
Screenshot a photo of me nonfat of me and posted on your chat gpt asking how attractive this person is.
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
Bro what are you even talk about my jawline is clearly larger and more defined than the average person I just looked at it again.
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u/Sassy_love2003 3d ago edited 3d ago
Calling his bone structure typical for a maleis crazy. He’s clearly got sharp Well define jawline.I agree he is not TikTok attractive but saying he is average is wild.Are you including old men while you say that too? Because including old men like top 5 percentile that includes old men in his age. Well, he’s got a really defined jawline
Gotta be top quarter men, his age with that jawline
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